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It is amazing that some people, seem to need a marked holiday to show those they love what they mean to them.
They say that Valentine's Day is a day for lovers. I say it is a day like any other day, in our family, just to let the ones we love know how special they are to us.
I feel blessed that after all these years, I can say that I still like and love the man I married almost 35 years ago. He is my best friend, my confidant and of course my lover. We have had our shares of ups and downs, but who hasn't. We raised two great kids and are blessed with four grandchildren. Three boys and one girl. Two of our grandsons are only 3 months apart.
My husband and I were teenagers when we met and our friendship blossomed into love. Many people are amazed that we are still together, let alone happy since we were so young when we decided to get married.
I honestly believe because of our friendship, it gave us the strength to weather the storms of our relationship. Marriage is like a roller coaster ride.
We also to this day, never take each other for granted and tell each other how much we love one another. When we are angry about something, we talk it out, sometimes to death, until we can try and understand the other person's point of view. We have mutual respect for one another. Marriage is a challenge under the best circumstances, but definitely worth the work when you are committed to that other special person.
I look forward to growing old with my husband and reflecting on our accomplishments as a couple. I hope that our strength and love will encourage our children and grandchildren to follow our lead and also find fulfullment in their relationships.
We live in a disposable society where it is easier to throw away a relationship when the going gets rough rather than try and salvage the relationship. I am not saying that every relationship can be saved but, at least give it a fighting chance.
So instead of waiting once a year that is marked on a calendar make someone feel special and loved, make everyday Valentine's Day!
Happy Valentine's Day to all!
Iris S. Taub
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