If you are stuck on where to begin the dreaded and difficult conversation of breaking up with someone, here are some suggestions that might help you break the ice.
I've written articles on getting together, that's easy, but these articles on the breaking up, sad but true, sometimes are necessary. You don't want to hurt them, you both will feel some pain, so take careful consideration before you do. You will lose them forever, and you have to make sure that's what you want.
Take time and think. Write down what you are feeling, talk to your friends, you mom. If deep down, this is what you really want, than finish these starters lines, with sincere honesty. It's better to tell them the truth, than to leave them wondering what they did wrong, or what they could do better.
Good luck, and peace be with you.
Here's the list. Check back often, eventually the list will be up to 100, I just need time guys.. give me a break, it's a lot to consider for writers, too.
- I'm sorry to say,
- We have to talk,
- Can I have a word?
- I didn't know what I wanted out of a relationship,
- I was the one who pursued you, now,
- I'm sorry, but this isn't working,
- I think we need to think about where we are going,
- Our love came at the wrong time,
- I miss being happy
- I miss seeing you happy
- This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but
- Something tells me, that we aren't right for each other,
- Remember the other day when I said we would be together for ever, well,
- I can't handle a relationship right now,
- In this time our of our lives, we should be happy, and we're both miserable and we both know why
- Can you ever forgive me, but
- I have something important to tell you, but I don't know how
- The dog died. Ok, so he is running past you, now I have something to tell you,
- Have I told you lately that I'm not happy,
- You are such a great person, such a great friend, I don't want to break you heart, but,
- We have to end this, before we end up hating each other, I really feel,
- When we met, and were together it was great, but now,
- Can I be honest with you?
- Remember when we used to smile, I really miss that.
- Did I tell you lately how much I appreciate you, I realize now that I can't keep taking advantage of you, and I have to end this.
- Sometimes people change
- Sometimes our dreams and paths change, and ours isn't on the same route anymore,
- I don't know why, but this doesn't feel right anymore,
- I love you, but this is a bad time for us to be together,
- We rushed into this too fast,
- There is no right time to say this, so I'm just going to do it,
- Maybe if we met at a different time,
- Are you happy?
- Are you feeling the same way I am, but are too afraid to admit it,
- Let's talk about our relationship and where it should be going.
- I'd like to ask you a question, do you still feel the same about us as you once did.. honestly I don't.
- We really should discuss our relationship, before we end up hating each other, it's time we said good-bye
- I don't want to hurt you, but
- I am sorry, but this isn't right for both of us,
- I have to say this before I lose my nerve, this relationship isn't healthy for either of us, and we need to talk about it.
That's it for now.
Good luck
Peace out
by: Sacreeta
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