It is possible for women to steer clear of
an unhappy relationship. However, it will require taking an honest look
at themselves and their relationship mistakes.
After repeating
the same relationship mistakes over and over gain, women begin to
realize something is not working. The easy way out is to blame the men.
However, if one looks deep enough the only consistent variable in every
relationship is the woman!
Women who feel they "love" a man will
stay in an unhappy relationship longer than they should. This often
causes psychological trauma that can take years to overcome!
This
trauma also makes it difficult for the woman to accept, and open up to,
a decent man who is not responsible for the hurt and pain caused by the
previous relationship.
One of the keys for women to break free from an unhappy relationship is to determine if their needs are being met!
Since
many women are emotional creatures while in love, they often become
confused. Simple relationship mistakes such as confusing a want with a
need can result in women dating men who are not compatible with them.
Every
woman's goal should be to identify those small relationship mistakes
that cause most, if not all, of their problems. The results will lead
to a happier life.
What also hurts women is their rush to get
into a relationship to avoid being alone. Many women have paid a heavy
price by moving too fast such as losing their life, contracting a
sexually transmitted disease or being abused to name a few.
Every
unhappy relationship that ended has small nuggets of wisdom women can
learn from. Plus, each of those relationships most likely ended for the
same reason although it may not appear that way!
Shawn Nelson,
MSA is a Motivational Speaker, Life Counselor and Author who creates
guides, e-Courses and run several web sites that help people achieve
their relationship, personal, life and professional goals. To learn
more visit the Goodbye Relationship Mistakes, Unhappy relationship and Broken Heart web site.
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