How conscious we are when we choose our companion and/or choose our own way of life in this world? Rumi says it beautifully; we should be sooooooooooooooo conscious'!!!!
This is not a small bad choice which could be corrected very quickly but a big mistake!! Because we put our own hearts and minds into relationship and/or the way we are living, so the results will be stayed with us as long as the heart' and/or the mind' live. The result of bad and corrupt relationship and/or our own bad choices in life become like corrupted invisible children' who will be accompanying us in life and in our death.
I have two beautiful faithful visible' children and I know I have unlimited 'children' from my emotions and I am trying to get out of them before it is too late!!
Rumi says:
Wait, and be conscious,
Before you go to meet anyone.
"Whenever two are linked this way, there comes another
from the unseen world. It may be through birth,
if nothing prevents conception,
but a third does come, when two unite in love,
or in hate. The intense qualities born
of such joining appear in the spiritual world.
You will recognize them when you go there.
Your associations bear progeny.
Be careful, therefore. Wait, and be conscious,
before you go to meet anyone.
Remember there are children to consider!
Children you must live with and tend to,
born of your emotions with another, entities
with a form, and speech, and a place to live.
They are crying to you even now.
You have forgotten us. Come back.
Be aware of this. A man and a woman together
always have a spiritual result.
In another poem he says how these children are accompanying us in our tombs either as houris'
and /or.
He says:
Your fine ethical qualities will run before you after your death-
Like moon-faced ladies do these qualities proudly walk
When you have divorced the body, you will see houris in rows,
"Muslim ladies, faithful women, devout and repenting ladies"
Without number will your characteristics run before your bier.
In the coffin these pure qualities will become your companions,
They will cling to you like sons and daughters,
And you will don garments from the warp and woof of your works of obedience.
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» left by Susan Thom(9,079) Susan Thom (181 days 17 hours ago.)
hi Mahrouyeh,
this was an interesting article, with a way cool picture!
i am deep in the middle of a horriffic divorce, with 3 kids, and i can't even linger on the mistake of it all because it hurts too much. however, i wouldn't give my kids up for the world, i only wish i could take away their pain.
hey, i wish i could take away my pain!
thanks for sharing,
best regards,
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» left by Anonymous (181 days 12 hours ago.)
dear sue,
I am divorced too ,a very bad one! for few years i was blaming my self that how could i lost the best time of my life, thirty years, to one man whom i didn't know he could do such a things! one day i found the beautiful and an amazing answer , i might was pushing God to give me one! because suddenly i noticed why. there were fruits of my 30years of marriage and/or my life and suddenly i was so released . so look at your children and be just 'mum' and except nothing more from yourself you are not their father and you do your best. I was trying to make my children understand me in the middle of my divorce and feel sorry for them but it didn't work until one day i hugged my 26 years old son telling him that i know how painful it was for him to see his parents were divorcing and how i understood his pain telling him that i was in pain too for the same reason. suddenly it was ok with him and he became my strongest, dearest supporter and now my children are so much different from when i was living with their father they are more giving , kind not only to me but to all they have learned so much from my divorce and using all those lessons for their own life. i don't know how old your children are but in any age you can talk to them about 'pain' telling them you are in pain too and let do something about it that goes away since it is not the end of the world! accept the pain for yourself and your children with open arms until goes away don't fight it since it becomes more stronger and know that we can not protect our children from the pain of this world but this early pain make them stronger if we, as mothers, know how to deal with it when it comes and when your pains go aways you 'll see a new life in front of your eyes and you become alive again in a new world as i did and believe me a different and a good one!. good luck
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