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I tried all my life by doing the right thing for every one. My friends, family and acquaintances. It would always be about them. They were important parts of my life. They matter deeply to me and still do. I always told Brenda if we treat our spouses like we treat friends they would be no devoice.
I lived my life this way and many times it would back fire however till now it never deterred my trust for others. I find myself trusting less and being along more.
Since Brenda died my world has been rocked in a way that I don't know if I will every get over. For a while I had people in my life keeping me busy but now there lives are involved and I am alone again.
Year's ago I was use to going places alone, I must get used to it again but taking that first steep is difficult. I was getting use to the female friend campaign on Friday and Saturday night dinners. It was great it was something to look forward to. A mistake that I will never let happen again
As I have been told, I must be a man a get through this and join the world of the living. How the hell do you get past it? How do you join the living after everything in your life has died?
I feel that I need a friend in my life that has gown through what I am going through. Some one who can truly feel my pain and teach me to live again
Brenda G Gomnick wife, mother, a woman of great worth to all and a fantastic Grandmother. You are greatly missed already and your memory will live on forever.
Rest in peace my bright eyes.
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Everything in your life has not died and neither have you. You will never forget and neither will we. However, you are alive and need to start living which is, working and becoming social again. I am not saying you need to fall in love or like at this point. You do need to LIVE. Its been 8 months and hell when I saw the wedding video a few weeks ago I had to run to the bathroom because I lost it and needed to cry. We will never forget but we can laugh and enjoy life and think of Aunt Brenda often in everything we do. She made all of us so happy and laugh so many times. She is truely missed, no we don't have to live in our homes without her but she will always be in our hearts living on as long as we do. Herb you need to LIVE and join the world she would want you to, if you need a hard ass in your life to tell you to start living and stop being a marter. Then here I am, if it was reversed and it was Brenda that lived what in the world would you want her to do. Always ask yourself that. Love Kim
» left by Herb A from Dresher Pa (117 days 19 hours ago.)
Thank you kim you are so right but everytime I feel that I am climbing out of this depression something throughs me back into to it again. I guess Brenda would be more resilient the I. I don't know if I weill ever get over her death. Miss you guy's . Love Herb
So cliched to say that when someone dies, it forces you to reexamine everything in your life. It definitely makes you aware that your time here is finite and there are still things to do, things to achieve.
I think this is such a difficult time for you, for all of us, but we can get through it, and Aunt Brenda wouldn't have wanted any of us to give up our lives. She never would have wanted any of us to stop our lives (well, maybe for a little while!) but not indefinitely. We are all missing her, but let's enjoy the time we had with her rather than be sad now. You have so many people who love you and need you to be you. We love you!
» left by Herb A from Dreaher (109 days 22 hours ago.)
Thank you sweetie . All of you are my link to brenda . It's just so hard to sit here in this house and not have her in my arms to enjoy her. My monther tells me to enjoy the memories but the memiors hut more and more becuse of the way she died. I PROMISED HURT THAT SHE WOULD BE ALRIGHT. I could keep my promiss.
» left by Herb A from Dreaher (109 days 22 hours ago.)
Thank you sweetie . All of you are my link to brenda . It's just so hard to sit here in this house and not have her in my arms to enjoy her. My monther tells me to enjoy the memories but the memiors hut more and more becuse of the way she died. I promissed her that she would be alright . I could keep my promiss.
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