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Triumph Is the Summit of Your Inner Determination

Posted Tuesday, November 25, 2008 (1 year ago.) Viewed 16 times.

Life is too busy and too fast to let go without leaving a proof that we were there stepping on its land someday, doing something, and occupying ourselves with some fun activities. It really does not count to let everything around go in a vicious circle and looping around itself without imposing some predetermined resolution in the middle; to make it the center of the circles that go around and which will certainly turn to be a straight line to the future dreams.

Nothing is too hard or too far to achieve, it might look a little bit far but believe me that what part of our minds is depicting as running behind an illusion, everything is right behind the next door, it just needs a little bit searching and adventuring through the dusky dark passageway. With that little bit effort a luminous bright glow will welcome you to join the trip, exactly like Alice in Wonder Land.

What I am saying is to encourage everyone inside you to determine the extent of the achievement that he is willing to make the next couple few months or even the next couple of years and find a way to do it, try hard and make a plan for it, it is your big project.

Projects might include a marriage project, a studying project, a vacation project, a child project or anything that comes to your mind at that moment. It is anything that you don't continuously practice as an operation, instead it is an endeavor with a start and end dates, by which you succeed or fail. Try it, the triumph of being successful will erase all the pain you have paid for the sake of being on the summit someday, your determination to follow your plan for the project will distract you from the daily disturbing activities that obstruct your way and totally occupy your mind.

With each achievement a new meaning of life will be added to your dictionary, a new you will shine like a star in the sky, every morning will be a new one that welcomes you by the arms, life is not counting days anymore, it is looking forward and counting that days you need further to reach your goal, and waiting for that day to come really quickly. You are a kid now who is waiting for the holidays to get new toys.

The most important is to remember that success brings success, and failure leads to another failure. With some positive determination and high spirit everything is right there and very close. The pleasure of looking back for what you have done at this age will make you special and proud of whom you turned to be.

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Tips on Controlling Anger

Posted Monday, February 04, 2008 (1 year 295 days ago.) Viewed 57 times.

Feelings can be represented and defined with the way our innersoles visualize it and interpret it. As you are sometimes keen to engulf yourself with happiness; some other times you may suffer to get rid of your angriness, which is considered as one of the feelings that nocks your door.

All of us are human beings who think and feel the impact of the surrounding atmosphere, but one is different than the other in taming his responses and reactions to the stimulating actions. The question is why does that happen?

Actually by reading topics about anger management -which becomes one of the topics that waves in my horizon due to its impact on my behavior- I have found that it's something we have to be cultured and learned about, since if you can't control your anger it will control you, and that what happens to many people all over the world.

Two different people respond to the same situation in two different approaches, one may take it smoothly and control his feelings while the other may take every thing sharply and personally to find himself eventually in a bad situation that nobody envies him for.

What does really generate that dissimilarity is the way you interpret the situation and what words you have uncovered from the conversation you had with your partner, colleague or co-worker.

On one hand you can analyze it the way you want. for you, you can take a meaningless empty word as a reason of teasing grudge, or causing harm to your feelings, on the other hand the other person didn't even thought about it twice because for him it's a waste of time to give it that attention.

In any way you respond to an event, and whatever technique you use to cope and that has proven that it's incorrect; then be sure that it's time to learn new methods to control our angriness before it controls us. By the way I'll start with myself since I have learned that anger can lead to awful results, but you don't have to take it too much seriously, learn the way that suits you and never think of being not able to control your feelings; that will lead to escalading anger and frustration.

Here are some tips that I liked to share with you about taming your temper:

Try to exercise and let all the indwelled energy and the bad feelings get out of your body.

Choose your own way of relaxation, whether it's by practicing the deep-breath technique or visualizing a scene that moves you to a calmer place or by keep talking to your inner self and asking yourself to relax and that nothing worth all that.

Think, think and think more than the two thinks before. Try to apprehend the consequence of saying any thing before you do, so after the entire mess end you won't regret any thing.

Express your anger and what caused you to be so. After you calm down. Pick a person you trust or even the one you spilled out your angriness on and talk to him.

Try to learn from your previous experiences and jot down in your mind what have they led to.

And the easiest two F's are: Forget & Forgive.

One may say that it is not a piece of cake as it seems to be on a scrap of paper; well I assure you that it's not. I always try to practice these little tips, sometimes it works and the other times they are futile to me. But by practicing and by giving it a try It will work, the password is never give up and do the things that you believe that you can't do, and be deaf when others or your mind say you can't.

Let's always start by ourselves!

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Reason, Season or Lifetime

Posted Sunday, January 06, 2008 (1 year 324 days ago.) Viewed 270 times.

How many people you meet in your life isn't important, who are they and what they are doing in real life are insignificant. What really matters is how close are they to you, what did they offer you and how long they stayed beside you.

It's said that people penetrate in our lives for a reason; season or they spend their lives beside us. Knowing the type of that person can really make you aware of what kind of treat to offer him.

