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Many women have difficulty working out if a guy is attracted to them or not.
It doesn't have to be difficult though!
The trick is to NOT focus on what he says, but instead to watch his body language, and look for certain signs of attraction.
These body language signs are not hard to see (once you know what to look for), and will give you a great indication of what the guy REALLY thinks about you...
1. Look for a smile.
It may sound simple, but one of the most important things to look for is a smile.
If a guy is attracted to you, then he will feel happy and comfortable looking at you. And he will usually show this in the form of a smile.
Now... this may not be a huge, beaming smile. It could even be quite tentative.
The important point is that he seems happy to see you, and isn't frowning or indifferent.
2. Another important sign that a man is attracted to you is if he looks you in the eye. Sustained eye contact is a good sign that a guy is interested in you- particularly if he smiles at the same time.
One thing to look for- is when he has quick darting looks into your eyes, and then he quickly looks elsewhere. This is usually a sign that the man is attracted to you, but very nervous. Don't be surprised if he doesn't actually approach you. This doesn't mean he isn't interested though, and you may have to make the first move.
3. Body Facing Towards You.
Another sign of attraction is when a guy angles his body, so that he is facing towards you. This subconscious body language shows that he finds you attractive, and wants to check you out whenever he can!
4. Preening. Both guys and girls will "preen" themselves, whenever they want to impress someone of the opposite sex. Guys often show this by running their fingers through their hair, or adjusting their clothing. If he's looking towards you while doing this, then it's a good sign he is attracted to you.
5.Trying to Appear more masculine.
Another great sign of attraction, is when a guy's body language reveals he is trying to appear more masculine around you. Some signs of this include: - Standing as tall as he can, with his shoulders back. - Tensing and flexing his muscles. - Sucking in his stomach.
This body language shows he is trying to impress you, and appear more "manly".
As you can see, none of these body-language signs of attraction are particularly hard to see, but they are a very effective gauge to see if a guy is interested in your or not.
Want to learn more about body language?
Peta Fletcher's website has lots more body language information, including her latest book "The Secret Body Language Guide For Women"...
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