There are so many ways to tell someone that you like them. If you want that man/woman, let him know with more than just words. For those of you who are afraid to tell someone you like them, or just choke up every time you try, then stop trying to tell them. It's ok that you can't talk. It's ok that you are shy. There are other ways of getting the point across, that is discreet, and can save you facing a possible rejection face to face.
For reading ease, and avoidance of typing drama, this article is written for the girls. But it is understood that it works for the boys, too.
Hi Girls, ohhh you are so not alone. So many girls are afraid to tell a guy that they are into them, mostly for fear of rejection and losing their friendship. There are a few things you could do, and how about I give you a few suggestions, and you can see which one is right for you?
Number one: Ignore him.
So many guys have come to me and said, so and so and I are friends, now she's ignoring me. It's bugging me, why is she ignoring me? What does she want?
Reply: She wants you silly.
I don't mean cold shoulder, ignore, as in your mad at him, but just walk by without saying hello and going all gaga just because he's in the same room. Act like you haven't met him before, and don't start conversations with him. It sounds strange, but it drives guys nuts. Nothing gets a guys attention more than being ignored. They don't know what's going on inside your head, but it makes you more interesting to them, and they suddenly will take an interest in you, because you just became a challenge.
Number two: Body Language.
f you can't ignore him, examine the body language and figure out if he's into you.
Does his eyes light up when he sees you?
And a bright smile follow?
Do you get any vibes that he's interested, for example: Does he pay extra attention to you, over the others, prefers to sit beside you over your friends?
If you are getting the vibes, maybe it's because he's sending them to you.
Number three: Flirting.
I have a great article about flirting tips with body language, you should check out, to see more on effective ways how. There are different flirting methods you can try. If you are too shy to talk, then don't. You can use your curves, your eyes, your walk, and get your girl friends to watch him from one side of the room, as you walk past him, and when you can't see him anymore. Get the girls to watch and see if he's watching you walk by. It works. If he's checking you out, after you can no longer see him, then he's into you.
Number four: Give him your number.
Oh, and you could also write down your first name and cell phone number, on a piece of paper, with little hearts drawn on it-and say something cute like,
- Friday night's good for me.
- Or if somethings going on, like a bunch of you are going to the movies, or somewhere, you can slip him your cell number, (or msn chat) and say something like: Going to the Movies Friday night, for a personal invite, call.
- You could just put on some lipstip and leave a kiss on the paper beside your name. That's really forward, and he'll get the point.
- You could also write, I think your sweet, cute, hot, or a sexy beast.
- How ‘bout a date?
- You can stop wondering, Yes, I'm single.
- Did you know, my friends think we'd make a great couple?
You can get creative about what you would say, you don't have to put yourself out there to the point that you could make a fool of yourself if he rejects you. If you don't hear from him, and see him often, he has plenty of opportunity to tell you he lost your cell phone number, or little piece of paper, then you know he's not into you. And you can move on.
Number 5: If he has your cell phone number all ready.
And you are friends, but you want to move on to the next level, and you don't know if that's what he wants, and you are too shy to say anything.. then don't talk. There are plenty of ways of saying something without conversation. Send him a txt message, with one of the sentiments above. Flirt back and forth through txt messages and see where it goes. Send him one that says,
you're such a hottie..
Wanna hang out this weekend, just you and me, you sexy beast?
Hooking up with you, works for me.. case you were wondering?
And lastly,
Yeah, just had a cancel so I'm free this Friday night.. so we can do something, and send it to his text by accident. Opps.
Number 6: Send him an ecard.
You could send him an ecard, that's cute, mushygushy.com has the cutest ecards I've ever seen, and say one of the sentiments above in it.
Like, Friday night works for me.
Or incase you were wondering, Yes, I'm single. It's forward, but it's also discreet.
No one sees it but him, and then he can let you down easy, or jump back with a reply to let you know that he's into you.
Hope some of these suggestions were helpful, good luck hunny. If he's not into you, it's ok, there is someone out there that would love to be with you-and it means by not hooking up with him, leaves you available for your special one.
Here's some body language flirting tips.
Peace and Love,
Sacreeta
