My husband I will be married for nine years this month. I know not a big date, but another year that should be celebrated. As women, we tend to grow these great expectations every year of a romantic night between the two of us rekindling that long lost passion of our wedding night.
For most of us, it is just unrealistic to expect some fantasy night when our husband has no clue or is not as expertly prepared in the romance department. Instead of being disappointed yet another year in a row, why not try something new this year? Why not take charge of the romance department and plan a night that will sure to go down in the record books?
I know you are thinking that your man is not into that romance stuff. He may not be or he may surprise you. Every man loves to be appreciated and respected. This is your chance to show him how much you care. Why does all the pressure have to be on him every year? Take some pressure off and show your man how special he is to you. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Breakfast in bed
What man doesnt love food and what better way to get to his heart than threw his stomach first thing in the morning? I know that is clich, but there is a reason it is still around. Make him something sweet like some cinnamon sweet rolls or bake a home cook county meal of sausage, biscuits, etc. Make sure you serve it with your apron on coated with a little flour and your hair a little messed so he knows you worked hard. Include a note that says looking forward to showing you how much I love you today this day on our anniversary. Guys are very visual and love the respect aspect so if you can play up the server part-it will score big.
Plan a Couple Massage
If your guy is like my guy, he probably will be reluctant at the thought of a massage from another person. So why not do it together? It will give you both the opportunity to relax and let your cares go away. Plus, it is something you can do together!
Get Dressed Up For A Night Out
O.k. so you think your man doesnt like getting dressed up? Well, here is the kicker ladies-he probably doesnt, but he loves seeing you dressed up so he will do anything at that point. So spend time doing your hair, make-up and getting all dressed up. Most of us see each other every day in normal clothes and most likely not at our best the majority of the time. Men like the fact that you go the extra mile to impress them. It makes your husband still feel admired and it lets him admire you at your best. This is not the time to have a self-esteem meltdown. Show him your beauty and confidence.
Get Physical
So as much as we both wish I didnt bring it up-here it is. Guys measure a good night by the sex. Sorry, ladies. That is how guys measure there success. So plan for it and make him feel special this year.
Cap It Off With Dessert
You know your guy. Does he have a sweet tooth? If so, bake him a cake, cookies, brownies, pumpkin pie, etc. It shows that feminine side again as well as leaves him full.
These are obviously just a few suggestions. You know your husband best so get planning and take the pressure off him this year!
