Can we fall in love twice?
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I asked this question when I was 6 years old.
And what did your parents then tell you?
Oh yes, and more, and with the same person.
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The giant moths who collect under the neon lights of a roadside cheaters' motel to mate and then lay eggs to hatch into caterpillars, also imagine themselves deeply in love; it is for them what it is to us, a hardwired DNA program of primal, hormonal, endorphin rush, a self generated wave of lust, infatuation, well-being, and inebriation.
It is a repetitive free fall, and one cannot simply choose, whom one shall love.
A very nice description!! I being a science student, Understand:-)
My PHD is in entomology, invertebrate endocrinology.
Commitment follows after 'falling in love.' Once you breach the old commitment you can fall in love once again.
We can fall in love as many times as possible when our mind and heart is free of commitment.
But breaching & entering into many commitments destroys a person's reputation.
What if we realize we were never in love however were just trying or pretending to be in love???in that case if you genuinly fall in love the second time, you are not breaching the commitment but being true to yourself..isn't it?
Yes definitely. If we are just pretending we don't breach a commitment but make the other person feel bad if he/she is serious about us. We should be careful about others feelings.
As Mae West saucily said, "I used to be Snow White, but I drifted!"
Men want,"involvement"; women want,"committment"; the difference is like bacon and eggs.
The chicken was,'involved'; the pig, was,'committed'.....
You can love lots of times, not just twice. It's whatever love is to you. A dog. A cat. A child. A school full of kids. A country far away. Love is what you determine it is. Love doesn't have to mean the return of sexual feelings, there is a difference. If you think there is only one love for you on this planet, you are setting yourself up for failure . . . that one love could be in another town, another country, the other side of the world, or in the wrong part of the concert or restaurant you were standing in together but not close enough. You can love all sorts of things – chocolate, skate boards, movies, shopping. You can love many kinds of people – teachers, exercise companions, someone who passed you a bottle of water on a hot day, whoever serves your pizza. And love isn't always meant to last forever. You can't marry everyone you love. Some people you love but you don't know their whole story, or they are already attached, and will never be in your life the way you would wish. But you can still love. You can keep on loving, make new loves, find old loves . . . twice is only a number. Love can go on . . . and on . . . and on . . .
Wow!!Octavia, A perfect explanation!:-)
It is possible to fall in love twice even in instances when one has severally been disappointed.Love is unpredictable. And flexibility as a natural tendency of man leads to this conclusion.Indeed,love could blind fold one to forget past misdeeds of the partner.Love being an abstraction,the urge to fall in love twice may be irresistible.
Total Answers: 7, Total Page Views: 624.As long as their are lovable people around we can fall in love :)
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