Many of us know how it feels to be rejected, not to be wanted and not to be loved enough. And many of us stay on guard, protecting our hearts and missing the greatest gift of all because we are sitting on the fence of feelings.
What does it feel like to be loved? And how do you know if a person really loves you or not?
Below are 15 signals that will help you decide if the man or woman you are attracted to -- or are with -- loves you or not.
1. He/she shows interest in your life - asks about your day, family, friends and work; remembers whatever say and do etc.;
2. He/she knows exactly what makes you smile, feel special and taken care of;
3. He/she is very affectionate, attentive, sensitive, considerate and cares about your needs, wants and desires;
4. He/she calls you just because he/she was thinking about you, misses you, or just felt like it etc.;
5. He/she wants to spend as much with you as is possible - clears up his/her busy schedule and makes plans just for you, travels long distances just to be with you etc.;
6. He/she talks to you about things he/she doesn't talk about with anybody else;
7. He/she walks that special extra mile just for you - shares your interests even if he/she doesn't like what you like, puts aside what they could be doing just to talk, listen or do something for you instead etc.;
8. He/she tells you how wonderful you make him/her feel and how having you in his/her life enriches it;
9. He/she does small unexpected things to pleasantly surprise you- sends an email message, shows up at your workplace, gets you something you always wanted etc.;
10. He/she loves and enjoys being physically close to you;
11. He/she takes time to choose his/her gifts for you - regardless of the price tag;
12. He/she gives without being asked and accepts from you with gratitude;
13. He/she wants a future with you in it – talks about it and plans for it;
14. He/she tells you he/she loves you;
15. You just know it – no doubting, no questioning, no wondering, no convincing or trying to make him/her love you and no strings attached. You look into his/her eyes and you know it. Something inside of you just knows.
On my website I try to give valuable insights into choosing the “right" people, including separating high-potential dates from energy drainers, types of relationships that will not last long, warning signs that you may be in a relationship in which you are loving him/her more than you are being loved, how to identify who is capable of give and take relationships, etc. My desire is for all of us to be able to choose partners we can have the pleasure of “playing" with rather than playing against or playing for.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of eBook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness™. Her unique approach to dating has helped hundreds create positive, constructive, honest and fulfilling relationships.
Christine's websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com
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