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Your ex-girlfriend was the best thing you ever had, and now she is gone. What happened and how can you get her back? Winning her love back will require a combination of your head, your heart, and your honesty.
First, I suggest you do a little bit of soul searching. You need for a moment to look past all of the good times, all of the sweet moments, all of the warmth - and look into the heart of the matter. After doing so, if you really feel like you would be great together again, then read on and follow my 5 steps to follow along the path to back to her love.
Step #1: Recognize her uniqueness: Even before contacting your ex again, look inside yourself and see in your mind’s eye what makes her special. Every woman has that special, indefinable quality that makes her more attractive in some way than any other women. This is her special gift: her diamond, her jewel, her nugget of gold. If you are sincere about getting her back and keeping her, let her know you see her in all her unique beauty.
Step #2: Admit your own faults: Try doing some soul-searching within yourself about your past actions in the relationship. If you believe that the end to your relationship was “all her fault," you may as well give up your quest now. If you do get back together, your old issues are sure to surface again. When they do, be prepared to admit your own part to play in the problems you had together.
Step #3: Understand what she wants: When you are daydreaming about how great your ex-girlfriend was, it is easy sometimes to see her as a symbol for all that you still dream about rather than for what she is: a real person with real wants and needs. Once you start taking with your ex again, the first thing to do is to find out what her needs and wants really are. What are her dreams? What does she want in a man? Asking the right questions will let her know that you do really care about fulfilling her needs.
Step #4: Find out if she still loves you: When you find yourself talking with her again, avoid heavy topics and issues. You should keep the conversation on lighter topics, especially since you will both be aware in the back of your minds that you are there to talk about something deeper. At some point during the conversation, you do need to ask her whether she could ever love you again.
Step #5: Make your love your main focus: Getting her back should become the primary focus of her time, at least for the time being. After the initial excitement of your reunion, you two will inevitably fall back into some of your old relationship patterns. You will need to give the relationship the time it needs to heal old wounds.
Getting your ex-girlfriend back can be one of the most rewarding things you decide to do. To succeed, you will need to do some deep introspection, get in touch with her needs, and give it the time it deserves.
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» left by Davey from California (1 year 327 days ago.)
My ex gf and i of 2 yrs broke up. A couple weeks went by and we didnt talk. When we'd see eachother we'd say hi and shed tell me about her daughter who looks at me like a dad. I went to the birthday party and it was a little akward. She told me when we broke up the feelings werent the same anymore but she loves me and still cares about me. She has alot of baggage with her last relationship. Recently after the party she started texting me again one night all night long. The next day all day long. We joked around about the break up, flirted a little. Then we decided to take the kid to go see santa, which she still tells her im her daddy and wants me to pick her up from school etc etc. After that we went shopping. We talked a little in depth about the break up. She basically has no real answer, she told me it would kill her to see me with another girl but thats something shes gonna have to get over..she jokingly tells me she almost kisses me out of habbit. Then she told me one of her friends asked if we still talk and she told her ya, we're still friends. Instantly I went into defensive mode. I told her i didnt want to be friends, that we could be cool and acquantences, but not friends. She looked as if she was about to burst into tears. She even told me she did still have feelings for me and that she misses talking to me and breaking up with me was the hardest thing shes ever had to do. So i left and said goodbye, didnt hug her or anything. Yet she still does little things to show me she care sor is thinking about me. Like texting me to tell me not to take the highway cuz theres a bad accident out of the blue. I get home, she sends me a forward joke text. Then sends me a picture of her with the quote "a momento haha jk". I ignored her, she sends me anothe rone about having something over at my house that she needs, i tell her ill grab it for her, she says thank you i ignore it again. 20 minutes later i get one about her daughter telling santa she wanted a pony for chistmas. I dont get what this girl wants...could someone please provide some advice? Respond to this comment
» left by straz from florida (1 year 183 days ago.)
went through the same thing bro...she wants the best of both worlds and your giving it to her. just stop all contact period. I didn't get her back but it helped me alot man sometimes things don't end the way we want them but its the only way you wont lose your mind. after a while of no contact she will either come to her senses and want you back or just move on. let her make the decision
» left by mahesh from bangalore (1 year 136 days ago.)
i'm a married man but i'm standing in the same position of your ex gf. from few weeks my girl has started to look toward her future. so she is getting apart from me.
so i tell u to put yourself in her place and think what will be the right step for your & her future.
even u should look towards your future isn't it , just like my sweet lover.
but please don't hurt her feelings..... Respond to this comment
» left by Pierre Nathoo from Georgetown, Guyana (1 year 37 days ago.)
