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Natural Horsemanship JourneySherry Jarvis (173) ![]() ![]() Sherry Jarvis ![]() Heart in Your Hand Natural Horsemanship Life Lessons Horses Teach UsPosted Sunday, July 13, 2008 (1 year 117 days ago.) Viewed 30 times. As many of you know I have been working on writing a book this winter. I have learned even more by writing things down. It is helping me to realize what was in my head, what I do know, and what I don't know. This has forced me to do more research and experiment even more. As I go through this process I keep getting reminded of how challenging and humbling it is for anyone to become good with horses. I have also been thinking back about every teacher I have studied with. In doing so I realized each one had an important piece of the puzzle . None had all the answers and none were perfect or wrong. But e ach teacher whether horse or human offered a unique perspective which guided and influenced my personal experience and understanding. I also became aware that all I can do is pass along the important concepts I have gained from each one of these great teachers, along with my own insights. It is the way I present the information that makes it unique not the knowledge itself. No matter how good our teachers are, or how many horsey friends we have, ultimately the horsemanship journey is one that is taken alone. It is the many hours in the corral spent alone with our horse that turns us into savvy horsemen or women. It is our individual responsibility to learn as much as we can and be the best we can be for our horse. This journey is so personal. There is something very special which happens between each horse and rider. Every horse we encounter offers an important challenge to us . If we are open to these challenges, they will be the perfect catalyst to teach us what we need to learn at that particular time in our journey. It is only because we choose to face the challenges that the right teacher then appears. When the puzzle pieces begin to fit together, it is only for the love of horses we remain willing to learn. Some horses have a way of pointing out our weaknesses on a regular basis and keep reminding us to stay humble. I do believe some horses were put on this planet to make sure we get it right some day. It is the ones that are our toughest most honest teachers who cause us to change the most and become better horsemen. I believe if we always have in the back of our mind that our horse is for sale, we may struggle a bit more with him, then a horse we are committed to keep forever. You may find when you finally promised to never try to sell him again the progress you make will begin to change. The importance of trust, love and commitment to the relationship with a horse can make all the difference. I had lots of people offer to buy Cisco this weekend at the Expo and some even begged. But he is not for sale for any price! I know to some people that is dumb, but it is my commitment to him. I'm not saying you should never sell a horse. I'm just giving you some thoughts to ponder on how deep your relationship is with your horse. It can't be very deep if you are always on the lookout for a new home for him. It doesn't mean you have to have that kind of deep relationship with every horse you own. But it is something to consider, because your horse can read you so well. Your intentions and attitudes do matter. Remember the kind of feeling you got as a kid when you just wanted to be at the barn even if you didnt have a lesson or work to do there. You just wanted to hang out with your horse. No kid wants to sell their horse. As I am writing in my book about riders becoming more observant, more attentive, better role models and leaders I realized that I still sometimes get too agenda driven. I never want to forget to take the time to really observe what is important to my horses. From them I have trust and respect. But do I really know their loves and what they want? Do I have their loyalty? Even though we have provided the very best physical care for our horses, I am starting to see there is no substitute for my time. My presence in their lives as part of their herd is important as well. The last week I have been hanging out a lot more with my horses as someone who loves them just as much as they love me. We don't always have to be training, we can just enjoy. This is a very valuable lesson. And it's a great time of year to do just that, because it is warming up and they all need their winter coat brushed out. What an enjoyable way to spend a sunny spring day. By Sherry Jarvis Permalink Comments (0) Revealing the Truth WithinPosted Sunday, July 13, 2008 (1 year 117 days ago.) Viewed 30 times. A poet put into words the very thing I search for when I am working with horses and riders, which is to "reveal the truth within". By "revealing the truth within" we are able to liberate the potential of both horse and rider, creating a harmonious relationship and picture of beauty and grace. This blueprint for our education in becoming master artisans of horsemanship may be found in the famous line of Robert Browning's "Paracelsus": "Truth is within ourselves; it takes no rise From outward things, what'er you may believe. There is an inmost centre in us all, Where truth abides in fullness; and around, Wall upon wall, the gross flesh hems it in, This perfect, clear perception which is truth. A baffling and perverting carnal mesh Binds it, and makes all error: and to know Rather consists in opening out a way Whence the imprisoned splendour may escape, Than in effecting entry for a light Supposed to be without." After many years of working with a very troubled horse named Sunshine, I may be on the verge of discovering the secret which is transforming Sunshine from one state of mind to another. To say she has been a challenge is an understatement. Five years ago she started as a belligerent, defensive, and aggressive horse and now is turning into an intelligent and co-operative partner who will let her guard down with me from time to time, offering me a little trust. I have discovered that deep within this troubled horse is an imprisoned wealth of magnificent character qualities. Those talents and graces, buried beneath her rough and tough physical exterior, did not need to be developed but instead liberated. Before the true horse could shine through in her I dug deep down within myself, finding many things in my own character which needed rooting out or at least modified in order to understand how to help Sunshine releive her tension and heal her scars. Through the process we both have been liberated to be who we are, expressing our talents with unreserved passion. Well, maybe me more than Sunshine, but I hope to continue to lead the way for her. With continuous observations, constant experimentation, and the gentle techniques I have learned with natural horsemanship, I have begun to open all sorts of ways for Sunshine's imprisoned splendor to escape into expression. At first the expression was limited, timid and confined because of the newness of the experience, but now it is begining to be more spontaneous, exuberant and abundant. The defensive horse who was really terrified of everything is starting to share more of her real self with me. And it is this unrestricted sharing of