Do you want to know how to get a girl to like you? You are not the only one wondering about that. Majority of men around the world are wondering how to capture the heart of the girl of their dreams the same as you. Exactly what is that that makes one of the most baffling of God's creatures tick anyway? Here's how to get a girl to like you:
Be yourself.
To get people to like you, you only need to be yourself. Fakeness is something no one enjoys. Not being who you really are is like sending out a warning signal. Honesty and integrity is a barometer of trustworthiness. If a girl can't trust you to be yourself, why would she entrust you with her life?
Immerse yourself.
If you've always felt awkward when dealing with the fairer sex, do not fret. It may take some getting used to; but as with any brave exploit, practice makes perfect. Start with the basics.
Observe your own family. Take note of the interactions between family members of opposite sexes. If you're very lucky to have been raised in a family made up mostly of women, then you'd at least have a working knowledge of how to act around girls. But if you've only ever interacted with male creatures your entire life, you'll probably need to adjust to females more.
Try to interact with women more and try to be familiar with their ways. It won't help to keep them at arm's length just because you find them intimidating. Girls aren't immune to bouts of low self-esteem, too. If you're afraid to approach a girl, remind yourself that girls are stumped about how to get guys to like them as well.
Be nice.
"Nice" and "pleasant" mean two different things. Sure, you could be quite enjoyable to be around with, but do you actually go out of your way to be a decent person?
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.
Of course, don't do it just to show a fake demeanor. If all you're after are the brownie points, your efforts will only backfire painfully.
Clean up your act.
Some females may find the bad boy types rather sexy. That, however, is no excuse for you to avoid taking a bath. A guy can be the most perfect Adonis, but you can bet the girls will dodge him like a dreaded disease if he stinks like a skunk.
Be a friend.
Yes, platonic relationships between people of the opposite sexes do exist. In some cases, pure friendship relationships can even lead to romantic ones. But whether or not you'd like to take it that far, keep in mind that girls weren't put on earth to be chased after then to be captured like prize game.
There is a higher likelihood for her to enjoy your presence if you treat her with respect, listen to her intently, and be her support system when she's not in her best element. Leave her with no doubt about your clear motives and don't let her perceive that you're only after one thing (and we both know no one's ignorant what that is).
Just follow these simple steps on how to get a girl to like you and you'll be able to get the girl of your dreams to like you.
Michael Lee is a master persuader, professional copywriter, self-improvement expert, and author of "How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days or Less." His persuasion course at http://20daypersuasion.com has helped tens of thousands of people to win more friends, captivate the opposite sex, instantly get liked and trusted, enjoy unlimited wealth, and easily persuade anyone to eagerly do anything they want.
Hey i just met this girl a few weeks ago and well kinda fell for her and i think she likes me back however idk for sure...
we are both juniors in highschool and when she signed my year book she basically said that the couldnt wait to hang out and gave me her #...well later that night she texted me and told me she got my #off facebook again seemed excited...well we cant really text b/c she doesnt have unlimited and im to shy to call her, help? does she like me back? and how are ways i can break the shyness?
I fell in love with this girl who is sort of shy and has never had a boyfriend before. She used to talk to me a lot on msn and I spoke to her as a friend. I didnt have the courage to tell her how I felt, thinking she would dislike me after that. Only now do i realise that she is the sort of girl who likes you for who you are and wouldnt desert you based on your feelings, no matter whether she felt the same or not. I still love her hugely and dream often of spending lonely time together in each others arms. I am still friends with her but she doesnt speak to me on msn as eagerly as she used to.
Take you chance whilst you can, because most girls are gentle and sympathetic, and if you tell them but they dont feel the same at that moment in time, the fact you like her will always be on her mind and she will realise she has a fantastic opportunity.
Believe me on this one, do as i say and you will be a happy couple forever, no matter if it takes a week, a month or a year before your dream materialises.
ive had alot of gf this school yr 16 to be exact and i used to be shy to just ask her out. if she says yeah great if she says no youll have built some confidence up to ask another girl u like
If you really, and I mean REALLY wanna be with some one, then man up and go for it.
I'm dating someone I know from campus and I would never have thought it would ever happen- Newsflash....it did.
anmd thats Only because I gave it a shot.