My Ex-girlfriend and i broke up for 4 months and i could see that she still likes me, because when i asked her if she wants to get back together and start over our relationship she said yes and then like three days after she kissed me alot and then like 3 days after she tells me that she dont love me only like but she said that it is possible for her love to come back, and she told me that she will work on us anyways i really want to know what i have to do to make her love come back, she told me that she still cares about me alot and she wont do anything to hurt me. and i feel the same way. anyways for all of those guys that have the love of your lives its best that you treat her like the princess she is and dont break her heart like i did.
Im in a similar boat, my ex dumped me because I took advantage of her good nature and was lazy etc around the house, I also got quite jealous and despite many times her telling me to sort it out, it was too late and she dumped me, I have been gutted since our breakup and I tried endlessly to get her back, little to my knowledge then I didnt realise how this wud drive her away. We have still been meeting up regulary and we have been together since... but she also said she no longer loves me and it was only last week she said she only wants to be friends. I said id prefer not to be friends as it would destroy me seeing her move on, so ive tried avvoiding her many times, ive asked her to leave me alone too but she never does, she always texts me still and asks mad questions, shes well jealous and is worried about me moving on... i dont get what she wants from me either, she says she doesnt love me but why wont she leave me to get over her? dude, women are a pain in the arse!
Hi, im a really shy guy who lacks confidence and such, so its been hard being in a relationship for me. But my ex just recently dumped me a few weeks ago, and I think she likes me again, but im noy 100% sure. So can someone help me find out and then possibly explain to me how i can get her back?
» left by timothy wright from arlington tx (230 days 1 hour ago.)
me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago while i was in my miltary traning. i thought it was the worst wayy to handle things but she did.. after i got home we still talked off and on she would call mr=e in the middle of the night crying about how she still loved me. untill she met this new guy and jus started doggin me out.. i tried talkin to her but she was still sayin bad $%&*@$%& about me. so after so long of bein fed up wit the BS i called her and we went at it i said things i regret and should have never said to any one.. its been 2 months now and she wont text back write back or any thing. what should i do.
I broke up with my girlfriend of about six months. Now I miss her truly but I know that we cannot be together forever because we have lifestyle differences. She is absurdly religious and I'm on the opposite extreme. We have tried to reach a mutual understanding but we both know that we will be willing to sacrifice only so much, but love needs sacrificing. I was willing to sacrifice to meet her halfway, and at first she was too, but she realized that this is not the life that she wanted to live. She was raised religious, and she made it clear to me that that is how she wants to continue. What do I do now? I have two classes with her at college. In other words, I see her a total of 5 hours and 2 minutes (just in class). We used to kick it outside of school about 2-3 times a week, mostly on the weekends. now my weekends are lonely while she's off finding people that she can marry. Well, actually, her mother is finding her khastegars (translation- khastegar-noun-a possible spouse). What do I do now? Please help...
My ex-girlfriend and i had a sort of strange break-up, and i am hesitant to call it a break-up; it was more of a mutual ending. It was over the summer (I am in high school by the way), and she was doing like three sports and we both had several vacations to attend, which seemed to drive a wedge between us. Anyways, she called me up one day and she said that it really wasn't fair to wither of us to stay in a relationship if we couldn't ever see each other, so we decided to take a break, for the summer at least. Well summer ended and i asked her if she wanted to get back together, but she was till so damn busy that she said we couldn't. I guess our failing relationship soon became the elephant in the room that neither of us wanted to discuss, so i guess we kind of just left it hanging. Well we have several classes together at school this year, and we still have occasional conversations with each other. I've come to assume that she has no interest in me anymore, because she hardly ever strikes up conversations with me, and the ones that she do are always involving homework of some sort academic area that she is having trouble with. I just have this feeling that she only cares about my brain; once the summer starts and the classes end, even the pleasentires will stop. This was no regular high school romance either, we truly loved each other; the entire relationship lasted about 10 months, but in those 10 months i truly felt like we connected on an extremely deep level. i felt like i would take a bullet for her; and i loved taking care of her whenever she was down. Now, we've spent about 7-8 months apart and i feel like she's moving on without me, but i want her back. I think that there are still feelings there that never really went away, because neither of us did anything to make the other hate each other. if the aforementioned is true, then I'm hoping that i will be able to get her to admit that she has time now and still has feelings for me. i'm rather torn though, because i would rather have her as just a friend, than not in my life at all.
