15 Strong Signs He Or She Is In Love With You
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Posted: Saturday, April 07, 2007
by Yangki Christine Akiteng
The Real People's Love Doctor
Many of us know how it feels to be rejected, not to be wanted and not to be loved enough. And many of us stay on guard, protecting our hearts and missing the greatest gift of all because we are sitting on the fence of feelings.
What does it feel like to be loved? And how do you know if a person really loves you or not?
Below are 15 signals that will help you decide if the man or woman you are attracted to -- or are with -- loves you or not.
2. He/she knows exactly what makes you smile, feel special and taken care of;
3. He/she is very affectionate, attentive, sensitive, considerate and cares about your needs, wants and desires;
4. He/she calls you just because he/she was thinking about you, misses you, or just felt like it etc.;
5. He/she wants to spend as much with you as is possible - clears up his/her busy schedule and makes plans just for you, travels long distances just to be with you etc.;
6. He/she talks to you about things he/she doesn't talk about with anybody else;
7. He/she walks that special extra mile just for you - shares your interests even if he/she doesn't like what you like, puts aside what they could be doing just to talk, listen or do something for you instead etc.;
8. He/she tells you how wonderful you make him/her feel and how having you in his/her life enriches it;
9. He/she does small unexpected things to pleasantly surprise you- sends an email message, shows up at your workplace, gets you something you always wanted etc.;
10. He/she loves and enjoys being physically close to you;
11. He/she takes time to choose his/her gifts for you - regardless of the price tag;
12. He/she gives without being asked and accepts from you with gratitude;
13. He/she wants a future with you in it – talks about it and plans for it;
14. He/she tells you he/she loves you;
15. You just know it – no doubting, no questioning, no wondering, no convincing or trying to make him/her love you and no strings attached. You look into his/her eyes and you know it. Something inside of you just knows.
On my website I try to give valuable insights into choosing the “right" people, including separating high-potential dates from energy drainers, types of relationships that will not last long, warning signs that you may be in a relationship in which you are loving him/her more than you are being loved, how to identify who is capable of give and take relationships, etc. My desire is for all of us to be able to choose partners we can have the pleasure of “playing" with rather than playing against or playing for.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of eBook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness™. Her unique approach to dating has helped hundreds create positive, constructive, honest and fulfilling relationships.
Christine's websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com
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More commentshey cud anyone help me so that i can think clearly with the situation that covers me up. Especially, u boys who could really relate with me. There was a guy that came into my life. Our first meeting seemed rude. I really don't like him for he was like, a boastful man, feeling handsome but actually he is! But it's just he's exaggerated! but though i hate him there's something that i feel, its strange. and my friends say that he likes my older sis. it was nothing for me that time. but then 2 months after i known him, he asked me out to be his girlfriend. then it just took months then we became official. i really loved him as i learn to accept his negatives and help him to conquer those. I did not let criticism to get between us. i loved him for what he is. and he did the same way too. eversince that we became official, many people say that he has changed, he turned better than he is. in other words, we're really in love with each other. he even tells me that he wishes for the both of us to be together forever, But something doubts me, he admitted he likes my older sis. one day he texted me that he love so much but why is that he cud stil like other girls..and of all girls, why wud it be my sis..then at the same day, he texted my sister and told her that i love your sis but i like u. he also told that i wished i didn't meet you..coz u bothered my mind.i care for u.something like that. but my sis have a boyfriend and he loves him so much. i feel like im ready to give up if he likes my sis but my sis has a boyfriend. what shud i do? is it enough that i'd part with him just because he likes my sis but he loves me? what if the both of them realize that they're really meant 2 b?how bout me?cud i just part with the guy i love so much because i feel il be losing him anyway?i know its normal that u cud have crush on others though u have girlfriend or boyfriend..but in our case, we're sisters. its too complicated.Please help me out! what shud i do? comfort me. thanx.Please log in to respond to this comment.
this article is very intresting because my girlfriend does all these things but i still dont know for sure that she loves me....Please log in to respond to this comment.
This is interesting and i think am on the right truck coz I and my girlfriend do 90% of these to one another.
Thanks this is encouraging and it keeps the partners hopefulPlease log in to respond to this comment.
hie l dating a man younger than me at first he treated me like a queen he used to call me a veryday now he changed l love him so much that sometime l would be streesed if he doenst call me pliz helpPlease log in to respond to this comment.
How to konw if he love you or watPlease log in to respond to this comment.
Its very useful ......... great..
I put mark for me and my separated lover......
really .... i got 1450.. she got 300.... it was very paining...but....even i am loving her...
becoz my love is true... it should not die..now also i believe i did not understand her thats y i am putting low mark.... real mark will be 1500..full mark.. she wil come back..Please log in to respond to this comment.
hi my dilemma is my best friend tells me she loves me she wants to be around me all the time we she lets me touch her an is completely comfortable around me we go out for meals etc all the time we have quiet nights in we have kissed an have slept together held hands etc she talks about me all the time and texts me everyday asking how my day is she spends money on me and i spend money on her we are always together and ive met all her friends and family when a guy tries it on with her she rejects them and tells them shes hanging with me but she said no when i asked her out and refuses to kiss me at times why is this?
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My Russian girlfriend Maria with a strange and funny lastname Palshina does not love me anymore and I feel it, while she sleeps she always reminds me about her x-boyfriend from Moscow and always breeding thru the night his name. We live a long time together, had good times, but for now I'm tired of it and want to leave her. We lived in santiago for last year and I found some pretty babes around here, even had sex with couple of them, one even was my girlfriends student, maria is a screwed up insane yoga teacher:) But I dont want to loose her at all, I just love "making" her everywhere, she is almost a pornstar but doesn't suck to good,realy:) I dont want to live with her, but want to @#$%&* her always, how to explain it to her if I dont want to lose my toy??? Is it possible to be friends and @#$%&*??? I also want to post some of her naked photos on web, some of them are real porn, should I do that or not, I really want to share, dont know even why. Help!Please log in to respond to this comment.
You can't win them all but you can't be cut up over 1 female, of course you want her but she gunna take advantage of your good nature so just don't care for her the way you think she wants you to.
Just treat her as if she just any normal female you talk to don't try too hard with her and always leave her wanting to be closer to you.
See other females and don't message her all the time or its game over for you, have confidence to start hitting on women if you become friends and see her reaction, don't apologise for anything either, just shrug it off.
If she thinks you think you are too good for her she will try to chase you, women want what they can't have same as us guys and they will do anything to get it, but don't be too cocky or obnoxious either it will put her off, if you try this with females you don't really care about and put it to the test then you can have confidence in life to get girls/women, this is how real ugly guys get hot girls they just don't give a sh*t and get on with the task at hand so grow a pair and start playing around life is short and chasing 1 person who don't even care for you is a waste of the small time we have on earth...
GOOD LUCK
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Hi Yangki,
I read your article which is really informative and makes one think that does the person I love fall within these love signals or not?
thanks for sharing this article with us .
TaniaPlease log in to respond to this comment.
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