Kissing a girl for the first time can be a very tense moment. Of course
we like making out with a girl as much as the next guy, but we just
aren’t sure if she’s enjoying the kiss like we are. Women and men are
after different things when they kiss, and most men don’t know what
women want in a kiss.
Fortunately, I found an older woman a few years ago who
explained all of this to me. Based on her mentoring, coupled with what I
learned on my own through the years, I've gathered up several key kissing tips for guys
who want to learn how to kiss better.
Here are 3 powerful tips for men who want to get better at kissing:
Kissing Tip for Guys #1 – Kiss Her As Soon As Possible
On
the first date, there’s often some kind of tense energy. Once you two
kiss, that energy is dispelled, and the two of you can have fun with
the rest your interaction.
Making the move sooner rather than
later also sets the expectation for how fast the relationship is going
to move. For example, if it takes you three dates to work up the nerve
to kiss her, then chances are she sees you as a person who’s going to
take her out to movies and dinners for months before being intimate
with her. If you kiss her 15 minutes into your first interaction, she
may perceive you as a person she can have a hot relationship with very
quickly.
Kissing Tip for Guys #2 – On the Initial Kiss, Go Soft
There’s
not many things worst for a woman than a man sticking his tongue into
her throat during the first kiss. Likewise, a man attempting to sweep
her off her feet by throwing her against the wall the first time is
usually going to appear vulgar than confident.
There’s all the time in the world for that later on. During the first kiss, focus on giving her a soft, sensual, magnetic kiss.
Kissing Tip for Guys #3 – Add Variety Over The Relationship
The
soft and sensitive kiss can get old pretty easily. Even French kissing
will probably get old if that’s the only way you kiss.
Vary your
kisses to keep the spark and excitement going. Let your hands slide
over her body in various sexy ways. Vary kissing her gently, quickly,
passionately, sexily, light-heartedly, or even messily.
Men
sometimes get far too caught up in getting the kissing ”correct”. If
you’re pressuring yourself to do it right, you can be assured that she
can tell. And being worried about getting something correct to impress
her isn’t very attractive. Simply have a good time when you kiss, and
she’ll enjoy it too.
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