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Is Life A Series of Choices? The Law Of Success

Posted Saturday, June 16, 2007 (2 years 163 days ago.) Viewed 211 times.

What your mind can conceive and believe it will achieve.

When you program your mind for success you will achieve the results; that were programmed internally. Dreamer’s never sleep with their eyes closed.

About 4 years ago, I was on vacation sitting next to a father and his son. We were on a bus tour looking at homes of the "rich & famous." I couldn't help but overhear the conversation taking place in the seat next to mine. It went something like this: "Would you look at those houses, son... This is as close as we'll ever get. Can you even imagine?" If you can’t imagine it you are setting yourself up for failure...

While listening, I was struck by the distinct difference in our thinking. The father spoke to his son as if their life would never give them that opportunity. Their fate was sealed, and all they could do was look.

On the other hand, I believed that if I wanted it and was willing to work hard for it, I could achieve it some day. The “American Dream" is still alive and well for those who desire it.

If you find yourself as the person gazing through the window at what you'll never have, you need to change your mentality. You need to begin to focus on what you can have, and what you will achieve.

What is the difference between wanting and desiring? If you desire it, you will work hard to get it; if want something, the need will eventually go away. Ask, believe and you shall receive.

Attaining success both financially and emotionally is possible with a home-based business. It is up to you to go after it. Some have the desire; others have the want. Where do you fit in?

I think Hal Urban says it best when he discusses life, money, success and the ability to choose in his book, "Life's Greatest Lessons: 20 Things that Matter." Mr. Urban writes:

"Life is a series of choices…

Look around you. What is happening in the lives of a large percentage of this country? Nothing much. And, whether they realize it or not, it's the result of choices: the choice to take what comes, the choice to let things happen, the choice to settle for less, the choice to let others do their thinking, the choice to merely exist from one day to the next."

Reading this statement was a defining moment for me. Life is a series of choices. You can either sit back and take what life deals you, or you can fight back, take charge, and determine your own path.

If you want and believe in something, you must take the next step and go after it. We need to put our plans in action. The greatest baseball players don’t get on base every time…but they keep on improving their swing, so they may reach their goal.

To put this in perspective, I distinctly remember sitting with a friend who was discussing her financial woes. This person was stuck in a rut, both mentally and financially. I began to discuss the possibility of a home-based business as a possible outlet.

How did my friend respond? By saying, "I hate to stay at home. I could never do that… I would be bored to tears." And, in the very next breath, she was complaining again about not having enough money or job satisfaction.

So, there you go. A choice was made. She chooses to let her current situation continue to drain her instead of choosing to make a change to improve her future.

Life should not be dictated to you. It is a series of choices. It is there for you to make the most of.

What do you choose? If you choose failure; you are destined for a setback.

Right here at this website, I am offering you information about a business that you can operate from the comfort of your own home that is truly changing lives, including my own and countless others.

I have taken the initiative and have taken steps towards changing my future. I have gained tremendous personal development throughout the process. Remember: it is much easier to move forward in your journey towards personal development and find renewed confidence when you don't have the burden of debt, bills, and financial pressures weighing you down.

Here are things to take into consideration when beginning your journey towards getting all that you want out of life: Many will follow but a few will take the initiative and lead.

Open your mind and be willing to reach towards new goals and dreams
Don't let fear be a part of the equation. Fear is debilitating, and can hinder you in everything you do in life. Disable that fear! Quiet it with renewed spirit and confidence by moving forward with your financial and emotional goals.
Openly accept change and welcome self-discovery
Be aware of your surroundings; appreciate the opportunities that life presents you.

Human potential is an amazing vehicle. With this business opportunity, you will be working closely with a group of individuals who truly care whether you make it - both financially as well as personally. It is not just about making the "quick buck" (although financial freedom is certainly a main ingredient!) It is also about finding inner peace and emotional stability.

I encourage you to take that first step towards finding peace of mind, contentment, and a renewed confidence. Don't discount the role that financial freedom has to do with these important values. Free yourself from the burden of debt or financial worry. Afford the luxury to choose your direction and set your path.

Life has always been a series of choices, which one will you choose? It was once said “The journey of a thousand miles begins with that first step". Dr. Sran provides a true one on one approach to financial freedom. Feel free to call him for a consultation.

Wishing You Life's Best,

Dr. Paul Sran, MBA, Ph.D.

Author/Success Coach

www.yoursuccessdoctor.com

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dr.sran@professional-income.com

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What are the tokens of Success? Do you possess the Qualities of Success?

Posted Thursday, June 07, 2007 (2 years 172 days ago.) Viewed 374 times.