my ex-girlfriend and i broke up about 2 years ago. We dated all throughout highschool and i really thought she was the one. I ended up makin some bad decisions during my senior year which was hangin out with all of my friends in my class all the time and not realizing i was losing her while i was doin this. We started to drift apart and the one night i ended up cheating on her but she didnt know about it. Since i was hangin out with my friends all the time i told her that she should go hang out with her friends more even though she just wanted to be with me all the time. Well, she went out with a group of friends one night and a kid i knew was with them so the next day i called him to kind of check on her and see what they did. I asked who she hung out with and he said that she was holding hands and flirting with this one kid who was 2 years older and graduated from my highschool. I suspected that something was goin on but she never said anything and always denied it. It ended up that she had lied to me one night and said she was going out with her friend and her mom but was really with that kid all night. The next day she called me and told me where she really was and that her and that kid made out. I picked her up from her house and pretty much made her feel terrible for what she did, knowing that i had cheated on her in the past. I told her that we needed to take a break and that we might not get back together. She was so hurt and broken. I had crushed this girls hopes and dreams that she had and what she had planned with me. When i dropped her off i didnt even want to kiss her and she made it feel like this was the last time i was gonna see her, or like the last time she was going to be in love with me. Little did i kno, this was gonna be the last time. The next day at school i expected her to be upset or depressed about everything that had happend the day before and she was acting like she didnt even care about what went on. I found out later that week her and that kid went out on a date and within weeks they were dating. I really didnt think that she was going to be with someone that fast. I still loved this girl. she was the only thing that i really truly loved in my life and i didnt realize it until after she was gone and dating him. It hurt me so bad that she had moved on and started loving someone else. I couldnt understand...i wasnt going to love someone else?? we had talked about getting married and spending the rest of our lives together so much...i just couldnt understand how she loved this kid already after everything me and her had been through. The rest of my senior year i was so depressed. The emotions in my head and the anger i felt helped me win a state championship in wrestling, but i really wasnt happy...even when i won the state championship, she was the first thing i thought about. The rest of the school year she didnt really want anything to do with me...i mean we still talked but its because she was doing it out of pity sort of. she would tell me just to move on and enjoy the rest of my time in my senior year but i couldnt. I could not stop thinkin about what i lost. It was the last thing i thought about when i went to sleep and the first thing i thought about when i woke up. Once school was over i emailed her as much as i could withou being annoying or a stalker...and she would reply but i think it was out of pity for me. She is genuinely a nice person and saw how much pain i was in so she still talked to me. Right before i left for college i wrote her kind of a goodbye letter telling her everything i felt and everything that i learned from this whole experience. I called her the night before i left for college and when we talked it was like when we used to talk before we started dating. we were on the phone for hours. She replied to my email and told me that it kinnda sucks because she just talked to me for the first time and she feels like that she had tons of chances to hang out with me throughout the summer but didnt take advantage of them. Once i was up at school we tried talking on the phone alot but it got hard because she was still dating that kid. We ended up stopping to talk and decided that the next time we talk would be when we start dating again. She sent me an email on my birthday and i replied back. We started emailing again alittle bit here and there and its so nice to be talkin to her again. Now, im back at home and she just graduated highschool. A couple nights ago we talked on AIM for the first time since i cant remember and she told me that her and her boyfriend were about to break up and that if they did break up she couldnt talk to me right away as much as she wants to. She wanted to be able to break completely away from and have no feelings for him so if we do start dating there would be no lingering feelings for him and she could be 100% in love with me and all mine. That is what she told me. I found out a few days later from her friend that her and her boyfriend were gonna try and stay together. So now im stuck. This is really the only girl that i have ever loved. I love her now just as much as i did the first time i said it. I would die for this girl in a heartbeat even if she hated me. I feel lost. I think about her all the time even though its been 2 years. I dont know what to do, or how to get her back. I feel like i tried everything and it hasnt worked. Im lost without this girl and i know she is the one. I just dont know what to do.
I will tell you from my own life experience, Just give it time.. I dated my gf for 2 years, and forced her out of my life cause of baseball, I did the same thing you did. Talked about marriage and everything.. We had so much fun together. we broke up on and off a few times but always ended up together, until the last fight. When she told me never to talk to her again, and than she found a new boyfriend and was engaged and married in 7 months.
