Change Your Frequency Change Your Life

Resonance is two similar frequencies which lock together in harmony. One frequency can control another frequency, bring another frequency back into balance or just add to the strength of another as in a group of "like minded" people resonating together for a common cause.

As a good example of one frequency controlling another, let's look at the first TV remote control created in the early 1950's and in existence up to the early 1980's. It used ultrasonic (above normal human hearing) frequencies in the remote. Some people were able to hear the sound from the remote, which sounded like a click, hence the term "clicker" which has been an enduring name for the remote.

The early remotes only had a few functions, such as power on/off and volume control and not much more. Each function had its own aluminum rod in the remote of varying size, which emitted an ultrasonic frequency when a tiny hammer struck the rod. This is exactly how a tuning fork works. The signal created by the remote would be received by the television and would activate its requested function. This works because each frequency emitted by the remote was different and would only resonate with its closest matching frequency in the TV set.

Resonance is also known as rhythm entrainment or sympathetic vibration. When two frequency waves lock together they are said to be entrained. Both frequencies will oscillate together at the same frequency. The resulting wave is a combination of the two original waves: it has the same frequency but has increased amplitude. In sound waves, increased amplitude means louder sound or volume due to the increased energy.

Another example of this is being in a store which sells grandfather clocks. When the various clocks are wound up, they would each have a different tick-tock swing of the pendulum which would be out of sync with each other. But as time passes the gap between each would be lessened until each would be swinging in perfect unison. At this point they have become rhythm entrained and are in perfect "resonance". The frequency with the most power would be the catalyst to entrain the others, and then the more that join that would gain more momentum and would be easier to entrain others matching frequencies. This is why a group of anything that is in resonance is more powerful than just one single item or person.

Frequencies which do not resonate are in disharmony or dissonance with each other. They are not on the same wavelength. When people do not understand each other while communicating, this is because they are not resonating with each other. In order to understand something fully you need to resonate with the teacher or person providing the information. Sometimes it takes some time being around someone before you become entrained to their vibrations and are able to communicate effectively.

This is why sometimes you may feel negative "vibes" from someone. You are not resonating at their lower frequency. This also happens in the reverse. It is a good idea to raise your frequency as much as you can, as the earth's frequency is also rising. During this time in our evolution, the earth is going through many changes, some natural and many unnaturally caused by pollution and many generations of people not caring that what they did affected the earth. It has pretty much always been a mentality of well I don't need to worry about that now, as it will only affect people or the earth way in the future. Well the future has now collided with the NOW. It is all our responsibilities to raise our frequency which will in turn not only help out society and ourselves, but the earth as well, raising all of our frequencies in turn. We are all intimately connected; one cannot survive without the other.  To learn more visit http://www.frequencyawareness.com

This question comes up a lot from our clients especially around the holidays.  The question presents with a lot of guilt and shame.

Simply we get along with people because we resonate with them.  We attract people of like frequency, therefore we resonate with them.  We feel comfortable around them, desire their company and so on.  When we are around people who are not at the same frequency we are, we are not comfortable and do not intend to "hang out" with them.

Clients notice that once they begin the clearing sessions they begin to attract new people, new events and new opportunities into their life experience.  People begin to fall away and this happens because the clearings remove old energetic imprint baggage and literally shifts the clients energetic field from a lower resonating field to one that is of a higher frequency.

As a result, when we get together with family or friends etc, the gathering can be very uncomfortable for EVERYONE.  You no longer resonate with your family and vice versa.  This is one of the major reasons why there is so much drama at family gatherings because people are not resonating with one another. Families have a tendency to try and stay together and this forces people to try and get along with one another and so the drama begins!

Bottom line, if two people or a group of people do not share like frequencies, they will not resonate with one another period.  This is why people fall in and out of  love with one another.  They shared the same frequency at one time and then one of them went higher or lower in frequency and as a result, they no longer resonate.

I invite you to look at everything in your life from a frequency standpoint, when you do this, there is no room for guilt or shame. After all everything is frequency  and when your Change Your Frequency You Change Your Life.  Discover more at http://www.frequencyawareness.com

Life without a doubt challenges each one of us with events that occur in ways where we label it as not having a choice. For example, Being laid off from work, the car breaking down, a natural disaster like a flood etc. however we do have a choice. We always have a choice over how we respond to the said event. We can choose to see things that feel like, and seem to be, tragic as opportunities for growth. We can choose to focus on the glass half full and be grateful for it or to focus on the half that is empty and be a victim of it. We have the Free Will choice as to where we focus our minds.

Empowerment is seeing reality as it really is, owning the choices you have, and making the best of it with the support of a Loving God Force. There is incredible power in the simple words "I Choose". All of us have been trained to be victims, consider how often you have said, or heard someone say, "I have to go to work tomorrow." When we use the language of "I have to" we are making a victim statement.

As long as we look outside of our Self to find out who we are, to define ourselves and give us self-worth, we are setting ourselves to be victims. We are taught at such an early age to look outside ourselves; to people, places, things, to money, property, and prestige, for fullfillment and happiness. THIS DOES NOT WORK and it does not serve us. We cannot fill the hole within with anything outside of the Self. Bottom line, you can get all the money, property, and prestige in the world, have everyone in the world Love you, but if you are not a Peace within, if you do not LOVE and ACCEPT yourself, none of it will work to make you happy.

When we look outside for self-definition and self-worth, we are giving power away and setting ourselves up to be victims. All of society is trained to be victims and we are taught to give our power away.

