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Talking is one of the best ways of getting to know more about someone, and talking to your girlfriend is the best way to forge tight bonds with her. It is very possible that years down the line, the two of you will remember many of the things you will say to each other in these younger days. These fond memories play an integral part in most long-running relationships.
One of the best ways of having a good, healthy and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to start with small talk. The small talk will give you a general picture about her likes and dislikes, as well as what she would like to discuss and what she would rather leave alone. Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you can go ahead and discuss your common likes and dislikes. A wholesome chat can also end up in a decision to do something you can enjoy together. For example, a chat about the latest movie or play can actually end up in the two of you standing in queue to buy tickets for it.
As you begin to form opinions of your girlfriend during the course of conversation, she in turn does the same. Therefore, you should think carefully before speaking and taking up subjects that might be repugnant to her. Religion and politics, for example, are subjects which often don't gel well with breakfast, lunch or dinner. Unless and until you are open and ready for an active debate, those topics shouldn't be touched with a barge pole. Talking about it, however, gives you an indication of your girlfriend's political and religions leanings.
A chat is one of the best ways to express your love to your girlfriend. But you should never utter the words "I love you" unless you mean it. This is because false love is very easily found out by women. In addition, most girlfriends enjoy hearing it, but don’t make yours hear it all the time or she may begin to find the otherwise-well-meaning utterance tiresome.
yeah, im talking 2 a girl on myspace and we seem 2 b n love with 1 another! but i keep thinking she's n love with another man. cause it takes longer 2 answer my questions! wat u think?
if you dont know them in person then you will never know. I was in a class with this girl once and maddly inlove with her. she didnt even know me. i checked out her myspace and saaw she had a crapload of good friends and had partys and such with them alot so i figured i didnt have a chance. but one day i talked to her and soon asked her out and we started going out so ya, just ask her out?
Myspace Facebook and the rest of those things... Come on not a good way to find things out or talk to a girl you like and might like you... Go out together.. A walk, movie, dinner... Not online or over a phone.. You'll get your best idea about this girl by being around her in person
My girlfriend (we are on a break now) is getting bored with me. we've been dating for a long time and i guess what i talk about or the way i talk about it just isn't interesting anymore. i saw this text she sent this guy that "she loves talking to him." it just makes me feel like $%&*@$%& because i don't think she's ever said that to me.. or atleast she hasn't in a long time that i can remember. i've done so much looking up online for what to talk about and how to increase my talking abilities.. but nothing makes my situation any better.. it's all the same thing "talk about school and about what you are doing later blah blah." but nothing can help me because i've done EVERYTHING, but after so long and talking to her every day, things get said and things get boring i guess. i'm just about ready to give up.. because nothing can help me. i'm painfully finding out that being a good talker will not come from research but from experience, but when you are a good talker who is played out, i don't know anything that can truly help me fully or too the extent i need it.
if someone could prove me wrong and give me good advice i would love it, though.
» left by michael from nY (127 days 22 hours ago.)
the same thing is happening with me,things get boring fast,u need 2 find something she likes and follow the flow of the conversation.its hard but ull get used 2 it Respond to this comment
» left by David agara from Ondo state: Nigeria (246 days 6 hours ago.)
What can you do when your intended girlfriend cannot love you because of religion differency
» left by OJ from CA, USA (162 days 3 hours ago.)
try to make her understand that what youbelievein is very special to you, and you want her to respect that as you would respect her religion. if that works out good, if not its time to move on my friend..
» left by Ben from Gutierrez (231 days 22 hours ago.)
Put your arm around her and if her hair is in her face pull it back gently, this can be very romantic.
» left by Beau from Columbia MO (15 days 2 hours ago.)
That's an easy one, just ask for her help on something. And I don't mean physical labor; I mean using her noggin. If you are a musician, ask her to help you come up w/ a topic for a song you're writing. If you are a clerk, make up some story about an argument you had with a co-worker and ask for her advice. She needs to feel important and it makes her feel really good that you value her opinion and would turn to her for help.