But thru all that i still talk to her little at a time like you did. But now here is hope comes in.... She called me last weekend and told me she did everything to fast and for all the wrong reasons, she still loves me and only me. and is moving home and wants to work on "us" again..
So my adivce to you is just be yourself and dont give up.
i was going out with my gf for 5 months and we broke up it was all my fault i didnt call her alot or try that much because i never thought she would leave me i did stupid stuff to try to make her jealous because sometimes i got jealous of her but one day she just stop puttin up wit me and left and i love her alot and she tell me she love me to but she done with me because i act like a little kid i didnt even know i would care this much if she left but she its had i even cried over her like i never cried over no one lik that before i wish she could just come back to me and forgive me but i @#$%&*ed up bad and i dont think she wants me back
me and my ex went out for 9 months, i don't know how it really lasted that long, but it did. the first month or so, we tried to keep in on the "down-low" but eventually someone finds out. so we just realized that people are going to know. we don't see each other that much over that summer, but we talked on the phone whenever possible and talked online when she was on vacation. we saw each other twice over the summer, both movie occasions. her friend (which happened to be my gf before her) had asked us on a double at a drive-in, we agreed. we were there, it was not what i expected it to be. but i got to see her at least. the next time was to see a movie, my friend had invited both of us to go see a movie at a small theater about 15 minutes away. i suffered through "Mama Mia" just to spend time with her. it was a month after that that i had told her that i loved her, i expected her to freak out. after 5 months we had our first kiss, we were akward about everything, it was at Homecoming...the very end...it was perfect. at that moment i realized that she was the most amazing girl that i had ever met before. the next few months were complicated; not seeing eachother that much, though we did hang a few times, i did go to see her basketball games, i enjoyed seeing her, but i had to watch her from a far, because of her dad...i still liked to see her. on January 20 she broke up with me, i had seen it coming...i lied to her and told her it was okay, that night i beat my brain to a pulp...the next 5 months i watched her from a far (not like stalking her) and we never talked at all after. so about 3 months, some rumor went around, and i heard it was started from her, i could not stand being mocked by my peers about a lie...i found she had a facebook (she had blocked me on myspace) and i sent her a friend request with a rude note in it...i realized shortly after (10 minutes) i had made a mistake. so for the next 2 months i went on thinking that she totally hated me. last month her friend, the same one with the drive-in movie, sends me an IM on facebook, and asks me why i hate her...i never got over her, those 5 months, my grades had slacked slightly, the things i had loved to do, were not as interesting anymore, and i couldn't do a thing without thinking of her. i contacted her, i sent her a friend request on myspace (she had un-blocked me) and i applogized to her, she sent me a reply, and said she thought that i hated her. so we start talking over facebook/myspace, and we then started to talk on the phone. she told me everything she had done over the 5 months we had been apart. one day i told her how i felt, the truth, she said to me that, your just saying all that because you just want to have a girlfriend. i told her, if i wanted a gf i would have tried to get one. and recently she told me she loves me, just not in that way, but she is confused cause she wouldn't care if i dated someone else. i have no idea what to do now, we keep talking on the phone now and i still feel the same, but if you had the time to read through all this, advice would be VeRy helpful, i would much appreciate it. we didn't have that much in common, but she has that something, i can't figure it out, but i know she has it.
» left by Tim Ronaldo from montreal, QC (102 days 18 hours ago.)
hey.. i think i need help badly.. ive been with my gf for 2 years and we've broken up about 3 months ago and she broke up with me because i was jelouse we fought about stupid stuff lots of stuff went on. I dont know what to do exactly... i want her back. and i know i could make her happy again.. i want to always be with her.. she hasnt text me yet i havnt really texted her.. when we talk i show her i dont care about the break up but im nice with her. we dont talk about the breakup we say hi whats up how are you.. she went through her friends phone and saw me texting her friend because her friend wanted to hang out with me so she would text me to because she missed me. she checked her phone on purpose though to see for mytext because when her friend got her phone back from my ex she saw my message was open and then there was an awkword silence. so i dont know. i think i need to just give it time more at least 3 more months and then slowly get back with her or something i dont know. I do know though that shes sort of seeing a guy she sais she doesnt like him but i dont know. I just need to figure out a way that will bring her back to my arms. because on the opposite side i was a good boyfriend towards her ive tooken her out watch late night movies did super things for special holidays for her. even gave her a promis ring... so if anything i dont know i think its all into time... but i just want to be sure. please help me some 1.. thank you!
