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I have a buddy who will under no circumstances approach a
woman he doesn't know. It doesn't matter
if she's making direct eye contact and sending him a "come seduce me"
smile. He's absolutely scared to death
of making cold approaches. If you share
his philosophy of fear, then you're missing out on a lot of opportunities. It's your job as a male to approach women and
to show interest first.
Think for a moment about how you feel if a perfect stranger
compliments you. Have you ever had a
woman smile and approach you out of the blue?
Ever had a carload of girls drive by when you're jogging and scream at
you approvingly? It makes you feel great
doesn't it? It doesn't even matter if
she's hot or not. If a woman shows interest
in you, then you feel great inside.
That's exactly how women feel. It doesn't matter if they're not attracted to
you. It doesn't matter if you say
something stupid. If you approach a
woman she'll be genuinely flattered by the attention you're giving her.
Of course if you approach them in a threatening or creepy
manner, they're not going to appreciate meeting you. On the other hand, if you go up to them in a
good natured way and say something halfway pleasant, they'll love it.
Why do you think women spend hours doing their hair and
nails? Why do you think the girl at the
mall is wearing a miniskirt that shows off her shapely legs? They do that stuff for you! Women WANT men to appreciate their
beauty. They crave the attention. Your attention affirms their sexuality.
So what have you got to lose? You want to meet hot women. Hot women want to be admired. What's the problem here?
So what if you approach a group of girls and say something
stupid? They might laugh at you? WHO CARES?!
Being laughed at never killed anyone and it helps you to grow thicker
skin. The worst thing that can happen is
that you won't get their phone number, which you never had in the first place. So how is being rejected by a total stranger
a bad thing?
They don't know you so they're not rejecting who you are
inside. They don't know what qualities
you possess, or the many skills you have.
They don't truly know who you are so their rejection means nothing.
Granted, at first it can be hard to gather the courage to
blindly walk up to hot women. You may
stutter, say something stupid, or words may not come out at all. Always keep in mind what the worst thing that
can happen is if you fail. NOTHING!
Successfully approaching hot women is a numbers game. At first you'll experience a disproportionate
number of rejections. But as you gain
confidence you'll be rejected less and less often and your successes will
increase dramatically. Eventually you'll
simply stop caring and the nervousness will go away.
Never be afraid to approach hot women! For more advice on how to approach women
check out our dating
guide for men at Zewb.com. |