her real self which has enabled me to accomplish more with her than some thought possible. It is not my perfect technique or my own horsemanship talent that has brought about this change in her, but my willingness to allow her to be the horse she is and aiming to bring out her best qualities. I think it is very important to recognize the potential in a horse and in a rider, then give them the opportunity to reveal it from within. I guess that is my drive for providing clinics and camps for horses and people. The thing that has guided me with horses and students is that moment of recognition, that truth, when things are "right". We all know it, feel it and see it when that "rightness" happens. It is not difficult to spot, even an untrained eye can admire it. Last week in the clinic at BKT in Lincoln we witnessed this moment of truth when we watched a young girl riding a plain brown horse named Molly. She is not an exceptional horse in confirmation or breeding. But together, horse and rider, looked like they were performing a ballet. All that was missing was the orchestra music, which wasn't necessary because they blended perfectly and not a note of music was needed to complete their harmony. Molly was so light on her feet, they were like a whisper in the dirt and her rider was a breath on her back. It was just a simple canter circle but there was something magical about it. Two beings as one. It was a moment of truth, peace, and happiness I will always remember. I know when the riders are finding themselves because they look confident, elegant, and secure. I know when the horses are finding themselves because they choose to be deep in concentration, they experiment with their bodies and are happy in the work. Everyone can see it when things are right, but it can be hard to see what is missing when things are not right. Trying to find what is missing, figuring out how to draw out the latent talents and teach the required skills is the greatest challenge of what I do. Good horsemanship is so much more than technique or mechanics it is something that comes from within. The brutal honest feedback provided by our horse is our best guide to the truth which is within us! Happy Trails, Sherry Jarvis "Horsemen share knowledge. Showmen hide it in a corner and go home." -- AQHA Judge Dale Livingston Permalink Comments (0) "Power of Observation" Your Most Powerful Tool for Good HorsemanshipPosted Tuesday, July 31, 2007 (2 years 101 days ago.) Viewed 449 times. The past couple of weeks I have had the privilege of teaching a 4-H group of young horsemen and several other youth seeking more savvy with their horses. These lessons have not only been exciting, but also rewarding. It seems most youth are already very natural around horses. They have the physically abilities to ride with ease and for the most part are not hindered by the fears we adults bring to the arena. They are not as concerned about the why of everything, instead they just do what I instruct them to do without question. As I taught these kids recently I keep thinking about what Ray Hunt says, "observe, remember and compare." I remembered Jack Brainard saying "your most powerful tool is your power of observation". These are men that I respect and have had the honor of riding with. While I was observing the kids during lessons I realized they didn't need me to instruct them how to be more natural with horses, like many of the adults I help. Instead they needed to improve their skills of observation. That sounds simple enough, but it proves to be a very elusive target. However each person does have the creative potential to perceive things freshly. These are skills we already have which are simply waiting to be released. When I was a public school teacher I used to teach a course called "Drawing On the Right Side of the Brain". The ability to draw depends on the ability to see the way an artist sees. Most people can learn to draw if we can show them how to "change their way of looking at things". Drawing is not really very difficult. Seeing is the problem, or shifting to a particular way of seeing. The reason most people never learn to draw well is they never learn to see well enough. I believe this may be the same reason some people never get to the level of horsemanship they desire. I have found teaching horsemanship is not much different from teaching someone how to draw. You may feel that you are seeing things just fine and that it's the horse who is being difficult. But in fact the opposite may be true. Many natural horsemanship exercises are a perfect venue to experience a slightly altered mode of awareness and to see things in a different way which will enable us to be better observers and therefore better horsemen. One complication of "seeing" is that what we see is changed or interpreted in ways that depend on a person's training, mindset, and past experiences. We tend to see what we expect to see or what we decide we have seen. This expectation is not a conscious process. Learning to use our power of obeservation takes conscious effort that allows a different more direct kind of seeing. As some of you know I love to draw, but haven't been making the time to do it lately. When I do it puts me into a somewhat altered state of awareness. Awareness of the passage of time fades away. I feel alert and aware yet relaxed and free of anxiety, experiencing a pleasurable activation of my mind. I have spent the last 14 days riding at least 2-4 horses per day, and I have experienced the same state of awareness. I think it is because during riding I deal with lots of visual images and tactual feelings just as I do when drawing. I have to keep track of relational, and spatial informaion, while sensing components of the overall performance between myself and the horse. I find when I am riding I can do a lot of creative thinking, I completely loose track of time, and experience a sense of freedom from stress. Since I have consciously tried to develop my power of observation into a global skill life seems so much richer now. I didn'trealize how much there was to see and how much I may have been missing before. As I watch horses and people I am slowly developing the ability to perceive things freshly in their totality, to see patterns, shifts, discrepencies, possibilities for new combinations and creative solutions to problems. I may not always understand the whys, but that doesn't seem to matter, seeing clear is the important thing. When we start to see in this way ordinary things become extra-ordinary. It's more than just looking with the eye, it is being fully aware and alive, interacting with each moment. True horsemanship through feel is an artistic endeavor. "When the artist is alive in any person, whatever his kind of work may be, he becomes an inventive, searching, daring, self-expressive creature. He becomes interesting to other people. He disturbs, upsets, enlightens, and opens ways for a better understanding. Where those who are not artists are trying to close the book, he opens it and shows there are still more pages possible."Rober Henri (The Art Spirit). "A moment's insight is sometimes worth a lifetime's experience." -- Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr. Happy Trails, Sherry Permalink Comments (0) |
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