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Unwanted Pregnancy? Tips To Survive: Part - I

Posted Friday, April 17, 2009 (206 days 2 hours ago.) Viewed 333 times.

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Contraceptive pills are really helpful. In the TV many Ads come regarding these pills. For last few months they are showing that even after sexual intercourse if you take a pill within a certain period of time you can avoid pregnancy easily. And there wont be any unwanted pregnancy to bother you. Wow! What a relief to the teenage girls and their parents.

The world has really progressed a lot. There are many teenager girls who get pregnant and then no where to go, how pitiful their conditions are at that particular moment. And these contraceptive pills come into their rescue. And they are saved after gulping just one. The Medical Science has helped the modern world so much, now even they can have any kind of pleasure without fear of pregnancy and any other things. Life has been very smooth these days.

You all must be thinking what happened to Chiradeep, what happens to his value system, but if you see the world around you, all are very happy because of these inventions. The problems of mankind are vanishing one by one because of these inventions. Now they can live happily ever after. This is the value system of todays world whether you accept it or not, doesnt matter.

If you have read, up to this and close the window then you will take a very wrong message. So lets continue reading it.

I am dead against when these pills are used outside a marriage. Even within marriage also, using contraceptive pills is a questionable for so many. We as married couple dont use it. But still then, uses of these pills within marriage are some how acceptable. But outside marriage? It is wrong, sinful, awful. It may rescue from unwanted pregnancy but it wont save you from the wrath of God almighty. One day you will have to pay the price for it.

Lastly, pregnancy survival tips is (not are), 1. Abstain, 2. Abstain & 3. Abstain from pre-marital sex. Very simple isnt it?

My young friends! Please do not follow after the deadly pleasures of this world today, just ABSTAIN.


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Small Yet Wise

Posted Wednesday, April 08, 2009 (215 days 2 hours ago.) Viewed 229 times.

I was reading Proverbs. A passage drew my attention. I was amazed. The initial verses of that passage says that, Four things are small but extremely wise; and then in the following verses it talks about those four small things and their behaviours which rates them as extremely wise. Lets talk about those small things as follows:

1. Ants:

The passage says that, the ants are of little strength, but they store up food in summer. We always keep our work pending. I am not talking about official work. I am even talking about the family responsibilities & duties. That we fail to fulfill in time.

If I talk spiritual: What about storing our soul for heaven?

2. Conies or Marmots:

the marmots or conies are of little power but they make homes in crags. They believe in strong foundations. They love to stay safe and well protected. Do we build our relationships on strong foundations? What about our relationship with our spouses? Is it rock solid?

Again spirituality: Is Jesus the foundation of our life?

3. Locusts:

locusts have no king but they advance together in ranks. Wow! What discipline & unity. Do all our works properly coordinated and disciplined? Do we have unity in our family members? Do Americans have unity? Do Indians have unity?

Talking about spiritual part: Do we have Christian unity?

4. Lizards (or spiders):

lizards are caught by hand yet they are found in kings palace. Whether it is lizard or spider but both are susceptible yet can be found almost everywhere on this earth. I think it talks about our presence. Two thoughts came to my mind. Firstly, do we make our presence felt? And secondly, how do we make our presence felt? Are we well known for our tolerance or violence?

Trust me for the last time I will talk spiritual: Are we tolerant like Jesus?

This passage is an eye opener for me. And hopefully it will be for you all also. We really need to learn from these four small creatures. They taught me great lessons. I hope it will help you all to learn those lessons.

God bless you.


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Secondary Polycythemia: How Am I Dealing With It?

Posted Friday, April 03, 2009 (220 days 2 hours ago.) Viewed 178 times.

I have Secondary Polycythemia because of my congenital cardiac problem. I became aware of this problem for last 4 years. I dont know how my doctors didnt alert me of this problem before. But anyway by Gods grace nothing has happened yet for Polycythemia.