Everyone inherits victimization from the Parental/Ancestral lines as well as what we are taught growing up. Victimization can be removed from your Energy field. The following are some words and phrases we usually say when we are unconsciously firing victimization patterns.

It's your fault

But I did the best I could.

This is happening because you did not help me.

I am sooo disappointed.

It's OK I will sacrifice myself for you.

This always happens to me.

What's the point?

I can't its a rainy day.

She told me to do it.

You don't understand me.

He makes me angry.

I have always been so good to you.

Unnecessary OUCH comments.

You never say that you love me.

I am always doing everything here.

I HAVE TO WORK.

I have always tried to please you.

Nobody thanks me for what I do.

I am so miserable.

Can't you see how much I suffer because of you?

Don't you remember when I used to help you?

After all I have done for you.

I have no luck.

She is so lucky.

In order to become empowered and become the co-creator in our lives, and to stop giving power to the Belief that we are the victim, it is absolutely necessary to own that we have choices. The "have to" must be removed from our vocabulary. As long as we are reacting to life unconsciously we do not have choices. Clear the imprints from your energy field, unplug the neural net Programming and empower your language with I statements. I choose to go to work.  Remember the until you own that you have a choice, you have not made one.  To learn more discover http://www.frequencyawareness.com

We were taught to approach life from a perspective of fear, survival, lack and scarcity. We were taught that life is about destinations, and that when we get to point X be it marriage or college degree or fame and fortune or whatever - we will live happily ever after.

Of course, this is not the way life works and you already know that and probably discarded that fairy tale ending intelluctually a long time ago. On the emotional and imprint level we keep looking for it because that is what the child in us was taught. We keep living life as if it is a dress rehearsal for "when our ship comes in". For when we really start to live. For when we get that relationship, or accomplishment or money that will make us okay, that will fix us.

We do not require FIXING because we are NOT BROKEN. Our sense of self, our self perception, was shattered and fractures and broken into pieces, not our TRUE SELF.

We are Spiritual Beings having a human experience. We are all here to learn and we are here to go through this process that is life. Finally we are here to feel these feelings. Doing our emotional and imprint healing allows us to feel clear about what what is in front of us instead of torturing ourselves by obsessively thinking, trying to figure out what is right and what is wrong.

Let us first look at some definitions before we continue, Obsessive thinking is an emotional defense and is a manifestations of codependency. Being in our heads, thinking, fantasizing, ruminating, is a defense we adapted in childhood to help is disassociate from the emotional pain we were experiencing. It is not for our highest good because it keeps us focused on the future or the past, we miss out on being live today, in the NOW. It is not for our highest good because our attempts to ESCAPE unpleasant feelings causes us to generate more unpleasant feelings.

Worry which can be described as negative fantasizing, is a reaction to fear of the unknown which creates more fear, which creates more worry, which creates more fear and so on. This fear is a manifestation of codependency, a distorted, magnified, virulent, mutated species of fear caused by the poisonous combination of a false Belief that being human is shameful with a polarized (black and white, right and wrong) perspective of life. This self perpetuating, self destructive type of obsessive thinking feeds not only on fear, but on shaming ourselves for feeling the fear!

Codependency is a useless emotional defense system adapted by our egos to help us survive. The polarized perspective of life we were programmed with in early childhood from our environment and imprint creation as well as inherited imprints, causes us to be afraid of making a mistake, of doing life "wrong". At the core of our being, we feel unlovable and unworthy and we spend great amounts of Energy trying to keep our shameful defectiveness a secret. We feel that , if we were perfect like we "SHOULD" be, we would not feel fear and confusion and would have reached "happily ever after" by now. So, we shame ourselves for feeling fear, which adds gasoline to the inferno of fear that is driving us. The shame and fear that drive obsession becomes so painful and "crazy making" that at some point we have to find a way to shut down our minds for a little while - drugs, alcohol, food, sleep, shopping, television, sex, etc.

This is a very sad way to relate to life. The fear we are empowering is about the future, shame is about the past. We are not capable of being in the NOW and enjoying life because we are caught up in trauma melodramas about things which have not yet happened - or wallowing in orgies of self recrimination about the past, which can not be changed. Codependent behavior does not allow one to really live life in line with their Higher Self and shadows the Essence of the TRUE Self. IT is very important that these imprints be removed from the energetic field.

Obsessive thinking and compulsive behavior is caused by, and fed by, fear and shame. The feeling that the world will come to an end if____ doesn't happen, or that it has come to an end because ____ happened, is a feeling coming from the wounded child within and related imprints firing. It is the result of early childhood emotional trauma and the subconscious programming adapted by our egos to help us survive at a time when we were helpless and powerless.

An adult is not helpless and powerless. We are, however, powerless to know that, as long as we are UNCONSCIOUSLY reacting to repressed emotional energy and imprints and programming from the subconscious. It is impossible to see our self or life clearly when we are caught up in trauma dramas (internally and externally) that feel life threatening. It is our codependency that we are in denial of our emotions at the same time we are allowing unconscious imprint programming and the feelings of the Inner Child to define and dictate our lives.

Removing the imprints, programming, beliefs and other energetic blockages will help a person take power away from the fear and shame that drives obsessive thinking. Learning to be companssionate in our relationship WITH OUR SELF by not shaming ourselves for being human beings, will help to take power away from the obsessive thinking.

Love is the answer to obsession but not the love of another person. Learning to be LOVING TO YOURSELF and remembering that there is a LOVING HIGHER POWER is the best way to stop obsessive thinking.  To learn more visit http://www.frequencyawareness.com

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