So you finally got around asking her out on a
date - and she said yes. Besides paying for dinner, you were planning
to do something extra for her, like surprising her with a bouquet of
flowers when you come to her place to pick her up. But there's a little
voice nagging at you that says giving her flowers might be too grand a
gesture for a first date.
On the contrary, surprising her with a colorful arrangement just might
be the thing that would break the ice. Did you know that each flower
type and color carries its own unique meaning? Think of the flowers as
words and the bouquet as the overall message you want to tell her. Now
it's just a matter of finding the right flowers that will express
whatever is in your mind and heart.
If you'd like to let her know that you were happy to meet her but do
not want to reveal your romantic interest yet, give her a bunch of
chrysanthemums. This colorful, daisy-like flower has a yellow center
and a decorative pompom, and overall stands for optimism and joy.
Sunflowers also carry the same meaning. They are known to grow facing
the sun, but their open petals symbolize the sun and express emotions
of adoration, happiness, and warmth.
Tulips carry different meanings depending on their color - purple
tulips represent luxury and royalty, while yellow tulips symbolize
cheerful thoughts. Traditionally, however, its velvety black center is
said to represent a lover's heart that has been darkened by the
intensity of his passion. Tulips also give the message of elegance and
wealth, so be careful about getting her these flowers - she might
expect you to shower her with expensive things afterwards.
Finally, there are always roses - the immortal symbol for passion and
love. Pink or yellow roses are more appropriate for first dates, as
they stand for a blossoming love. If you wan to be more serious, Red
roses can be given to someone who you passionately care for. Red roses
are always best if you think that you're feelings are mutual - this
will help get the date off to a good start. Women love chivalrous men,
and in the world of flowers, giving roses is as chivalrous as it gets.
Break the ice by handing her the bouquet of flowers and telling her the
very special meaning of your gift. But don't sweat it on the
explanations. Chances are it might not be even necessary for you to do
any talking. The act of giving her flowers is enough for her to see
that you think she's worthy of their brilliant colors and graceful
beauty. Besides, most ladies have a special talent of sensing what you
mean when you give a gift.
As the old saying goes, when words are not enough, let flowers do the talking!
