I think that, all predators are pure garbage and, should be hog tied
if, we were able to catch up to all of them. But, the behavior some of
our youth display nowadays is extremely shameful. I’m not saying that
it’s all their fault that predators are online doing the things they do
but, they make it real easy for them to live out their sick, unhealthy,
unnatural obsession with our youth. Because, if the sickos weren’t
being fed obscene conversation, pictures, video or, live webcam shows
then, there would be nothing for them to see. Then, they will have to
get their jollies off someplace else.
Some of today’s youth are extremely candid, provocative and, so
willing to explore avenues some grown-ups can’t even begin to fathom.
True, you can make it so that your children aren’t able to access
certain sites or chat rooms without your permission but, what happens
once their in and, you’re gone? It seems as though, the children become
lost in a world of their own and, the childhood rules of, don’t talk to
strangers go right out the window. Sometimes, there’s the case whereas,
the child doesn’t get the attention at home that they so need or
desire.
In some cases, parents seem to think the time they spend with their
children is enough but, in reality it isn’t. Life today is so fast
paced and, people often have multiple things to do but, there just
don’t seem to be enough hours in the day. So, therefore the time that
is given to their child may not be enough for him or her. Maybe for
instance, your child had a bad day, need some advice or, just want to
tell you what a good day they had but, you don’t have time to sit down
and listen. That can probably make them feel unloved, lonely or, make
them feel like what they do just isn’t that important.
Then, right away they just on the computer and, into the chatroom
because, they know there will always be someone there who will listen
to them. So, maybe they tell the person they’re chatting with about
their day whether good or bad. The predator immediately feeds off of
what the child is saying and, tell them exactly what they want to hear.
Maybe, the child wanted to tell their parent about the game they won at
school that day but, the parent didn’t have time to listen. So, that
person soaks up all the enthusiasm from the child and, play along
asking, “So, what team did you beat? ” The child tells them who, then
where and, so on.
All of a sudden, he has enough information to find out where the
child is. Then, maybe he suggest that they celebrate. Of course, all
the while the child is under the impression that another child is on
the other end of that conversation or, maybe they know it’s a grown-up
and, feel that they are more in tuned or, care more for them than their
parent/parents. So, they agree to meet and, they rest is history. But,
though that’s not always the case sometimes it is and, parents need to
spend more time with their children showing interest in the little
things that interest them. |
