We take over-the-counter pain relief medications when we have a headache. What do you do if you experience an uncomfortable emotion or situation that arises? Many of us that struggle with weight and emotional eating, we self-medicate with food. Medicating with food is an attempt to change the way we feel. We try to alter our mood or emotions by eating.
Diet programs are effective temporarily. How many times have you joined a diet program to lose weight only to regain, possibly a few bonus pounds added in the process? The reason why diet programs rarely work long-term is because they address food and exercise and, at best, mention emotional eating issues. Dealing with emotional eating is the key to overcoming weight loss ups and downs. We eat for a reason. It isn't because we are hungry. We eat to suppress or lessen the intensity of emotions, make an uncomfortable situation more manageable, or just to numb out by self-medicating ourselves with food.
I was in a reception room waiting for an appointment the other day. The receptionist had a bowl of candy coated chocolates. While she was working, she was popping the candy every few seconds. Whatever feeling she was experiencing, she was medicating herself. She was not eating out of hunger or even conscious of what she was eating. She was zoned out on the hand-to-mouth action of emotional eating. I waited for approximately 15 minutes and she unconsciously ate consistently the candy the entire time. The reason this struck me is because it is a behavior I've indulged more times that I'd like throughout my life.
Do you self-medicate or numb your emotions with food? Do you numb out or escape situations by emotional eating? There are some steps you can follow to stay in control without turning to food to numb yourself.
* Answer honestly to yourself if you self-medicate, escape or numb with food. Can you identify with the unconscious eating of the receptionist?
* Now that you've identified the behavior of self-medicating your life with food, you are aware. Awareness of the behavior and habit is a big step forward.
* With your awareness, when you find yourself wanting to eat, ask yourself if you are truly hungry or if you are reaching for the pain relief medication equivalent of food.
* Next, ask yourself what it is you are attempting to medicate and numb with food. Are you bored, overwhelmed, angry, or feel anxious and need to feel calmer. All of these are common emotions for medicating with food.
* Once you've identified the emotion or situation you desire to medicate, make the choice to move forward without the crutch of emotional numbing with food.
If we are patient with ourselves and sit with uncomfortable emotions, they pass. Many of us don't know that because we haven't allowed ourselves to experience this. Often, we short circuit the process by immediately popping our favorite foods for self-medication rather than feel the feelings.
Just as over-the-counter pain relief is temporary and treats the symptoms of pain, so does the behavior of self-medicating by emotional eating. Get to the source causing the pain rather than the temporary fix of numbing yourself. When you numb yourself, you live a life less than you deserve. A full life has ups and down, joys and challenges. Stay awake and alert in your life without stuffing down your emotions by abusing food for self-medication purposes. You deserve more than popping candy as a form of living. Give yourself the best and live the full range of life.
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Cathy Wilson is a certified life coach specializing in weight loss. Cathy lost 147 pounds seven years ago. Her passion is to help clients achieve weight loss and life goals. Cathy works with clients to create a weight loss life plan custom to each client. Cathy is a member of the International Coaching Federation, International Association of Coaches, and Obesity Action Coalition. Visit Cathy's website: http://www.LoseWeightFindLife.com
» left by Sandra E. Graham(2,260) Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, Arkansas, USA (217 days 6 hours ago.)
Wonderful article, Cathy. And I believe you are right. My granddaughter is over-weight and truly feel her eating habits are emotionally driven. As an over-weight teenager, she is going through so tough times at school and at home. I have often tried to help her without hurting her feellings, but I can't seem to get through. I have suggested she read your article. Maybe this will help. Thanks for sharing. Sandra
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