Well everyone we are nearing into a new year and changes have to be made if life in 2008 is to be better than the last and especially more so if you have suffered anguish heartache, pain, loss of a job, had your house repossessed or crashed the car etc. One common practice at this time of the year is where we pledge to ourselves to make a new years resolution and stick to it "Yeah Right" is it not traditional to break new year's resolutions "No" not if you have been a victim or affected by any of the above mentioned. It is vitally important to stick to your guns so as to speak if you want to better your way of life and the circumstances which may have turned it upside down.
A problem shared is a problem halved, so they say, and how very rightly so as long as your burdens are shared with people who can help.
1 If you have lost the roof over your head then you have to pick yourself up, get your act together and think of other alternatives to house yourself till you are in a position to buy again. Think about it, if your home was repossessed it was for a reason like falling behind with payments. If you found yourself struggling to meet with mortgage payments, was it ever going to get better, in most cases "no" so therefore years of stress and worry lay ahead and for what "Bricks and Mortar". Start afresh and if wisdom prevails when dealing with the purse strings – then a new home you will have..
2 If you crashed the car then this can be replaced, you can replace a car but not a life so thank god for looking over you.
3 If you lost your job "big deal" there is plenty of more positions to be filled and with better pay. Why not further your education to get the skills needed for a career of your choice and by doing this you get to work the job you enjoy doing instead of being stuck in a dead end job all because you hold no paper qualifications.
4 If you have been ill and suffered a major setback because of this, then think yourself blessed by the main man himself for giving you back your health to continue with living. If you have been left disabled you will find support groups that are willing help you make changes with your daily activities and to help adapt to a new way of living.
5 If you have lost a loved one through bereavement and you find the pain agonizing, ask yourself would the deceased be resting in their grave to see you hurting and sad. Move on from the loss and achieve - and when you receive recognition for whatever it is you achieved you can celebrate with the dearly departed with having a special mass said for them to thank them for giving your more insight towards the future.
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