In many ways blind dating is no different than any other type of
dating. The basic elements of dating still exist but you do need
to exercise more caution in a blind date. Like any other date you
want a blind date to go well so that you can ensure yourself a second
date. However, while it is important to exercise caution in all
types of dating it’s even more important in blind dating. Another
factor unique to blind dating is getting set up with a great
date. While this may not always be in your hands there are some
ways that you can take some initiative in this area.
Just remember that attitude is extremely important when you are dating
women. You want to have fun, you want to get the girl and it's a game
you don't want to lose! If you've been rejected before and you're
handling every date with a lousy attitude, things will only get worse.
So put a smile on your face, work up a positive attitude about yourself
and all these dating tips will fall into place.
Like any date the key to a blind date is setting yourself up for a
second date. Arranging a fun date and being interesting to your
date are two keys to achieving a second date. In making
conversation on a blind date, it is important to take an interest in
what your date has to say. Doing this will let them know that you
are interested in getting to know them better. Also, try speaking
about subjects that you really enjoy. This will make you not only
sound more natural but will also make you sound more interesting.
Dressing to impress is also critical to a blind date. In meeting
someone for the first time you will want to ensure that you make a good
first impression. You don’t always know how much a blind date
already knows about you but it doesn’t hurt to show up for the date
looking as though you have put a great deal of effort into your
appearance. You’re date will appreciate the effort and be
flattered by your going out of your way to impress them.
One key factor to blind dating is to exercise caution in meeting your
date. Even if you are being set up by a close friend you can’t be
positive that they know the person they are setting you up with very
well. It’s best to set up an initial meeting in a well lit and
populated location. Never agree to meet someone you don’t know at
a secluded location. While your blind date may be a wonderful
person with no intentions of hurting you, it’s best to exercise caution
on a blind date.
Another factor unique to the blind dating situation is getting yourself
set up with a great date. You may have several friends that are
interested in setting you up with a friend or relative whom they think
is just perfect for you but try not to agree to go on a blind date that
is set up by someone who doesn’t know you very well. If they
don’t know you well, then don’t trust them to choose a date for
you. However, if you have a friend who does know you very well,
don’t hesitate to drop hints about what you are looking for in a
date. Those who know you best are most likely to set you up with
a compatible blind date.
Making an honest effort to have a good time on your date is another tip
that can lead to a successful blind date. If you go into a blind
date with the attitude that things won’t work out, you will most likely
unconsciously put a damper on the date. Your date may sense your
lack of enthusiasm and in turn won’t be inspired to put an effort into
having a good time either.
Another tip for blind dating is to be sure to end the date
appropriately. Many people may recommend that when going on a
blind date you have a backup plan in place such as having a friend call
you shortly after the date starts to give you an excuse to leave if
things aren’t going well but doing this just isn’t right. Instead
extend your blind date the same common courtesy that you would any
other date and be willing to complete the entire date. If neither
party is having a good time, it’s acceptable to end the date early and
just agree that you weren’t compatible but don’t be too quick to give
up on the date. Also, at the conclusion of the date be honest
about your feelings towards your date. If things just didn’t work
out, don’t be afraid to let them know instead of offering empty
promises of future dates. However, if you truly enjoyed your
date, let your partner know and take the opportunity to suggest a
second date.
Bringing a friend along is another tip for blind dating. This is
helpful for a couple of reasons. First if your blind date had any
malicious intentions towards you, having a friend along is likely to
spoil his plan. Secondly a friend may be able to ease the tension
and break the ice by getting the conversation started. While the
addition of an extra person on a date may seem awkward, having them
there can provide emotional spirit and an additional comfort level.
Even if the date is going well, another tip for blind dating is to end
the date after 2-3 hours. This is an adequate amount of time for
two people to get to know each other on a date and determine whether or
not they would be interested in a second date. Blind dates that
last longer than this often reach a point where the couple runs out of
things to talk about and the date can stagnate leaving a negative
feeling at the end of the date. Keeping the date short can help
you to end the date on a positive note and will leave you with more to
talk about on a second date.
Being yourself is important on any date but it’s critical on a blind
date. A blind date deals with someone who does not know you so
it’s important to give them a true sense of yourself on your
date. You may get away with pretending to be something you are
not on the first date but it may lead to trouble in future dates as
your date realizes you were phony on the first date.
Finally, treat your blind date with the same courtesy that you would
any other date. You may not know the person you are dating but it
is important to arrive on time, be polite and put an honest effort into
the date. Your blind date is just as deserving of these
courtesies as any other person you have dated. A blind date is no
excuse to let your manners lapse and mistreat your date.
For the most part blind dating does not differ from any other dating
situation. However, there are a few things unique to blind dating
of which you should be aware. Most importantly it is critical
that you not put yourself in danger by agreeing to meet a blind date in
a secluded location. Another unique aspect of the blind date is
that you are often set up by a friend or family member so you have the
opportunity to learn what they think would be a suitable match for
you. Beyond the specifics related to blind dating, the rules of
regular dating still hold true. If you are polite, genuine, fun
and interested in your date you will be likely to score a second date.
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