Picking a username can be more important than you know. Members that are doing a search are also seeing your username. A username like ILikeSex or SexXXX could deter potential mates that are seeking a true relationship and not just a one night stand.
Usernames like LonelyBoy or LonelyGirl might indicate that you are desperate (Whether or not this is the case). You do not want potential partners to think that you are desperate and dateless. Also a username like JohnJones or MaryDoe gives visitors too much information out to the public. A resourceful person could get your name and see what City you are from and something bad could happen as a result.
Choose a unique username that fits your personality. Do not include your name in your username. Avoid using descriptive words that indicate a high sex drive, being lonely, desperate or divulge personal information such as your phone number or email address.
A username is a direct part of who you are. Make it exciting, anonymous and peak the interest of other members not one that may deter them. This is just one factor in your online dating success but it is an important one. Be the one contacted, not the one passed over.
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