Sure, its not perfect, but perfection shouldnt be a quest or a goal. Its HAPPINESS you're looking for and sissy-footing (wanted to say something else, but there may be kids reading this!) around isn't doing anyone any good.
so go on, get up and get going.
and even if she doesn't feel the same way, you win in TWO ways:
1.You got it off your chest adn gave it your best shot. now you can move on if necessary.
2. you did the right thing. Braving our innate need for consistency is a great feat. it takes guts and if you really want something GO FOR IT.
you can never be real friends with someone you feel more for, that meaning you both want different things.
so go on and find out what she wants. If shes really worth her salt, then she's bound to fall into your arms.
ok man if you just talk to her and hangout with her then you can pick up some signs that she likes you this is also a good way to break the shyness you have. So just call her up and ask her if she wants to hang out some time thats all nothing more unless she said she would like to do something else and let it go from there
» left by Anonymous (4 days 5 hours ago.)
just ask her out!
i had the same situation happen to me. i kinda liked this girl and one day one of her friends told me on myspace that she likes me. so i just asked her out. she said yes and weve been goin out for about 3 months now. the whole nervous thing is just in your mind. just put it at the back of your head and ask her out. it works : )
» left by superman from krypton (12 days 7 hours ago.)
ok I'm going to make this long story quick and easy but i need help and alot of it. Ok listen I love this girl but i did some crappy things. The girl I like has a boyfriend and she told me in texting the other day she was really upset. She never told me why she was upset though. I like her enough to reasonably ask her brother what was bothering her. Her brother is like my best friend too. He said that they broke up and I was really excited. So of course I went to her and asked her if she was ok and she never esponded. That was a few days ago and now today i asked her brother if she really broke up with him after not hearing from her in a few days i figured that was the best thing to do. He said they didn't and told her i was spreading rumors about them breaking up which i definitly didn't i swear as god is my witness i wasn't spreading rumors. So she texted me for the first time in like 5 days @#$@#&*ed off. Eventually she tells me to stop talkingto her this summer and she never wants to talk to me again. I love this girl but she won't listen to me, I call she won't answer, I text she won't respond, I e-mail she never responds either. I don't know what to do, I literally am in love with this girl and she won't talk to me. I don't know if i should or not. Do you think I should keep trying or just try to get over her and forget about her?
» left by jong dong from arkansas (8 days 9 hours ago.)
I think you should just lay low for awhile. She obviously knows that you care. Sometimes to show them you care you have to give up sometimes, and if shes feeling it she'll come running back.
» left by Anonymous (3 days 7 hours ago.)
she doesnt mean it trust me my ex would say things that she didnt mean when she was mad just try to talk to her but when she does talk to you try not to bring up whatever got her mad
» left by a person from chandler arizona (3 days 15 hours ago.)
I'm 17 years old and I really like this girl like love we've been talking since september we would always try to go out but her last boyfriend was a real d-bag and treated her bad anyways she always thinks I'm lying to her and I really don't I love her to much and I think she's really the one for me like we still talk and sometimes hangout but she doesn't think we can work things out but other days she says she loves me and wants to work things out o really don't know what to do and this has been going on ever since january I need help mann she's confusing lol.
» left by Anonymous from Australia (2 days 22 hours ago.)
Hey I really like this girl; however she is really quiet and I don't think she's ever had a boyfriend, yet she is extremely friendly with guys, and this tends to lead many guys on. I don't know how to approach the situation as whenever i see her with another guy and being really playful with them I get really jealous. She has been giving me mixed signals for a couple of weeks, but I have no idea how to read any signals, I just have no idea what to do as we aren't too close friends as of yet, so If I ask her out it may be too soon.
You have EXACTLY the same problem as I do. I have never read a comment that is quite like mine. The girl i like is called Natalie, and she too has never had a boyfriend although she does talk to a lot of boys. She doesnt know she makes boys fall for her, and no-one else thinks she is capable of it because according to most boys she isnt that attractive. I am not one of those people, I think she is the cutest and most adorable girl I have ever met. She is bright and popular aswell. I think she has made my best friend fall for her aswell recently as she has started to talk to him aswell. All i would say is keep talking to her and stare into her eyes every so often, and hold it. I strongly believe that it is possible to make any girl fall for you, no matter how attractive or popular you are. Its all i have to hope for, I hope Natalie will realise how much I love her and we can be together for the rest of our lives.
