I know some women wonder why a man that has chased them day in and day out loses interest in them once he think he has them. Well allow me to let you in on a few things that women do that causes the chaser to no longer have interest.
If a man chases you, of course it’s going to be a gigantic ego boost for you and it’s an adrenaline rush to him. He is actually enjoying the chase. He feel s that each day he chases you is his lucky day to finally get that phone number or even better, a date. You are secretly enjoying the chase because you can’t believe his persistence. He is starting to slightly impress you and you are even thinking about taking a phone call or two from him.
So you have agreed to take his calls and you have went out on a few dates. You find him interesting and realize that he is not a bad guy after all. You decide that you are going to be intimate. This is where all communications between the two of you has gotten twisted and tangled. The chase is now over because you have allowed your emotions to take over and now you think he is "your man." He still wants the chase to continue. You can’t let your guard down after one intimate session. You have to remain the feisty woman that you are. You have allowed him to have the upper hand in this situation and you are left feeling hurt and confused. And Why? Because he chased you diligently and you felt you were the best thing to him since red wine. Not so!
You became too serious, too fast. When he calls, you need to be busy sometimes. Never make yourself available to a man constantly. If you know that this is a man that you feel can become something serious in your life, then you need to take all precautions to ensure you are proceeding carefully. If you want to keep his interest after the chase, you must remain the woman he was chasing in the first place!
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Monica M. Burns is a writer, expert author, and editor of Monica M. Burns, Inc., small web based businesses providing informational self-help products for women. She is featured Expert Author on many websites! She has contributed to several anthologies. If you would like to publish any of this author’s articles electronically or in print to your websites, ebooks, newsletters, or ezines, you MUST include this resource box. |
