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Deanna Mascle on LifeDeanna Mascle (4,422)    Renaissance Woman Online Dare to Dream and Learn More - Develop A Creative Headspace and Action PlanPosted Sunday, December 21, 2008 (322 days 11 hours ago.) Viewed 22 times. Believe Believe, in yourself and your abilities. You don't need to impress anyone. You don't even need to share your dreams at the beginning, you just need to allow yourself to dream. Even if you don't have a clue about how you will achieve your dream, believe, relax, act and let it happen. It is the journey which is the achievement. Find Your Compelling Moment What's affecting your life today? Are your time poor? Do you feel your life lacks meaning? Do you want to leave a legacy? You can be sure you're not alone. What have you seen, heard or read about lately which really grabbed your interest? Not necessarily the overwhelming "bad news", but something where you can make a difference. Something you would be proud to share with Oprah on her show, something important to you, something which makes you feel empowered. Discover Your Passion Whether you love painting, cooking, knitting, beading, jewelry making, scrap booking, woodworking, home decorating, gardening, sewing, writing or any of the other many arts, crafts, hobbies or pursuits, you can weave it into your lifestyle in some way. Perhaps you can make gifts for your family and friends. Your passion can be a solitary activity aimed at personal satisfaction or something you can share. Learn From The Experts While you don't want to copy anyone, and you need to express your own originality, you can get lots of ideas, techniques and motivation from others. Who are the experts in your passion? Google them, read up on what they are doing, find out about the next big trend. Be inspired to adapt your skills to a hot new project. Easy Research Use the best research tool ever created. The internet. The volume of knowledge at your fingertips is astounding, whole libraries, personal experiences, technical data, ideas, opinions, facts, instructions and misinformation. It's all there to be used as you see fit. Can It Change Your Life (Or Someone Elses)? Many a small project has taken on a life of it's own and grown into something the originator never dreamed was possible. Can you use your skills to develop a community project or your own small business? Remember that shared experiences grow exponentially. Blend and Twist No, this is not a knitting pattern. It's a way of thinking. Your experiences don't exist in isolation. Blend your life experiences, intertwine them through your actions. You may have an inspiration for a creative project, or have the desire to share your skills and knowledge with others, and in the process improve your own lifestyle as well as the lives of others. Share Your Passion Write about it or take a video to show how it's done. Start your own blog. In the process you will learn new skills which you can further share. It's a process without an end, but which is full of the satisfaction of achievement. Decide, and Take Control If things are moving too slowly for you, discuss your passion with someone close to you, someone supportive. Talking about it will make it real. Use life's challenges to advance yourself. Indecision and inaction are decisions in themselves, and means that nothing changes. Decide and take action. This means you have taken control over your dreams. Taking these steps can help you learn more and be more so your life can be more fulfilling, satisfying and happy. Find out how you can learn more and improve your life at http://learn-more.info 
Permalink Comments (2) Inspiration Can Help You Cope With Stress In Your LifePosted Monday, October 13, 2008 (1 year 26 days ago.) Viewed 21 times. Stress can be good for you or it can be bad for you. There are both positive and negative stressors in life. Good or positive stressors can be things like going on vacation, putting on a party, a close baseball game, meeting a deadline, getting married, a job interview or winning a lottery. All of the former can cause stress, but usually you get feelings of increased energy and excitement. Good stress can pump you up and help get your creative juices going. Some stress is healthy and necessary. Everyone has a different threshold for stress. One person may respond quite differently to the same situation than another. For example, someone being cut off in traffic can create a stressful response in one person and quite a different response in another. This depends on the attitudes and viewpoints we have taken on in our lifetime. One person may react with road rage shaking fists at the perpetrator; while another will rationalize that perhaps this person didn't notice me or is in an extreme hurry and just slough it off. The latter is the healthier response. Stress can either invigorate you or zap you of energy. Some symptoms of bad stress or "distress" are being tired all the time, always on edge with a short fuse, depression, change in sleeping patterns, frequent headaches, sore shoulders and neck, changes in weight patterns, relationship problems, diarrhea, dry mouth, sweaty palms and tight throat to name a few. Your body will let you know that you are under too much stress. Pay attention to what your body is telling you. Consistent distress (bad stress) can lead to physical illness such as high blood pressure, heart disease and anxiety. Stress is like a guitar string, if you have the right amount of tension you can play beautiful music, but too tight a string and it can snap! This is when people have nervous breakdowns. They overload with distress and have no way to cope with all the bad stress in their life. Remember stressors are the situations that happen to you on a daily basis i.e.: being cut off in traffic. The degree of stress you experience is your own response to that stressor. You must adapt to the stressors of daily life. There are many demands to life that we have to deal with on a daily basis such as working, raising children, getting along with our spouses and the people around us, finances, illness, ageing, isolation, lack of friends, everyday events in the world, etc. It can be tough, but we must deal with it or it will deal with us. If you are over stressed you must get support from your doctor, friends and family or a psychologist. It is healthy to reach out! You may think that this is just simple common sense, but sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees and the obvious is not always visible, when someone is in the middle of distress or a crisis in ones life. Do you need inspiration to help you cope with the stress in your life? Then find more inspiration here http://daily-quote.net/
