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Your girlfriend has ended your relationship and you don't know what to do. Whilst it may seem insoluble just now, trust me it probably isn't. How you act now will be very important in determining if your girlfriend will ever want you back.
It's unlikely that she has lost all feeling for you because people don't just switch off their feelings like a light switch! Most likely she has also told you, possibly over a long period of time, just exactly what has been annoying her about you and your relationship. Now is the time to analyse all those conversations, understand her perspective and decide if you can change sufficiently to make her love you again.
Also try to recall exactly what she used to love most about you. Was it your tennis skills? Was it your affectionate nature? Was it the fact that you constantly surprised her with little gifts? All these things are part of the initial romancing and often guys will allow these to slip as the relationship becomes more "comfortable"….WRONG. These are important to many women and the worst thing you can do is to make her feel "taken for granted".
Take the time you two are apart to be self critical and to work on making yourself back into the man she fell for. Be positive, assertive, upbeat and in control. After all, no woman wants a bleating, self loathing, self pitying man as her other half. She wants to respect you and lean on you and know you'll protect her. Be that strong, loving man who won her affections in the first place. Not only will this make you more attractive to her again but it will also improve your own self esteem and mood which will be very important as you try to win her back.
Getting back with an ex girlfriend doesn't have to be a hard thing to do, in fact, if you know the methods that work and the mistakes to avoid, then it should be much, much easier for you to save the relationship.
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