hey man, i'm in the same shoes as you are. I stopped all contact for about 2 months. after 1 month of no contact, she called me kinda upset, asking me why i haven't called. That's when I knew she was still interested in me. And then another month went by without contact because she was out of the country. Right after she came back, I called her, and met her up. We had a great time, and she told me how she loves me but she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. I don't know what to do. She wants freedom and independence that she once had, but I don't necessarily think I take those away from her. I can't give you any solid advice on what to do in your situation, but knowing that there's someone out there struggling with the exact problems that you have might be able to relieve your suffering a little bit. Keep your chin up, meet other girls, and wait if she's the one. Respond to this comment
» left by jmt from lost worlds (53 days 19 hours ago.)
wow this is almost pretty much what i went through but just longer...well i was dating this girl for 2 yrs and it was the longest relationship i had ever been through and the only one girl i have truly loved....well its been 3 yrs since we broke up and she met some one new and is actually deep in love with the guy...well heres how the break up started the official break up it was because some girl left me a message and said thanx for taking her out to dinner and this is when i was over seas visiting my relatives and my ex wanted to leave me messages everyday while i was over there and she knew my password to the voice mail so when checked she called me while i was drinkin with my brothers and started screaming at me saying who is this girl i said it was just one the girls i knew when i was younger and i took her out to dinner and i guess she didnt understand so that got me mad and i told her ok forget it lets not talk anymore and hung up....2 months pass and i never called her cuz i figured that we should both just have a little space to breath and rethink about everything so when i finally gave in and called her she sounded ok and i didnt tell her i was coming bak that day cause i wanted to suprise her so when i got to england for the plane to refuel i called my brothers girlfriend and told her that im coming home in 12 hours and i wanted to suprise my x girlfriend and then thats when the most heartbreakin words came out from her mouth " u know cyndee has a new bf name ****" i just drop the phone and broke out into to tears like wow that fast so when i finally arrived home my friend showed me her page on myspace and their anni was exactly a month from that night we argued i was wondering like wow 1 month and she dating a new guy already and ever since then we havent spoken to eachother like that...honestly i still think of her and have dreams of her every night i sleep and those are the best moments in my life i just wish i we could start all over again but im still happy for her....how could i get her back???? if anyone could ever get their ex lover bak cherish her and never do things to regret a second time i guess we all learn from our mistakes good luck fellas
My situation is kinda different than the others and a bit more complicated. We was together for about four years before we broke up. I didn't even know that we really broke up till i was gone. It all started when she wanted to start to party alot about two months before we split. She would go upstairs and hang out with the neighbors and have a good time and i would go with her. But i guess she was cheating on me with one of the neighbors that was my so called friend but he only said he was my friend so that i wouldn't run him off for hanging out. She would stay out later than i could because of the hours that i worked and i reckon that between the time i left and woke up was when she would pull her crap. She told me one day to go to my parents for a couple of days while someone in her family was staying over cause someone was in the hospital. That was a lie. A couple of days has now been four months that i have been gone. I love her to death and call me crazy but she could slit my throat and i would write it in my blood on the floor. The whole time that i was gone she would come out and stay the weekends and make promises of a better tomorrow that i would gladly buy. Thats exactly what i wanted to hear so i bought it. She said in july that she was getting a new place and wanted me to move in with her and i was so happy and all the while she kept comin out for the weekends. well it came time two months later to move in and so i moved all of our stuff from one place to another and as soon as i was done moving everything she told me that i needed to get on the lease so she wouldn't get into trouble for me being there before i could move in. Well the office was closed when she told me that so i left. The next day i came back and stayed two days and they were great but no application for the lease. Then after the two days she says that she doesn't want me to be there right now cause someone else is moving in. I was floored you mean that u had me move all our stuff in and had me stay just to tell me this $%&*@$%&. Come to find out she never had any intentions on getting me on the lease because it was already in the other guys name. Even after that she kept telling me what i wanted to hear and like a jackass i kept buying it because we were together for so long and i didn't wanna lose her. TODAY i found out that she is getting married next week to another guy. This is messed up. Right before she told me that she asked me to beg the other guy to leave and for me not to say she told me to. This is messed up right. then she tells me she is getting married. I must be nuts because i still want her back. We have been through alot since we got together and always came out on top. She is still on the fence she says but she thinks that she is making a huge mistake and she is gonna let me know later today what she has decided. The past four months have been so hard for me. There is alot more to it than what i have wrote but if i wrote it all it would take up two pages. This is the short version. She said that she misses me and wants to have me back and thats cool but i gotta wonder if i get my hopes up is she gonna stomp on my heart once again fix it and stomp on it again. I just hope this is all over soon cause i have really been goin through a rough time lately.`but email me with any comments at ghettoc0atyahoo
my ex and i took time apart a few days ago been together for 5 years and we have a 18 month old baby girl. things got a lil old it seemed and realy havent done alot of things together and i could tell something was just not right. she mad cuz i have yet to pop the question to merry her and shes now saying she needs time apart to see what she wants and shes not sure if she wants to be married to me anymore. i didnt realize that i was comfertable how things were that i forgot that maybe i needed to ask her to be my wife. i was just used to the way it always have been. now im torn inside and i want the best for my kid. i dont want anyone to fill my shoes in in the life that now im very sure what i want and she doesnt want the same things. i think if i leave her alone that ill loose her forever and if i try to talk about it or convince her that this is wrong and we need eachother ill push her away. i know she loves me and iv know now im crazy in love with her and i think i could make things exciting and new again + we have a daughter and i know iv screwd up any ideas???
