I was talking to someone the other day and we had
conservation about lust and love. She told me that people don’t fall in love
because it will never be that way. It’s all based on lust because couples will
never hurt each other if it’s love. I kind of agree with this person at this
point. It was hard enough to admit that because I’m a firm believer of love at
first sight and finding a soul mate. When I realized what this she was trying
to say, I questioned her past experience in relationships.
If you’re a psychologist (I’m not), you know the past
experiences can mold a person’s persona or behavior. As I questioned her past
relationships, I noticed that she had it very bad. She doesn’t believe in love
anymore because her past boyfriends she treated her badly. She doesn’t want to
get hurt again. I was trying to convince her that there are plenty of fishes in
the sea and that she should take it as an experience so you won’t make the same
mistake again.
However, it’s easier said than done, right? This happens to
people who try to compromise what they have with their partners. They give
everything they have just to see it crumpled to the ground.
Even though people like her had bad experiences in
relationships, they should never give up on love. Do not let a “dark cloud” go over your heart.
That dark cloud will just block every opportunity to be loved. If you feel this
way, don’t be afraid of love.
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