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Talking is one of the best ways of getting to know more about someone, and talking to your girlfriend is the best way to forge tight bonds with her. It is very possible that years down the line, the two of you will remember many of the things you will say to each other in these younger days. These fond memories play an integral part in most long-running relationships.
One of the best ways of having a good, healthy and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to start with small talk. The small talk will give you a general picture about her likes and dislikes, as well as what she would like to discuss and what she would rather leave alone. Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you can go ahead and discuss your common likes and dislikes. A wholesome chat can also end up in a decision to do something you can enjoy together. For example, a chat about the latest movie or play can actually end up in the two of you standing in queue to buy tickets for it.
As you begin to form opinions of your girlfriend during the course of conversation, she in turn does the same. Therefore, you should think carefully before speaking and taking up subjects that might be repugnant to her. Religion and politics, for example, are subjects which often don't gel well with breakfast, lunch or dinner. Unless and until you are open and ready for an active debate, those topics shouldn't be touched with a barge pole. Talking about it, however, gives you an indication of your girlfriend's political and religions leanings.
A chat is one of the best ways to express your love to your girlfriend. But you should never utter the words "I love you" unless you mean it. This is because false love is very easily found out by women. In addition, most girlfriends enjoy hearing it, but don’t make yours hear it all the time or she may begin to find the otherwise-well-meaning utterance tiresome.
yeah, im talking 2 a girl on myspace and we seem 2 b n love with 1 another! but i keep thinking she's n love with another man. cause it takes longer 2 answer my questions! wat u think?
if you dont know them in person then you will never know. I was in a class with this girl once and maddly inlove with her. she didnt even know me. i checked out her myspace and saaw she had a crapload of good friends and had partys and such with them alot so i figured i didnt have a chance. but one day i talked to her and soon asked her out and we started going out so ya, just ask her out?
Myspace Facebook and the rest of those things... Come on not a good way to find things out or talk to a girl you like and might like you... Go out together.. A walk, movie, dinner... Not online or over a phone.. You'll get your best idea about this girl by being around her in person
My girlfriend (we are on a break now) is getting bored with me. we've been dating for a long time and i guess what i talk about or the way i talk about it just isn't interesting anymore. i saw this text she sent this guy that "she loves talking to him." it just makes me feel like $%&*@$%& because i don't think she's ever said that to me.. or atleast she hasn't in a long time that i can remember. i've done so much looking up online for what to talk about and how to increase my talking abilities.. but nothing makes my situation any better.. it's all the same thing "talk about school and about what you are doing later blah blah." but nothing can help me because i've done EVERYTHING, but after so long and talking to her every day, things get said and things get boring i guess. i'm just about ready to give up.. because nothing can help me. i'm painfully finding out that being a good talker will not come from research but from experience, but when you are a good talker who is played out, i don't know anything that can truly help me fully or too the extent i need it.
if someone could prove me wrong and give me good advice i would love it, though.
» left by OJ from CA, USA (21 days 15 hours ago.)
try to make her understand that what youbelievein is very special to you, and you want her to respect that as you would respect her religion. if that works out good, if not its time to move on my friend..
» left by Ben from Gutierrez (91 days 10 hours ago.)
Put your arm around her and if her hair is in her face pull it back gently, this can be very romantic.
» left by Omar from CA, USA (21 days 15 hours ago.)
Try to talk to her that whats wrong and try to find to investigate about what is not working, if nothing works out, don't worry, u can find another one..
keep the confidence up and ask out a girl that you like.. if she says no... so what, you can find another one
well i have gf.. and sometimes i get nervouse.and i dont know wat to say to her.. i want to get to talk to her and be a good bf.. can anyone help please???
» left by OJ from CA, USA (21 days 15 hours ago.)
DUDE!
she wants you as much you want her! don't benervous
- BE THE MAN!
- Think positively
- Becourageous
tell her howbeautifulshe is, tell you like her smile, send her random complimentary text messages, call her and just tell her i saw this and it reminded me of you.. (all these things will get your confidence up and it will make both of you feel much more comfortable beingaroundeach other)
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