Does single life make you feel dejected and alone? If you really need tips on how to get a girlfriend, here they are, before Valentine's day rolls past and you're date-less again.
Be visible.
You have to be visible, out there, to get a girl; so you better make the rounds. Will you ever get yourself a girl if you stay ensconced in your room, stuck with just fantasizing about having a girlfriend. Socialize and mingle. Let friends set you up on dates.
If you're uncomfortable with the idea of meeting a new person, perhaps going to a more relaxed setting will be a more comfortable option. Having someone you know with you to help you cope with the anxiety of meeting someone new can minimize the anxiety and let you feel more comfortable and safe in your own skin.
Take it slow.
Don't be too excited about getting into a relationship. Get to know her first. Don't make yourself seem like a stalker by calling and emailing nonstop. Ask when and if it would be fine to call her.
Take things at her pace. Instead of a full-course dinner, just take her out for coffee. A casual setting such as a cafe will give her time to let her hair down and get to know you more. If things turn out according to plan, then you just may ask her out again.
Be sincere.
Flattery will get you nowhere‚ unless you really mean it. Avoid spewing cheesy lines you've obviously culled from Jerry Maguire. This will only make you appear pretentious and contrived.
Be respectful.
Treat her the way you'd want other guys to treat your sister, your mother or any woman you care about. If she declines your invitations, do not force getting her to go out with you. There will always be other opportunities to meet other girls. Who knows, she might even change her mind and call you back.
Be creative and original.
Flowers and chocolates are thoughtful gifts; but admittedly, they are quite trite by now. Give her something out of the ordinary, something she will truly appreciate, something that tells her you've taken the trouble to pick it out. You may have to do a bit of research and enlist the help of her friends to discover what stuff she's into. They will be more than happy to assist you. Not only will this pleasantly suprise her, but it will get you the all-important nod of approval from her friends as well.
Listen.
Don't keep talking about yourself and your most daring exploits. A meaningful conversation is a two-way street. Make sure you look at her when she tells you something. Give her your rapt attention. Give her the feeling that your attention is hers alone and make her feel like she is your whole world.
Be consistent.
So she finally agreed to be your girlfriend. This is not a reason for you to lax up and simply forget to woo her. That stage will never be over, even after you've won her over. Fill your life together with surprises, so she will keep guessing and there will never be a dull moment in your relationship.
Hit the books and the movies.
Try to read self-help books and watch movies on how to woo a woman. Even Hollywood has gems of relationship resources. The movie "Hitch" starring Will Smith is the perfect example.
Tips on how to get a girlfriend, like these, are meant to be applied. So internalize and apply these, and you'll never go wrong. Good luck!
Michael Lee is a master persuader, professional copywriter, self-improvement expert, and author of "How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days or Less." His persuasion course at http://20daypersuasion.com has helped tens of thousands of people to win more friends, captivate the opposite sex, instantly get liked and trusted, enjoy unlimited wealth, and easily persuade anyone to eagerly do anything they want.
You should try to take it easy. Too much of that and one could fill like there being forced to go out. Let her get to know you if she doesn't already. Srry, but most likely if she's turned you down that much times there's got to be something that just isn't working out,but it could only be becuase you are continuously asking so, so just try to take it easy.
» left by ???????? from united kingdom (175 days 6 hours ago.)
i like this girl alot but i have no conferdence around her and she knows i like her and i just dont no what to say to her and dont no if she even likes me plus she is leaving school in bout 2-3 weeks so i dont really have much time do get tono her unledd its over MSN or somethnig like that plus i really like her and she knows that but i dont no if she likes me and i dont want to ask her in case she says no or if i get rejected because ill be crusehed if she says no
Now usually things take time, but i as you said she is leaving in 2 to 3 weeks. So there isn't much u can do but just let her no how you feel and see if it works out and if it doesn't you will have to move on.Especially since she is herself. Try to let her konw through some small talk then turn towards more deeper questions, but not something that would cuase her to show reject or to leave. GOOD LUCK!!
» left by jad from leabanon (128 days 14 hours ago.)
the girl i like is a girl that she's so different she was alllllwas talking to me & sitting near me &,,,,,,,lots more but when i told her i love u ,,,<< after this holiday till now she's not talking with me any more ,,(& that is the raeson i am upset & sooooo angry,,) pls if u can help that would be something i'll tank's u for anybody ,,,
ok so i known this girl since like third grade when we had a little kid "date" relationship, and then we were just friends until she moved and is still at my school but in any of my classes and not on my bus anymore
we still talk some in the hallways n stuff and other people say she talks about me but i dont know
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