Let me give a brief description of what happens in this kind of problem. In my body the pure and the impure blood get mixed up because of my congenital cardiac problem. And that is why my whole body doesnt get proper oxygen, which is called hypoxia. To compensate that my hemoglobin increases on a regular basis which is good for me. But when the percentage of hemoglobin increases further more the viscosity of the blood increases also. The blood doesnt flow properly. And I suffer with headache, tiredness, breathlessness, disturbed vision, weakness, dizziness for that.

Now I am suffering, because my hemoglobin is 21.5% and PCV is 65 %. I am drinking lots of water at least 5-6 liters of water per day. That helps to reduce the viscosity of blood. I take a Persantin tablet daily to dilute my blood. It is a life time medication. If it doesnt help then I have to get admitted in the hospital and undergo through a procedure called phlebotomy. In phlebotomy I have to let out certain amount of blood. After the procedure the viscosity of the blood gradually reduces. I feel relieved.

But please I dont want to get admitted to hospital again and again. And I am trying my best to reduce the viscosity of my blood by drinking water and prayer. I hope and trust my Lord that my PCV will go down under 60 % after a week or so.

Another thing I need to keep in mind that my PCV should not go under 50% or less also. My body wont be properly oxygenated because of my cardiac problem. So I have to check my blood sample regularly and keep a balance.

Irritating! Isnt it? But I thank God that I have got easy options but if we think about cancer patients, AIDS patients and other diseases then I can understand their suffering and pain.

Anyway, you must be thinking why I shared all these. I did it for two reasons.

1. I shared it so that everybody can know about myself more and pray for me.
2. I want all the doctor writers in searchwarp to give me some tips to reduce the viscosity of my blood.


Thats all. Thanks for reading Sirs & Madams.


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Are Sexual Behaviours Of People Normal Or Abnormal Today?

Posted Monday, March 30, 2009 (224 days 6 hours ago.) Viewed 517 times.

Sex is a precious gift from the God to the married couples. When the man was all alone God created woman, a suitable counterpart for him, and presented sex, as the most wonderful wedding gift ever anybody has given as yet. Today after thousand years of creation when the marriages take place, God gives the same wonderful gift to every newly wed couple as their wedding gift, to be used only by them alone.

This is very natural and normal when the married couples use this gift. But when it is used outside a marriage or in a strange manner it becomes unnatural and abnormal. Yes! Devil has destroyed and spoilt the sanctity and purity of this wonderful gift of God. Even the biological scientists, sociologists, sexologists and psychologists have pointed out some functions of the sexual drive and its mode of seeking gratification as abnormal and unnatural. And it is very important for us to be aware of all these things. Some of the abnormal sexual behaviors are as under:

Fetishism This is a kind of sexual behaviour by which the individual derives sexual pleasure from an inanimate object.

Voyeurism This is watching other persons sexual organ or looking at others getting undressed.

Exhibitionism In this kind of behaviour the individual gets pleasure in showing his/her own sexual organ to other person.

Sadism In this behaviour the person gets sexual pleasure by inflicting pain on the sexual partner.

Machoism - In this behaviour the person gets sexual pleasure in being punished by the sexual partner.

Troilism Is when the sexual activity is undertaken in the presence of others. Analism Using anus for sexual activity is called Analism.

Zoophilia When an individual uses animals for sexual pleasure.

Frottage In which the individual gets pleasure by pressing sex organ against other persons body.

Geronto When the individual prefers sexual activity with older people.

Wife Swapping When couples exchange their wives to have sexual activity.

Corophilia This is when the individual gets pleasure by handling feces.

Transvestism This kind of sexual behaviour by which the individual seeks pleasure through wearing garments of the opposite sex.

Pedophilia in this type the individual uses children for sexual pleasure.

Incest This kind of sexual behaviour the individual have sex with blood relations.

Homosexual in this kind of behaviour the individual keep sexual activities with the same sex instead of opposite sex.

Nasophilia an erotic obsession with abnormal noses.

Acousticophilia a sexual obsession with the sound of a particular language etc.

All these abnormal sexual behaviors and disorders are diseases and need to be cured. If its really serious please see a doctor and ask God to give you the strength to get rid of all these.

Don't make Gods wonderful and beautiful gift so ugly.


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