When we think about "Entrepreneurs" what's the first thing that comes to your mind? Do you think success, money, risk taker, I think you get the point. So the question is "What are the tokens of Success"? Do you possess the Qualities of Success?

You've probably seen the bumper stickers that say "Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way." While the bumper sticker may be directed at the dreamer doing 10 miles less than the speed limit in the left lane, it also applies to everyone's life. Most people are followers, but others are leaders. They want to be at the helm of their own ship, charting the course that their lives will take. Some are leaders while others merely watch from the sidelines. (10% of the people make things happen, 5% watch things happen, while 85% say what happened.

They are most likely ENTREPRENEURS - people who have what it takes to start and succeed at their own businesses. Many consider it the "American Dream".

What qualities are the true tokens of successful entrepreneurs? Thousands of books and articles have been written on the subject. There is even a Chicken Soup for the Entrepreneur's Soul and an annual event called "Entrepalooza" at the University of Michigan, where successful business owners relate their secrets. It turns out, though, that just about everyone who takes on the challenge of owning their own business has certain qualities. Let's discuss the following qualities; you can be the judge.

1. They have a dream. It can be anything from wanting to make a living from a hobby to wanting to find a way to spend more time with their families. Along with their dreams comes the foresight to see a need for something or a problem that needs solving, and finding a way to supply that need or solve that problem. Instead of saying, "Someone will probably invent a way to make a profit from that," the entrepreneur says, "I'M going to be the one who finds a way to make a profit from that." What your mind can conceive and believe it will ultimately achieve...

2. They visualize success. Lots of us have thoughts and ideas of how we'd like our lives to change. We say, "If only I could find a decent job," or "If only I could lose 20 pounds." Entrepreneurs don't just think about it. They see it. They spend a great deal of time "seeing success." If the goal is to spend more time with family, the entrepreneur sees himself or herself working at home, hears one of the children say "Mom, I'm so glad you don't go away to work anymore," and feels what reaching the goal is like. This "positive thinking" technique has been around for a long time-and it still works. It helps create faith in yourself, and that is a prerequisite for anyone even thinking about starting a business. They never stop using this visualization process: It keeps goals shining brightly, and for the entrepreneur, there are always new goals to reach for. The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step, as it was once said.

3. They're good listeners and observers. Aki Morita, who founded Sony, got the idea for the infamous Sony Walkman when he got tired of listening to teenagers blasting music from their boom-boxes. He knew he wasn't the only one bothered by the noise. By listening to what people are saying and observing what they're doing (or not doing), the entrepreneur identifies what people want. Lots of people.

They also listen to advice. While it's great to have people cheering you on, entrepreneurs find a wealth of knowledge in the doom-and-gloomers. They present the possible downsides, providing the business owner with some new ideas to think about as they develop their business plan. They read books and listen to motivational CDs. They stay psyched up for success by learning new skills and staying on top of technology.

4. They're good organizers. Once a new entrepreneur develops an idea and begins visualizing a goal, he or she makes a plan. They know they can't just plunge in and hope for the best. They do research, find out what others in similar businesses are doing, and find mentors who can help them figure out what steps they need to take to begin reaching for their goals and dreams. They find out how much money they need, what kind of equipment is essential, and if they will need to hire people or can go it alone. Ultimately, they consider all of the information and advice they've gathered and make their own decisions, taking the best ideas from each source.

5. They're focused. Once the course is charted, the work begins. There will be phone calls, e-mails, and paperwork. There will be days when nothing goes right, and when obstacles seem insurmountable. But because entrepreneurs are, above all, problem solvers who love a challenge, they have the courage and perseverance to keep going. They bounce back from failure like super-balls hitting the sidewalk. They keep their organizational plans in mind, and keep striving to achieve each step, one at a time.

6. They don't believe failure is an option. To be successful in your own business, you must believe 100% that you will succeed at what you are doing. You must have faith in your own ability to make things happen. You must believe that your idea is really a good one that will help other people or make the world better in some way. Sometimes, it simply takes guts-like the quarterback who decides to run the ball and, against all odds, scrambles over the pileup and scores a touchdown.

7. They have self-discipline. Running your own business doesn't mean that you can mosey down to your home office at 10 AM, go to lunch at noon, and take the afternoon off. Just like at a regular job, entrepreneurs work hard. In fact, many put in more hours and work harder than they did when they were someone's employee. But it's easier to put in the extra hour or two when you have a passion for what you are doing, a roadmap for where you're going, and the confidence that you will achieve success.

Are you tired of working for someone else? Do YOU have what it takes to be an entrepreneur? If you believe in yourself, then call Dr. Sran for a consultation. Act now or risk being left behind.