Do you miss the smell of her hair? The way you would talk for hours together about nothing in particular? The way she made you feel? You may still be in love with her.
Sometimes, it is best to forget her and move on. However, there are some cases when you might be able to make your love work again. If you think this may apply to you, here are 4 secrets for getting her love back.
Secret #1: Make sure this is what you really want: Before you really make a go of it, be sure that you believe that getting back together could be the best thing for the both of you. If there are legal reasons why you should not contact her, it is important to heed those. However, just as important as her well-being, you need to be sure that contacting her again will not end up making you worse off emotionally than you are now.
Secret #2: Locate her: Unless she is trying to avoid being contacted, locating your ex should be fairly easy. Just conduct a search via any of the available online people locator engines, many of which are free. Yahoo! PeopleSearch is a good place to start. If that does not yield any promising results, give a paid search service a try.
Secret #3: Contact her and set up a meeting: I strongly recommend contacting your ex at via telephone or e-mail before trying to meet her in person. When you do call or e-mail, ask her if you can set up a time to meet. Be sure to meet in a public place such as a coffee house so that you can both feel completely comfortable and you are forced to keep the conversation light. Upon meeting, bring up for conversation some of the fun or romantic times you have had together. But, be sure to avoid any heavy topics and do not get overly emotional. The key here is your maturity and honesty if you want to have any chances of winning back her love.
Secret #4: Give her some space: After your initial meeting with her, it is important to give her some space. Your meeting may have brought up a lot of mixed emotions in both of you, so it is important to have some time to think things through. The situation is even more complicated if one or both of you are currently in a serious relationship with someone else. Just give her some time and do not pressure her - play it cool and let her come around to the idea of your rekindled love.
Getting back the love of your ex can be one of the best things you could ever do for yourself and for her. Just remember to take it slowly and make all the right moves.
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