I knew a guy once who studied all the techniques for getting people to buy into the idea of 'you'. He did indeed successfully 'sell' himself to me. He did though make two mistakes.
The first was telling me that he employed these techniques on others so it was then easy for me to identify where he had employed them with me.
Second was that my experience of him eventually made me realize that the 'goods were not as described' so I returned to sender and requested a refund.
Basically, tell people you are great often enough and they may just start to believe it. It worked for him temporarily.
Despite the eventual failure of these techniques, I can give you a heads up on what initially works and how to get the girls to like you.
1) Women seem to like men who are liked by other women.
If you are selling yourself on a dating site, it may actually benefit you to have the odd picture of you with some glamorous 'female' friend. In addition to this you can mention your evenings out with female friends and how women are like to bee's to honey when they see you.
If you are going out with the boys, you may actually have more success pulling the girls if you go out with the 'girls' or at least include a few. When women see guys with other women, they want to know what it is those women find attractive about that male and also I suppose there is also a slight competitive element.
2) Women seem to like what they can't have.
Somehow you need to let the woman know you want her without making yourself easily available. Being married is one technique though I don't recommend this!
Alternatively, if you are seeking the attentions of particularly attractive female who is accustomed to male attention, you could if approaching her at bar while she is with friends, make a point of giving her friends more attention than you do her. This may result in her seeking out your attention as oppose to fighting off your advances.
Now for my own contribution - how to get a date.
3) Make sure you're dressing for the time period we live in and not some bygone era.
Women can make snap judgments about men based on the color of their socks, so do not get this wrong. Where I come from white socks with shoes are always a deterrent!
4) Be well groomed but never more well groomed than a female.
Women don't want a man who spends more time in the bathroom than she does. BUT you have a four hour window, so anything less is good.
5) Smell good
Find out what the latest trendy scent is for men is and get some. If you can't afford it pop along to a Department store and request a free sample. This will keep you going for a while. Women are drawn to men who smell good.
6) Keep your breath fresh
It is no good going in for that all important first kiss if you smell of Eau de Beer or Eau de cigarette. Take some breath mints out with you and always clean your teeth before going out.
7) Keep the conversation light and breezy.
Ask questions about her and don't spend all night talking about yourself and football or your other hobbies unless she asks and is genuinely interested.
Good luck, if you are reading this then I guess you need it!
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