Permalink Comments (0) Family Life Today - Halloween Family FunPosted Monday, October 06, 2008 (1 year 33 days ago.) Viewed 105 times. The traditional Halloween celebrations come round every October 31st, and these days those who enjoy the festivities the most are the children. Halloween is a time to dress up in fancy dress and take to the streets trick or treating. Some families go to a lot of trouble decorating their homes and front yards in a ghostly and eerie Halloween theme. Halloween is a traditional Celtic festival, and has survived through the ages most strongly in the Celtic communities in Ireland, Scotland and Wales. From there, with emigration, Halloween has spread around the world, most notably to America. In recent years, the spread of popular American culture has introduced a further expansion of interest in Halloween to fresh places, such as Asia and Western Europe. The original Celtic celebrations were pagan festivities related to the changing seasons as winter approached. Traditionally it was a time when the living could communicate with the dead, and magic was abroad. The early Christian church, as with many pagan festivals, absorbed these celebrations into the Christian calendar. All Saints Day, also known as All Hallows Day, was set down for November 1st. All Hallows Evening, the night of October 31st, became known as Hallow E'en, later just Halloween, and the time for the traditional celebrations. Halloween celebrations were a community event, and there was usually a bonfire and fun games. The apple harvest was in full swing, and games such as trying to eat an apple on a string or floating in a barrel of water without using your hands, were popular. Children would go from door to door to gather fruit, nuts and other goodies for the festivities, which was the origin of the "treating" visits of today. In most places, especially in Scotland, the children would sing or put on a performance in return for the treats they collected. Today the treats collected are more likely to be candies and sweets, and sometimes money. Halloween "tricks" were originally secret and often witty pranks played on some adults by children, with the blame being placed on the mischievous spirits that were said to be abroad on Halloween. This practice was especially popular in Ireland. At some stage long in the past, tricks and treating merged into a choice: give a treat or become the victim of a trick. This unfortunate development led to such practices as throwing eggs at houses and soaping windows, and worse. Today these excesses are rare. Halloween parties are often held with a haunted house theme decoration. To the delight of children, Halloween menu items often include tomato soup renamed as vampire soup, spaghetti dishes renamed with cemetery humor as worms, and the ever-popular breadsticks tipped with sliced almonds and known as witches' fingers. With so many pumpkins being made into carved jack-o-lanterns, pumpkin dishes such as pumpkin pie are often a feature of Halloween menus. Over the last few years, the magical themes of the popular Harry Potter books have added fresh fun to costumes and decorations for children's Halloween parties. Halloween costume parties have also become popular events for adults as well in recent years. They are a great excuse to dress up and have fun. It seems the trend today is for any costume to be acceptable, not necessarily just the traditional witches, vampires and ghosts of Halloween. Costume design inspirations are now drawn from many sources, such as recent movies and television series. Some costumes are just witty, such as the seasonally appropriate theme of a leaf blower, consisting just of a leaf suspended from the brim of a cap where it can be blown. Learn more about family life today at http://officialfamily.info/
Permalink Comments (0) Free Parenting Tips To Prepare For A Spelling TestPosted Monday, September 29, 2008 (1 year 40 days ago.) Viewed 123 times. Learning to spell words correctly is an important skill that will help students throughout their life. It helps with both reading and writing which are essential skills for success in today's world. This is why the weekly spelling test is such a staple at schools throughout the United States. Knowing it is important is no consolation to those many students who struggle to learn spelling words each week or worse fail those spelling tests. What can parents do to help their children better prepare for those spelling tests? There are three simple strategies to helping children master their weekly spelling words -- read, say, and write. Most children receive their spelling words on Monday so the work should begin Monday afternoon or evening. Today you will set the foundation for the week's work. Have the child read the list through and study each word. Then have the child say each word and spell it for you from the written list. Finally, have the child write each word three times. Now put the list away for the day. When children struggle with spelling it often helps for you to show the child the patterns that can be found in the word list and carefully go over the words that break that pattern. Show the child how to sound out a word and give them clues that will help them remember. Demonstrate how acrobat can be broken into ac-ro-bat, for example. On Tuesday you will likely want to repeat the same activities unless you feel the child is comfortable with the words and then you can skip ahead to the next day's activities. The intent of these first two days is simply to familiarize the child with the words without placing any pressure on her. Wednesday it is time to see how well the child knows the words. Give the child a written spelling test and then check the words. Have the child write each word that is missed three times. Then give the child an oral spelling test on the words that were missed. If the child stumbles on any of the words then spell the word with the child. Now put the list away for the day. Thursday can be easy or challenging depending on the words that week and the child's success with them. If the child is still struggling with several words then simply repeat the Wednesday activities. Try to do so as early as possible to give you time to work with the child on a couple words throughout the evening. Remember to emphasize the patterns and clues that you discussed earlier in the week. Friday is the big day and the moment of truth to see if all your child's hard work has paid off. Try to allow extra time before school to go over the words again. If the child's confidence is low then do not test, simply spell the words out loud with the child. If you drive your child to school this is a great activity for the car. Find more free parenting tips at http://officialfamily.info
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