» left by THOMAS SMITH from CHICAGO (24 days 1 hour ago.)
I NEED HELP
MY GIRL FRIEND TOLD ME "SHE LOVES ME, BUT SHE LOVES HERSELF MORE THAN SHE LOVES ME". WE HAVE BEEN DATING FOR ABOUT THREE YEARS. I TRIED ALL I CAN NOT TO BREAK UP, BUT SHE DIDN'T WANT IT. NO REASON AT ALL. SHE JUST TOLD ME WE ARE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I LOVE HER SO MUCH. PLEASE ADVISE ME, WHAT I SHOULD DO TO KEEP MOVE ON. IT HAS BEEN ALMOST A MONTH NOW SINCE WE BROKE UP. SHE CALLS ME ONCE A WEEK, AND I CALLER ATLEAST 2 OR 3 TIMES A WEEK. PLEASE ADVISE.
Yea I just read several stories which are similar to mine. My gf went up to Alaska to intern there for 3 months about 1 month and a half into it things got rough. I didn't trust the guy she was with up there cuz he seemed like a douche that would take her away from me and in the end he did but it was partially my fault. Anyway long story short she and I ended up breaking up and I had lots of harsh feelings for the situation but I still feet love for this girl. We have been together about a year and 9 months and broken up for 4 months but those feelings still haven't left. She says that she has changed and grown independent and i have tried to talk to her about it but in the end its all a mess and she like being single. I guess i can only hope for the future and hope she will change her mind.
» left by Mitch Brown from Michigan (2 days 23 hours ago.)
I need help here, I have been friends with this girl for 3 years, I asked her out and she said yes. But she said if it didn't work out she still wanted to be friends, she treats me like no other person I have ever met before. We went out for 2 weeks and then today she gave me a note that said I am an awesome friend, and that she thinks we should stay great friends. The only thing is we weren't doing anything out of the ordinary for friends, we didn't hug, kiss, say I love you or anything like that. I want to go back out with her, I just dont know what to do, please help me
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ME AND MY EX GIRLFRIEND BROKE UP A WEEL AGO , I STILL HAVE A LOT OF DEEP FEALLING FOR HER , SHE WAS MY GIRLFRIEND ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO LIKE FOR 4 MONTHS AFTER WE BROKE UP TIME PAST AND WE STARTED TO TALK AGIAN ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO SHE FINISH BREAKING UP WITH HER EX , IVE BIN WITH HER AGAIN FOR 2 MONTHS , EVREYTHING WAS PERFECT , WE BOTH HAD A CONECTION THAT I NEVER TALT COULD BE POSSIBLE , IVE SUFFERD A LOT ONECE AND EVER SINCE I NEVER OPENED MY HEART TO KNOW ONE , BUT AFETER A STARTED TO KNOW HER ALL OVER AGAIN I FELL IN LOVE EASILY , WE USE TO FIGHT A LOT THE FIRST MONTH WE WE WENT BACK TOGETHER , BUT EVEN DO ARE RELATIONSHIP STOOD STRONG , THE NEXT MONTH THE FIGTHING STILL REMANDE AND ARE RELATIONSHIP STARTED TO END SLOWLEY , I KNEW WHAT WAS WRONG SO