A person who rescued you while you were drowning in the sea the other day can never be vanished from our memories; he's there and will always be recognized as our life saver. Someone who enlightened the way for you when you asked him for advice is a godsend to you to help you in this difficulty; he was there for a reason. Another one who granted you a guidance and support in your job was also there for a Reason.

Those and others we need to appreciate and respect, and never forget to pay them back the emotional, physical, financial support they offered at one stage of out lives. Never forget that Someday they will leave our lives as fast as they have entered after fulfilling our desires or satisfying our hunger for a need.

When you are provided with knowledge during your college life by your teachers or your friends for a span of time, bear in mind that those people are penetrating your live for a Season and they are leaving as well. They were there just to teach you, eat with you, laugh with you and maybe fight with you to make all those actions memorable moments engraved in your mind.

What you need to do for them is something you can decide by yourself, can you afford them a joyful moments, can you draw a smile on their faces, can you make their hearts laugh? All these count in their lives. A souvenir will do a great job for you; imagine a small thing put on their office or beside the bed near them will keep you recalled.

Finally, a Life Time people who are around you all the time not only physically but spiritually and emotionally are in your life for a lifetime relationship.

You can find them any time you need something, you can call them any time you feel like crying; they will calm you down, those whom you can shout and scream at but still enduring that are a lifetime people, someone who carries the heavy burden from your back or even offer to share you that is someone you have to keep and take care of.

Never neglect who are willing to share the laughter and sadness with you, and never ignore those who add a meaning to your life.

Someday they will disappear by death, you will never able to call them back, you'll be wishing to die just to meet them and compensate them for all your wrongdoings and for all the bad times you caused. Your spouse, parents and siblings are part of this circle.

For them just think of what have you missed to offer them, and what haven't you done to please and delight them.

I want you to pay attention to all these people that enter and leave your life without giving them what they really do deserve. Spend sometime to categorize those around you and provide them with the right treat, all of them need to be graced, respected and loved.

Your life is represented by one line with beginning and end points, this line can be a straight or curved one. By time remember that you are approaching the end it's why you are losing time not gaining. What is left is so short to postpone your good deeds to tomorrow or to next week, make a resolution now and be determined to abide with it and do the best for the best.

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Surprise Him In Your Last Day Together

Posted Thursday, December 27, 2007 (1 year 334 days ago.) Viewed 290 times.

Unorganized feelings scattered here and there in all house corners, and in each inch of every part of my body, yet the difficulty to express my emotions is freezing inside, and doesn't have an alley to let the sun and air enter. You are there lying in the deepest depth of my heart, and every thing above is not more than heaped love emotion piles.

My dearest baby, when all what I see is a wide arid land in a deserted private globe that exist in my imagination, then the solely jewel to brighten my world is you.

What could I do and what I am doing in my day to day life to tell my treasurable second part that I love him? These are not tips rather than being rituals or idea that I loved doing and am used to now.

How to start a morning:

Am happy and in the mood

Good morning sweetie, kiss, I love you. That's before getting out of bed.

Then I get him a cup of coffee.

When he comes out of the bathroom we hug and hold each other very closely.

We go the same work; it's why he gives me a ride to it. In the car I just can't keep my mouth shut. I keep laughing and kidding with him till he says enough honey, by the way he never did.

Am not in the mood

He has to thank god that he gave me the strength to even open my eyes and wake up.

How to end your day:

Am happy and in the mood

After reaching home in the workdays, we change clothes, and then we choose whether to stay home, play and watch movies. We have dinner out.

By the way having a walk together in a mall is really interesting and breaks the boredom.

Am not in the mood

I go directly to bed, that means at 6:00 pm, my cutie baby keeps playing with me, trying to amuse me and get out the pressure and tension I feel inside till my lineaments start to relax. Finally I draw a smile on my face and we hang out together.

In return, I love to surprise him with small things than I can do, that makes him fall deeper in my love. I do:

Try to keep him happy as much as I can.
Prepare a hot bath to him. Just prepare for the time he comes home and make a line of rose petals from your main house door to the bath. Write I love you on the ground by the petals, keep waiting for him in the tub, which you have filled with water and roses, make the bath smells good by using candles that you can use instead of the electrical light, it's more romantic.
Get him a box filled with natural care products, boxers and small colored papers written on each a reason why you are in love with him.
Make coupons personalized for him, and coerce yourself to abide with what you've written on them any time he shows them up to you. Coupons could be for a dinner, spa Etc.

Be creative and you'll have your own ideas.

Consider it's always the last day to spend with your second part, you'll find yourself acting in a way that you could never imagine yourself pursuing.

Once you keep the love alive every day, the hope will keep dancing in front of you. And splendorous moments will glitter in every thing you do. A stack of sweet memories will live with you till death, and a breathtaking smile will be drawn on your spouse lips to give you a better reason for living.

Hope it was helpful!

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