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Lynn GerinoLynn Gerino (47)    Lynn Gerino   Club 555 Online Dating Ways to Show Them Your LovePosted Sunday, June 28, 2009 (226 days 10 hours ago.) Viewed 95 times. Express Your Love Cute little love expressions to keep the love bug alive Dating is exciting for both singles. You're busy meeting new people and exploring a lot of new firsts together. Your relationship begins as a list of firsts; first trip to an amusement park together, first kiss, first hiking trip, first road trip, first overnight vacation, and the list grows. At some point the newness will begin to wear off as it becomes more difficult to experience new things together. It may not be your fault at all as life with your new love becomes more ordinary. Jobs get in the way, kids require attention, and the mortgage must be paid. It can be rather sobering as the relationship changes. There are things that you both can do to keep the love growing. We have listed what we feel are good little expressions to show your love.
If you forget any of the above ideas please remember these two very important rules:
Life is so short and we never know what is in store for us or our loved ones that day. Always be prepared so that you won't have any regrets. ©Lynn Gerino - resource articles for topics in family, lifestyle, religion, relationships and more.
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Permalink Comments (0) Personality Matching Is Just Marketing SpinPosted Sunday, June 28, 2009 (226 days 11 hours ago.) Viewed 103 times. Get Your 28 Dimensions working for You! "Get your free personality profile for free" touts the behemoth of online dating and matchmaking. It's nothing more than fancy marketing spin. There is absolutely no proof that personality matching guarantees marriage bliss. Instead of allowing users to freely browse the thousands of profiles and send flirty one line greetings to prospective matches one online service does all the leg work and delivers a filtered list of potential suitors. In contrast to speed dating or video dating the later approach seems to take all the fun out of online relationship building. The personality profile matching approach was put to the test on the popular dating show "The Bachelor" where past contestants tried to find suitable females for their fellow bachelor. One of the matchmakers held a bikini beauty contest, another hosted a game where potential dates competed for a spot among the winners and still another tried the scientific personality profile matching approach. As the dating show unfolded and potential single women were eliminated by the willing bachelor. It may have gone unnoticed to most but the single female delivered by the "heavy hitting" online dating services' personality profile matching system was one of the first candidates to be eliminated. After all the heavy spin that has been placed on the scientific matching theory it failed and it failed big time on national television. There is still no proof that scientific personality matching really works. There is no substitute for meeting someone and getting to know them on a level that face to face meetings and spending a lot of time learning about the other person provides. The primus that personality matching is more effective is absolutely untrue. If you are going to use an online dating site make sure you pick one that will allow you the ability to talk and possibly even see the other person before you say, "yes". Online video dating sites are few and far between but the internet dating scene dictates that level of sophistication. Some of the better services also offer speed dating events which provide a safe, fun and public way of meeting someone in person. Develop your online friendships and when you do decide to meet in person consider using a speed dating event to do so. What have marriage counselors and psychologist been trying to tell us for years about successful relationships? Communication, rather the lack of, is the root of failed marriages and relationships. That is why online relationships seem to endure - they began as friendly online chat relationships with a good amount of communication as a foundation. ©Lynn Gerino - resource articles for topics in family, lifestyle, religion, relationships and more. Online Video Personals and Speed Dating
Permalink Comments (0) Tips for Re-kindling RomancePosted Sunday, June 28, 2009 (226 days 11 hours ago.) Viewed 114 times. Yearning for the romance filled dating days? Have You Lost that Loving Feeling? Remember when you first met, how just being near him gave you butterflies in your stomach and each time he dropped you off at home you couldn't wait until you could hear his voice again? You'd wait for 10 minutes, 15minutes, or maybe 20 then call him to make sure he got home safely. Then over the next couple of hours you would talk about nothing and everything. It didn't really matter what was said it was just comforting to hear each other's voice- the sound of his voice to carry you into the next day where you would make plans to see each other again. Ahh those were the days when love was new and he was so attentive. You could talk for hours and say nothing. It was just spending time that felt so good. The fact that he was a good listener and was so supportive told you that he was the one. So attentive and full of romance that you would steal minutes out of your day to call him. It felt like the world had come to an end the first time a trip took him away from you for more than an evening. You vow to each other that this is the way a relationship should be-full of romance, understanding and playfulness. Does this sound too familiar? I had the very same feelings for my now husband and up until a few years ago we barely spoke. Things started off sincere enough with our commitment to each other. We vowed to keep romance alive in our relationship just like we all have and then what happened? He was always busy at the office and I was busy running the home. I would shuttle our two boys around after school to their respective team practices (one was into football the other taking guitar lessons). I would use my cell phone to contact with my husband to let him know how late we were going to be "I'm picking up burgers on the way home so don't be late or yours' will be cold". Our busy lifestyle kept us from spending any time together. I began having the doubts about whether or not I had made the right choice. Why had he stopped listening to me? Could we ever have a piece of that elusive romance that we had as young adults? Rather than bury my head in the sand I made arrangements for the boys to spend the weekend with grandpa and grandma and set out to find the man that gave me butterflies. When my husband got home I sat him down and we talked about everything, and I explained that I wanted to feel that closeness again. Our weekend was so successful that we have regular weekends together, as many as I can arrange. We have this "code word" that we say to one another, "honey DO I". We are talking again about everything and saying nothing. I can't wait to hear his voice after he's gone to the office so I wait for 10 minutes, 15 minutes, maybe 20 and I call just to make sure he's safe. I am happy that I have my husband back romance and all. And he still gives me butterflies. ©Lynn Gerino - resource articles for topics in family, lifestyle, religion, relationships and more. Online Video Dating Singles and Speed Dating
Permalink Comments (0) Singles Want More Online Dating Website FeaturesPosted Sunday, June 28, 2009 (226 days 11 hours ago.) Viewed 78 times. Do Your Research: Pick the website with the best features Instant Contact - There's no doubt the instant messenger services provide the best and most accessible way to find people on the internet. However easy and convenient the messengers are they in of themselves don't guarantee that singles are easily found on these services. Enter the online dating services. Most of the better online services provide a method of contact either in a chatroom setting or an instant messenger solution. Some of the better sites allow you to use your favorite instant messenger onsite. Send a Rose - a great way to let someone know that you are interested. Some sites call them "icebreakers" or "kisses" or "winks". Some of the better sites allow you to send multiple icebreaker messages with the ability to block unwanted messages. Custom Search - search with as many criteria as you like. Choose from a location, sex, sexual preference, age, ethnicity, as well as profession, appearance and even personal qualities. Not many websites allow you do that. Most allow you to search by gender and you spend a lot of your time paging through profiles that you aren't interested in Look for a good advanced search system because it will save you lots of time. Singles Events - Speed dating parties, traveling agencies for singles and other entertainment events. Great for those who live in a big city, so there are many single people in your area. Only your most top quality sites have the resources to sponsor travel events or speed dating events. Video Dating - they use live video technology and/or you can record your own audio and video clips via your webcam and upload them to your profile. It's a fairly new service offered only by the better quality dating websites. Audio and Video Chat - live audio chat rooms where you can talk to many at once or privately one-to-one all without exchanging telephone numbers and incurring long distance charges using the internet's newest technology Voip (voice over IP). Video chats using the same technology as the audio with the added component of live video. It's a new service offered only by top-quality dating websites. ©Lynn Gerino - resource articles for topics in family, lifestyle, religion, relationships and more. Online Dating Singles Personals Ads, Video and Speed Dating
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