I TALKED TO HER ABOUT IT AFTER THE TALK ABOUT WE WHERE NOT GOING TO FIGHT ANYMORE , THAT WEEK I DID NOT FIGHT AT ALL , BUT IT SEEMD LIKE SHE WASINT SO HAPPY LIKE SHE USE TO BE , I FELT REALLLY BAD BUT I KEPT TRYING MY HARDEST , SOMTIMES SHE WOULD CONTINUE WITH THE FIGHTING BUT I ALWAYS AVOIDIT THEM THAT WEEK , SATURDAY CAME AND I WAS GETTING A BIT TIRED OF HER KEEP FIGHTING WITH ME , SO THAT NIGHT I CALLED HER NORMALLY AND TALKING NORMALLY AND SHE WAS TALKING TO ME WITH A REALLY BAD ADITUDE , I GOT SO TIRED OF IT THAT I LEFT HER THAT NIGHT , BUT IN A KIND WAY , I TOLD HER THAT I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHINH AND THAT SHE JUST DOSINT SEEM HAPPY ANYMORE , AND THAT I JUST WANT TO SEE HER HAPPY EVEN DOE IF ITS NOT WITH ME , DOES WORDS HIT HER LIKE BRICKS , SHE STARTED TO SAY : DONT SAY THAT IM HAPPY , IM REALLY HAPPY WITH YOU . BUT INSIDE I KNEW IT WAS NOT SO TRUE , THE NEXT DAY WAS THE DAY THAT WE TURND 2 MONTHS TOGETHER , AND SHE CALLED TALKING TO ME NICER THEN EVER , AND TREATING ME RIGHT , SHE LIKE DID NOT ACCEPT THAT I HAD LEFT HER , SO THAT NIGHT I TOLD THE SAME THING TO HER AGAIN AND LEFT HER EVEN DOE IT HURTED ME A LOT . NO GUY EVER LEFT HER BEFORE I WAS THE FIRST , THE NEXT DAY WE BORH TALK TO EACHUDER AND SHE TELLS ME THAT SHES KNOW MOVING TO NY WITH HER FATHER , THAT THE ONLY REASON SHE DID NOT LEAVE WAS BECOUSE OF ME , I REALLY FELT BAD BUT I DID NOT SHOW IT TO HER , WE BOTH HAVE A LOR OF PRIDE , AFTER THAT I WENT TO MY FRIENDS HOUSE WITH HE LIVES REALLY CLOSE TO MY EX GIRLFRIENDS HOUSE , SHE CALLS ME AND I TOLD HER WHERE I WAS AT , SHE TOLD ME TO COME OVER , SO I DID , I REMAIND TALKING TO HER IN HER HOUSE LIKE HER FRIEND BUT SHE JUST DID NOT RESIST ME AND STARTED KISSING ME LIKE NEVER BEFORE AND HUGGING ME AND TELLING ME HOW MUCH SHE LOVES ME , I FELT REALLY HAPPY , AFTER THAT SHE TELLS ME THAT IF I REALLY WANT DIS BREAKUP TO HAPPING I SAID NOT RALLY BUT I HATE THE FIGHTING , SO I ASK HER DO YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH ME , AND SHE STARTED TO THINK AND SHE SAID LETS GIVE ARESLF A BIT TIME OFF BUT LETS KEEP ON TALKING ALSO LIKE WE USE TO WHEN WE STARTED DATING , I WAS CONFUSED , IT WAS LIKE IF I WAS CONTROL OF THE SITUATUON AND LIKE IF SHE REVERSED IT ON ME , BUT I STILL REAMING COOL AND I AGREED WITH HER , WE STILL WAS HUGGING AND KISSING THAT NIGHT , THE NEXT DAY WE STARTED TO TALK ON THE PHONE NORMALLY BUT SHE STARTED TO CALL ME ANTHONY INSTEAD OF BABY , IT WAS WEARD BUT I GUESE THAT WAS WHAT THE TIME OFF MENT , AFTER WE HUNGED UP THE PHONE NEATHER OF US SAID I LOVE U , IT WAS SO WEARD , AND I FELT SO BAD , THE NEXT DAY WE TALKED A BIT LESS AND I FELT LIKE IF SHE WAS FEALLING A BIT UNCONTERTUBLE CALLING ME , SO I TOLD HER IF YOU REALLY WANT THIS TIME OFF , IT DOSINT MEEN THAT YOU NEED TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH ME ALL DAY , I KNOW YOU