I received a darling note from a single Italian woman living in . She
wrote: "I appreciate all your information, but where are all the
great successful single men?"
I wrote back,
"In Italy". (Of course:))
Then she requested I
personally bring the great men to her and her friends.
Ahhhh. I would
if I could.
But then what?
Because it really
doesn't matter where you find a Great Man if you don't know what to do with
him.
So the question
becomes, "Are You a Great Woman?"
Often I hear women
complaining, "There are no good men. All the great ones are
taken."
So as a woman, who
are YOU when it comes to relationships?
What are your
thoughts? What are your habits? And what are your beliefs?
If you're thinking
there are no Great Men out there, guess what?
You're right.
There are NO Great
Men.
If you think you
attract jerks and nerds. Guess what? That's exactly what you
attract.
If you think all the
Great Men are taken, you're right. They are.
But if you think
there ARE Great Single Men out there...You're absolutely right!
Great Men are
everywhere. They roam the planet. You'll find them at the
bank. Or at the drycleaners. Or at the grocery.
It's possible to find
Great Men in the most obscure, remote, unexpected and unlikely places.
And they come in
surprising packages. (Not at all what you'd expect.)
I met my Great Man on
a sailboat in the middle of the .
He was a bartender. And he was 10 years younger. And he
didn't speak English (well). And he lived in (when he wasn't sailing
around the world).
The odds of Lorenzo
being my husband were about a zillion to one.
But here we
are...over seven years later.
Not only did I find a
Great Man, I knew what to do with him after we met. And that made ALL the
difference.
So ask yourself,
would you know a Great Man if you met him? And what would you do when you
find him?
Remember...how you
meet a man (within the first 30 seconds) can determine the success (or lack of
success) in your next romantic relationship!
Before you start
hunting the Great Men, you must be a Great Woman.
If you're not a Great
Woman, you won't see him or know him. And you certainly won't keep
him.
If you're not a Great
Woman...you'll keep doing the same thing you're doing now...and you'll keep
attracting what you have now...
Which is: NO
Great Men.
(If that's okay with
you, it's okay with me.)
But if it isn't...If
you want a different result and are willing to take the risk, it's time to take
a new direction.
Cherry Norris is a renowned celebrity dating
coach, workshop director and popular speaker. Based in ,
Cherry is an official dating coach for Cupid's Coach matchmaking service and
the relationship expert on Catherine Oxenberg's TV pilot, Practical Princess. Cherry has lead workshops around the
and .
She has been featured in The LA Times, The
Reporter, Divine Caroline, and Women's World.
Cherry's passion is helping people build healthy, intimate
romantic relationships. Under her direction, you will learn the skills and
techniques for dating that will have you starring in the role of a lifetime
opposite the co-star you've been waiting for!
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