Every year, Dad would put on a real show. He would visit all the fireworks stands (yes you could actually buy them openly and did not have to go to Mexico for them). He would select only the best rockets and fountains and whirligigs. There were fire crackers (how he would laugh when he set those off) and roman candles. He also got sparklers in every color and worms that Deb and I could light ourselves. He had it all choreographed. It was awesome. My sister, Deb, and I could not wait for the day to finally arrive because it was going to be glorious, let me tell you.
My dad was a veteran of World War II. He served in the Pacific. He flew reconnaissance. He wasn't the pilot. He was the guy on his belly in the glass bubble taking the photographs. He and the rest of the team were the first guys in. They didn't know what they would find or what might find them. Not all of them always made it back. I still have, somewhere, some of the maps printed on silk in waterproof inks that were the result of his photography. So, while Deb and I never gave a thought to what the fireworks really meant, I am sure that Dad did.
But before the fireworks display would begin, there was the barbeque. No steaks, rare and juicy for the 4 th ; no we had hot dogs and hamburgers with all the fixings. There was corn on the cob and potato salad (homemade the best!). We ate more watermelon than we could really hold and the piece-de-resistance was homemade vanilla ice cream with chocolate syrup. We all took a turn on the churn and we always wished there was more.
I can remember running around the front yard after dark with several sparklers in each hand, jumping and twirling and watching the streaks of light. Deb would do the same. Our dog, Parky, would chase us around the yard barking and snapping at the sparks. It was the most fun. Even Mom and Grandma and Rod (Grandma's beau) would join in with the sparklers. When we had worn ourselves out with that it was time for the show.
Dad would spend the morning in the garage preparing it all. We weren't allowed in there while he was working and we were told not to peek when he was done. First he would stand and just look at all the fireworks. He was working it out in his head; what would be the perfect order? He had this big board that he used year after year until it had so many holes in it that he needed a new one. He would attach the fireworks to the board with wood screws, first drilling pilot holes through their bases. When we heard the drill running, we knew what he was doing. A shiver of excitement would run right through me to hear that drill on that day.
Just about the entire neighborhood was doing the same thing. All the barbeques were lit and the aromas in the air were wonderful. Some of our neighbors would start their displays sooner than us and some later. It was almost as if by agreement that the shows were staggered, the better to prolong the fun. As the evening progressed the sharp tang of gun powder would fill the air. The booms and snaps and crackles were almost overwhelming. When Deb and I could no longer wait for ours, Dad would drag out the board.
Both Mom and Dad smoked; they preferred cigarettes. But a couple of times during the year, Dad would have a cigar. The 4 th of July was always one of those times. Dad would place the board in the middle of the front yard (we lived on a corner and the front yard was bigger than the back), and then he would light his cigar. That's how Deb and I would know that the fun was about to begin. He would puff that thing until it was glowing cherry red and touch it to the first firework. We would hold our breaths. Then all of a sudden, there it was, the noise the light, the colors, the smells. It was heaven in our front yard. He never set them off one right smack after the other. There was always a pause. If we didn't let Parky run up to the spent firework and give it what for before continuing, he would have a fit. Some dogs run and hide from loud noises, but not him. Parky would finish, Dad would puff and BANG, off would go another one!
We never worried about the rockets. The entire neighborhood was out and on the alert for where they came down. Even so, Dad kept them to a minimum. I just loved it all, it didn't matter what they were.
We ooohed and ahhhed. We applauded and yelled. And Dad just grinned this great big happy grin. He had done good and he knew it.
After it was all over, we would sit around the remnants of the coals in the barbeque and roast marshmallows. We would go over and over all the fireworks that we had just seen, extolling the beauty of this one or the loudness of that one. We would laugh at Parky as he would try to bury the spent fireworks and give him a roasted marshmallow for his perseverance.
I realize that the current prohibitions against individual fireworks displays is intended to protect the environment and people's homes and lives, but it is still somewhat sad. Sure you can go to a local park or high school and watch fireworks that are bigger and higher than anything my dad ever achieved, but you lose the intimacy of it; the immediacy. It all occurs at a remove. For me, there is nothing that will ever compare to those days, long ago when every member of our family had the same goal; the 4 th of July right in our own front yard.
Dianne Lehmann is a jewelry designer who has been in business since January of 2000. Her interest in designing and manufacturing jewelry goes back beyond that to 1994. It took her many years of trying various creative outlets to finally figure out that making jewelry is what she really enjoys. She has also discovered that she loves to write for Searchwarp. If you like, you may view her work at http://www.syzygyjewelry.com
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» left by sue thom from nj (1 year 225 days ago.)
hi dianne, what happy memories. maybe those are what keep us going! thanks for a well written, fun article,
best regards,
sue
» left by Dianne Lehmann(5,719) Dianne Lehmann (1 year 225 days ago.)
Thanks, Sue. Yes the happy memories are what keep us going. And that one is a particularly wonderful one. The difficult memories teach us how to live better. I'm grateful for both.
» left by CR from Torrance, CA (217 days 12 hours ago.)
Found your story in a search for the perfect front yard party.
That is a great story. You are a very colorful and witty writer; I can only hope my daughter will some day reminisce about the memories we shared together as nicely as you have here.
I also agree, stuff people have sucked the fun out of anything with the slightest risk. The result is a very safe and very boring Fourth of July.
Our city bans fireworks but they sell them in the town a few block away.
They don't fly or shoot like the old ones but at least the kids can see something flicker, smoke and spin. They still do have those worms, difficult to light the night of with a cigarette lighter. I end up with a burned thumb after of few and the black spots they leave on the walkway will be there for years. But what fun to watch and relive those childhood memories with my kids. My dad used to take us to the beach for the 4th. In those days it was legal to buy them and also legal to drink alcohol on the beach. We'd search for the best parking spot, pack in chairs, coolers of drinks, buckets of KFC, towels, and a radio. We all eat and play, nap in the sun and wrap up in blankets for the fireworks. I'd always like going to the beach the next morning and filling bags with all the found fireworks people had lost or had gone out. We'd take them home and take turns lighting them off.
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