Do you want to know how to get a girl to like you? You are not the only one wondering about that. Majority of men around the world are wondering how to capture the heart of the girl of their dreams the same as you. Exactly what is that that makes one of the most baffling of God's creatures tick anyway? Here's how to get a girl to like you:
Be yourself.
To get people to like you, you only need to be yourself. Fakeness is something no one enjoys. Not being who you really are is like sending out a warning signal. Honesty and integrity is a barometer of trustworthiness. If a girl can't trust you to be yourself, why would she entrust you with her life?
Immerse yourself.
If you've always felt awkward when dealing with the fairer sex, do not fret. It may take some getting used to; but as with any brave exploit, practice makes perfect. Start with the basics.
Observe your own family. Take note of the interactions between family members of opposite sexes. If you're very lucky to have been raised in a family made up mostly of women, then you'd at least have a working knowledge of how to act around girls. But if you've only ever interacted with male creatures your entire life, you'll probably need to adjust to females more.
Try to interact with women more and try to be familiar with their ways. It won't help to keep them at arm's length just because you find them intimidating. Girls aren't immune to bouts of low self-esteem, too. If you're afraid to approach a girl, remind yourself that girls are stumped about how to get guys to like them as well.
Be nice.
"Nice" and "pleasant" mean two different things. Sure, you could be quite enjoyable to be around with, but do you actually go out of your way to be a decent person?
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.
Of course, don't do it just to show a fake demeanor. If all you're after are the brownie points, your efforts will only backfire painfully.
Clean up your act.
Some females may find the bad boy types rather sexy. That, however, is no excuse for you to avoid taking a bath. A guy can be the most perfect Adonis, but you can bet the girls will dodge him like a dreaded disease if he stinks like a skunk.
Be a friend.
Yes, platonic relationships between people of the opposite sexes do exist. In some cases, pure friendship relationships can even lead to romantic ones. But whether or not you'd like to take it that far, keep in mind that girls weren't put on earth to be chased after then to be captured like prize game.
There is a higher likelihood for her to enjoy your presence if you treat her with respect, listen to her intently, and be her support system when she's not in her best element. Leave her with no doubt about your clear motives and don't let her perceive that you're only after one thing (and we both know no one's ignorant what that is).
Just follow these simple steps on how to get a girl to like you and you'll be able to get the girl of your dreams to like you.
Michael Lee is a master persuader, professional copywriter, self-improvement expert, and author of "How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days or Less." His persuasion course at http://20daypersuasion.com has helped tens of thousands of people to win more friends, captivate the opposite sex, instantly get liked and trusted, enjoy unlimited wealth, and easily persuade anyone to eagerly do anything they want.
I'm in the 10th grade and have known this girl since freshman year. We talk like evry day and we kind of flirt together but we never hung out. She knows I never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl and she told me she had bfs and made out w/ a number of guys older then us so I think she is flirting w/ me just to have fun and I actually like her how do I seal the deal W/ her.
the girl is lying she hasnt gone with any guys older than her they tell you because they dont like you maybe ur getting mixed signals but unless you do something soon someone else will
» left by Anonymous from Boscobel Wisconsin (8 days 18 hours ago.)
There is this girl and i like her.My friend told me that she kinda likes me.Then she got a BF and then broke up.I talk to her on Facebook a little bit and gave her a nice complament that she really liked.But then in public we never talk and i wanna change that so she can be my Girlfriend.What do i do?
» left by Anonymous (18 hours 55 minutes ago.) New Comment!
wow, guys get ofyour ' and do something about it, from 7th grade to the 11th i liked this girl and only talked to her via messenger and facebook, i then got off my talked to her, turns out she liked me and dropped hints about me taking her to prom, instead i took this smoking hot blonde piece and well il leave it there ;) all im saying is that girl became a cliche but because of her i got of my ass and did somthing now im confident and getting girls. but tip facebook, talkface to face,it shows you have, trust me girls love confidence.
Okay So i have problem and I want to know if anyone else out there can help me it would mean a big deal.
I just got out of a really long 2 year plus relationship with a girl she broke up with me. I was all torn up about it even though she was mean to me after and was not the best person in the world.
i never thought i could get over the ex. It was really hard for a month then a girl whom i have never met but i had talk to on the internet started talking to her again. See my ex got on my facebook and deleted her off of it. So i figured i would add her again. We started talking again and we hit it off we talked online texted and talked on the phone for like 2 hours for 4 nights.
She said she would meet me and we would spend a week togeather And i have more in common in her then any girl i have ever met in my life we like and hate the same things. She was the reason i got over my ex. Then her off and on Boyfriend came back i got a text from her saying he stopped by and they talked for hours.
She said even though we have not she still likes me i asked her the other night and she said she still did to get it through my head and she said she is still coming here and everything.
only thing i have gotten to talk to her on is facebook chat. not on phone or text.
And i am pretty sure is back with her ex. she said they are always off and on and she is confused and just needs time. We still talk but she does not talk as much she used to she seems more laid back and does not say much.
So my question to you awesome people you think if i wait and talk to her as friends something might happen?
I know she is far away and its lame but i dunno i fell for her and she said she liked me and i dunno why but i like her. And she said she liked me i just want to know if anyone had this happen to them and if there is still a chance something might happen?