Please give me some tips of your own back and hope you get the girl you love, and i hope the same for me.
» left by Anonymous (2 days 13 hours ago.)
you should try talking to her bro and if she does the same thing to you like she does to the other guys then maybe you should tell her how you feel like you really like her and think shes beautiful just tell her how you feeel thats always the best option is to tell girls how you feel about them and if she doesnt feel the same maybe in time she will you never know until you try i wish you luckk.
Ok, there's this girl who i have really liked for a long time, but she never really seemed to take any interest in me... So a couple of weeks ago i got her number from one of my friends. I started texting her but she didn't seem that interested... So i finally broke down and sent her a text telling her how i feel, how i really like her, i've been wanting to out with her for years, and that i think about her everyday, and to please just give me a chance. She just said she didn't want to go out with anyone right now. And when i text her or try to talk to her now she just seems not interested. What do i do? What am i doing wrong?
» left by Ryan from United States (21 hours 56 minutes ago.) New Comment!
Ok, i have an update on this. I thought that maybe the text that i sent telling her how i feel probably freaked her out... So I texted her and told her i was sorry if that was the case. She said "Just that i don't feel the same way and we can be friends but we don't have to talk every day...." What does that mean? I get the "we can be friends" part, but "we don't have to talk every day"? What does she mean by that? What should i do? Please help me out...
» left by Brian from United States (1 day 22 hours ago.)
Hey all you guys struggling for this one dream girl. Please read my story. I'm sure you guys will understand how I feel and stuff. I'm a 19 year old guy. There's this girl that I really like. I've known her for about a year now, and we are now pretty close friends. we chat online and text each other almost every day. I really really want to be with her, and I can't help it but to think about her every day. I really want to tell her that I like her, but I don't know if I should because she told me she doesn't want to go out with anybody from her church anymore; I go to the same church as her. Unfortunately, things didn't go well with her last bf, who also goes to our church, so she said it'll cause too much trouble if she goes out with anybody from church again. I was devastated when she told me that. I did ask her though, just out of curiosity, who her TOP 3 guys were from our church if she were to go out with anybody, and she actually chose me as one of the guys. I was so happy when she did, but of course, I didn't really show it. Should I take that as a hint that maybe I should still go for it, although we go to the same church? But, I did ask her before if she likes anybody right now, and she said she doesn't... meaning she doesn't like me. Maybe she's not telling the truth, idk... at least, I hope so. I still really want to tell her that I like her, but I don't want our friendship to get ruined at the same time...
Anybody please help me with my situation? I'll greatly appreciate it.
» left by Ryan from United States (1 day 21 hours ago.)
Dude, i say go for it. I mean, its better than just worrying over it, and hoping and wishing. I mean if she does turn you down, it's gonna hurt but you know it never would have worked no matter how much time you spent waiting for her to be more interested in you. And if she does say yes, thats more time that you're spending with her, rather how you are right now, which i know, is not much fun.
» left by Anonymous (9 hours 30 minutes ago.) New Comment!
I need help. There is a girl that I'm honestly in love with, and I would do anything to be with her. We are friends, but I want to be closer than that. She doesn't feel we were meant to be. I don't kno what I should do.
Dude go for it, you cant lose her by trying. Trust me i made the mistake of waiting until i thought the time was right, if you just go for it you will find out that she really does like you a lot more than you think instead of 6months down the road when she has a different boyfriend
» left by Anonymous (9 hours 7 minutes ago.) New Comment!
o.k., i need sum advice. theres this grl who, 1ce upon a time, had a huge crush on me. i liked her o.k., but the problem was that, at the time, i was head-over-heels 4 another grl (that came to nothing, i doubt my then-crush even knows i exist). however, just in the past few mnths, i have fallen hard 4 the girl who liked me. we have been fairly good friends ovr the yrs, although i can`t say that we`ve hung out outside of school. she used 2 try 2 keep better contact w/ me but that has started to wane. Respond to this comment
» left by Anonymous (8 hours 49 minutes ago.) New Comment!
cntd from last comment: our respective best friends are currently dating. i really love her, but i think she`s mostly moved on from me (she`s picked up 2 exes this past year, both of which she`s still friends w/). i`m planning to become better friends w/ her over the summer to help improve my chances when i make my move. is this a good a plan? also, any tips would be appreciated. Respond to this comment
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