HAVE STUFF TO DO AND I DONT WANT YOU TO THINK THAT YOU NEED TO CALL ME , JUST DO YOURE STUFF AND HAVE FUN WITH YOURE FRIENDS , IT WAS HARD FOR ME TO SAY THIS BUT I FELT THAT I HAD TO , SHE WAS I BIT MAD WHEN I TOLD HER , THEN I HUNG UP AND TOLD HER I LOVED HER , SHE SAID ME TO , SHE ALWAYS USE TO SAY I LOVE YOU TO ... THE NEXT DAY I WENT TO HER HOUSE TO BRING HER A SCHOOL PROJECT THAT I HELPED HER WITH , SHE DIDINT SAY MUCH , A SMILE IN HER FACE DID NOT EVEN COME UP , I WAS SAD IN THE MOMENT , WE BOTH WHERE GOING TO THIS CONCERT BUT NOT WITH EACHEUDER , I LEFT HER A CANDY LIKE I ALWAYS USE TO DO , SHE SAID THANK YOU MY LOVE , I FELT HAPPY IN THE MOMET , 2 HOURES PAST AND WE SALL HER IN THE CONCERT BUT SHE JUST LOOKED AND KEPT TALKING TO HER FRIENDS .. SO I KEPT TALKING TO MINES NORMALLY , THAT NIGHT I CAME HOME CRYING A LOT , AND I MEAN A LOT , A LOT OF MEMORYS STARDED TO COME TO MY HEAD , AND EACH ONE OF THEM MENT THE WORLD TO ME , THE NEXT DAY I PIKED UP MY FRIEND AND HER BROTHER SALL ME AND WANTED TO COME A LONG , SHE DID NOT KNOW , SO WHEN WE CAME BACK I BRONG HER A SUNDAY FROM MCDONALS JUST HOW SHE ALWAYS LIKED , I TOLD HER BROTHER TO GIVE IT TO HER , WHEN I GOT HOME SHE TOLD ME TANKS FOR THE SUNDAY AND WE TALKED FOR LIKE 10 MINUTS THAT DAY DAT WAS ALL , I CALLED HER AT NIGHT AND SHE DID NOT PIK UP THE PHONE , SO I DID NOT CALL HER ANY MORE , I WAS SICK I HAD FEVER ALL OF A SOMTHING , AND A STARTED TO CRY AND CRY AND CRY AND MEMORYS WAS COMING BACK I Y WAS CRYING AND CRYING TO MY EYES WHERE SWOLLEN LIKE IF SOMEONE PUNCHED ME IN THE EYES .. TODAY I HAVENT TALKED TO HER IN ALL DAY , I SALL A COMMENT THAT A GUY LEFT HER A COMMENT THAT SAID : DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND , SHE RESPONDED TO HIM NO , ITS BETTER THAT WAY , I WAS DEPRESS WHEN I RED THIS , I STARDED TO SAY HOW COULD IT BE BETTER HER BEING ALONE THAT WITH ME , IT WAS BY DEPRESCION THAT I SAID THIS TO MY SELF . SHE JUST FINISH CALLING ME RIGHT NOW WHILE I WAS WRITING THIS , SHE WAS TALKING TO ME FAST AND LIKE IF SHE DIDINT CARE ABOUT THE RELATUONSHIP JUST TALKING TO ME LIKE ANY OTHERE FRIEND SHE HAS , I STARTED TO TALK TO HER ALSO , I DO NOT CRY IN FRONT OF HER OR BEG HER FOR ANYTHING I ALSO HAVE PREIDE AND I KNOW THAT WOULD JUST DRIVE HERE FUTHER AWAY , AFTER WE WAS TAKING FOR LIKE 5 MINUTS SHE SAID ILL CALL YOU IN A MOMENT THAT IM DOING SOMTHING I TOLD HER : ILL CALL YOU THEN MORE LATER THAT IM GOING TO TAKE A BATH AND WATCH A MOVIE, SHE SAID : WELL OK EVEN BETTER ... IM REALLY CONFUSE I TALT SHE WANTED TO KEEP ON TALKING LIKE WE USE TO , WE NEVER TALKED THIS WAY , IM SO CONFUSE AND IM TRYING TO GIVE HER AS MUCH SPACE SHE NEEDS , I REALLY REALLY LOVE HER , WE HAVE SO MUCH HISTORY TOGETHER , I REALLY WANT HER BACK .. PLEASE SOMONE HELP ME AND GIVE ME A ANSER AS SOON AS YOU READ THIS ....
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