» left by Omar from CA, USA (162 days 3 hours ago.)
Try to talk to her that whats wrong and try to find to investigate about what is not working, if nothing works out, don't worry, u can find another one..
keep the confidence up and ask out a girl that you like.. if she says no... so what, you can find another one
well i have gf.. and sometimes i get nervouse.and i dont know wat to say to her.. i want to get to talk to her and be a good bf.. can anyone help please???
» left by OJ from CA, USA (162 days 3 hours ago.)
DUDE!
she wants you as much you want her! don't benervous
- BE THE MAN!
- Think positively
- Becourageous
tell her howbeautifulshe is, tell you like her smile, send her random complimentary text messages, call her and just tell her i saw this and it reminded me of you.. (all these things will get your confidence up and it will make both of you feel much more comfortable beingaroundeach other)
» left by Showtime from Orlando (115 days 19 hours ago.)
I have a girl that i have been talking to for a nice lil min. she loves to told conversation, and i do to. the only thing is i dont know you to start a good conversation that i think that she will be interested in. every now and then i look something up on the computer and find lil questions to ask, but they never go off into a conversation. i dont know what to do. i really need some help. Can anyone help me??????
i know i can never hold a conversation with my girlfriend were both very quiet and shy... i dont know what to say... another thing... i text her and she rarely texts back its so annoying!!! i dont know why or whats going on but its like rrr!!!
» left by Alberto B. from Miyayo florida (64 days ago.)
loollll guys its simple be yourselves and let things come naturally ive been with my gf for a month now and we dont see each other because she lives really far away (shes moving here though) but we talk every single day. i think the key is to just talk about your day with each other what you did who you saw if you talked to anyone, what ur plans are for the rest of the day, let them know you think about them throughout the day, they like attention. just relax dont think about it too much cuz the more u think the more you get nervous. be spontaneous and random just talk about anything. :P good luck guys/girls :D
» left by isaiah from farmington,mo (63 days 8 hours ago.)
ok. i just got a new girlfriend yesterday. im a junior and she's a freshman. im 17 and shes 14. i shouldnt have a problem with it but i feel realy ocward around her. i dont know. we were txting last night and she seemed realy upbeat and a lil pervocitive. but at school she sorta clams up and i dont know what yo do. can you help me out?
Just don't worry about it, let everything flow by itself DO NOT plan it out! and if you're with your girlfriend let the touching and the kisses talk for you. Don't say "i love you" too often though (and that's a mistake i do, but i can't help it ^__^) but just be yourself, a simple "hi" can lead to hours of talking. Just let her know that you want to communicate with her, or else both of you will have awkward moments and that's well.... awkward -__-
I just got a girlfriend and we really like eachother. But I never know what to talk about with her. Whenever we are around eachother there is that awkward silence that everyone hates. I don't want her to think I'm trying beacause I am trying really hard. Any suggestions? I am only 12 so yeah
» left by kevin tran from san jose, CA (14 days 12 hours ago.)
dude i get that here and there.. then i juss quickly look around and metion something random xp. for instastance last night, i said "man i hate McDonalds" and from then on a conversation actually started xp. goodluck
» left by Scott Moore from G Town (19 days 5 hours ago.)
I got a Girlfriend about 2or3 weeks ago, i have known here for along time and i finely got the courage to ask her out, so we have been talking but not talking if you know what i mean. we really have nothing in common, and well she is HOT but i don't really know why she said yes, im not built and hunky but im fluffy and got alot love to go around. so can some one help me with my communication problem.
My girlfriend broke up with me because she she relized she liked someone else. She likes me again and I still like her, but we talk alot more now that were just friends. So, should we stay just friends or not?
» left by Anonymous (17 minutes ago.) New Comment!
Ok so I think u should stay friends until you can put a ring on her finger because then you'll find out if you ready to be together or not. Can't go wrong with commitment.
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