» left by Anonymous (4 hours 2 minutes ago.) New Comment!
dear persom. what i think is you should do is sit back and ask yourself why do i like about her? or find out why you like her that way you can know for sure what to say to her...and second ask her y she likes you and dont compare you and her ex or what not.... i also think you should talked to her and with all honesty tell her your feelings as for the waitng game it all depends on how she reacts to you....but dont wait too long a bigger fish may come and you could miss your chance to be happpy....
» left by Brent L from Clear Lake Iowa (6 days 21 hours ago.)
Hi. My Name is brent, im a senior in highschool. ive used my three chances with the girl of my dreams. its been a little over three months, my last relationship, i was over her in a week. but not this girl i muffed up big time with her. id think by now id have moved on. but i just cant. we dont talk anymore. but when we see each other, when me make eye contact, she smiles. im so confused. i need help. her bf doesnt want us talking, and i think thats why we arent. he wants to kick the crap outta me, but he cant. im 6'1'' and im 240. i have the upper hand. and another factors is that im leaving for college and football in the fall. is she worth all of this pain and suffering? any help on how to get her back into my life... please please please write
Um... hey there is this girl that i have loved since I met her (1 year ago 6th grade) and ever since my friend encouraged me to ask her out. But every time I'm feeling confident there is something in the way(more discouragement by some guy or someone else aks her out). I love everything about her but I don't even know how to talk to her. When we do its just saying hi to each other then leaving, then I feel like an idiot because I let another chance to talk to her slip away... Can anyone please give me good advice?
» left by Dessi from New York City (2 days 1 hour ago.)
What you really should do e is write a letter to her in skool asking if you wanna meet up somewhere and hang but make sure it's just the 2 of y'all and then tell her how you feel about her but you have to lead her up to that moment where you tell her how you feel because all girls like spontanious moments it makes them feel romantic but keep looking her in the eyes and smile
» left by Robert Belland from Edmonton, Alberta (6 days 5 hours ago.)
I wrote an article about this same subject at my blog ( Full of Hate and Ready to Date ) except I focused on the mistakes many men make - the mindset of "How can I GET something for her?"
When a guy is only focused on what he can GET from her, she'll feel this vampire type energy, which will only pushes her away from him.
When a guy has something to GIVE to her (fun energy, social proof, positive energy, etc) he'll automatically become FAR more attractive to her.
Ok so I like this girl and I am in seventh grade. We have been talking for years because she lives on my street. Know my friend likes her and he said if I keep going he will never talk to me but I like the girl a lot. Any advice on how to ask her out.
» left by brody from illinois (4 days 16 hours ago.)
,ok i am a sophmore in high school i like a really pretty girl i see some of the signs of being interested in someone when she looks at me but i dont know her too well and im not sure what to do i wanna ask her out but i dont know if she likes me how do i get her to like me ? and how will i know if she does ? please help!!!!!1
» left by brandon lee from houston, TX (4 days 16 hours ago.)
hi
theres this girl that i met at a party about a week ago and i cant get her out of my head. i think she likes me but im not sure. she was running up to me n hugging me n asking me to dance. but shes a year or two older n she doesnt go to my school. i txt her n message her on facebook, but im still not sure. please help
» left by yaseen from pakistan (2 days 23 hours ago.)
hey i need help over here " the girl is in abrod place but the thing is how should i suppose to say my feelings to her where ther is no contact , but the thing is her father still wrking in my country "- but i cant jst say it to the father my feelings , if i mail that girl sure i will get response but the thing is ---- what if she forward that mail to her father---- n by the way her father is my dad frnd n the girl is 8 months elder than me ----------------- plz help meeee me in great danger
» left by Hayden Dow from Presque Isle, ME (2 days 22 hours ago.)
Theres this older girl that i met only by a year though. she is the most beautiful thing in the world. we are good friends and we flirt..but sometimes she treats me more than a friend than a possible boyfriend. Its like sometimes she talks to me and flirts and other times she just talks like shes one of the guys just hangin out. I dont know what to do
my friend texted the girl i like and he said some mean stuff to her, then she told me to erase her number because of wat my friend wrote. I said i was sorry but she didnt care, can anybody give me advice so she wont hate me anymore? BTW im a junior in high school.
is ur friend a lady or guy?i thinks she knows there is something going on btw u and your friend that is why she is mad.but u can work things out,confront her personally and let her know what went on.i think u love her so go for ur love
there is this girl that i love,she recently completed 3 yr nursing school.any time i talk to her about relationship,she will tell me she thinks she is not ready.simply because she think she will not get time for.she plans of going back to school and cannot combined school,work and relationship.his ex cheated on her because was not getting time for him and don't want the same mistake to be repeated.i went out with her last night and after droping her off we kissed for like 3 minutes.i tought every was ok but she text me the next morning to tel me it was a mistake she is still not ready.please advice me,what should i do?i cant just stop think about her
okay so i dated this girl for 3 days in oct and we broke up i tried to get her back 3 times but it didnt work and so 3 days ago she decided to go out with one of my friends and he and her are going out and i admited to her im jelouse and i still have feeling for her and today i heard from her friend that she wants me out of her life and im so sad i doint know wat to do i want to be her friend so bad im crying over it now
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» left by bam from nc (18 hours 56 minutes ago.) New Comment!
Ok i told the girl about how i felt bout her and were realy good friends and she said that she dnt feel the same way but still wannts to be friends but she just dont understand how much i love her
» left by Anonymous (13 hours 39 minutes ago.) New Comment!
I really like this girl, we talk constantly on the phone, myspace, ect.. but in person its like i am invisible to her, no hi or nothing. what do u think i should do.
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