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"The
trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing -
and then marry him."
Cher
"Love
is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to
have sex."
Daniel
S. Greenberg
"If
pleasures are greatest in anticipation, just remember that this is
also true of trouble."
Elbert Hubbard
They
say that love is the best feeling ever felt by human being. That when
both of you are together, you will be able to work things out. That
you can do everything in the name of love and this love will last for
ever. But how true are these words? How will love last forever in
this world full of mystery? The answer is unknown... Love is a matter
of choice or by destiny? But, if you love someone let it be. God
knows how this love will work out. If you don't love some, let it
go... You have to set it's wings free.. If it will come back to you,
then it's yours. But if it will go away, God has prepared someone
meant for you... Sometime love is not what we thought it was. Time
will come that love would be in trouble, whether to test if love was
really meant for us or not, no matter what it is, it's hard to say
but you may sometimes experience this what we call troubled
love.
When you love you must
remember that it was also accompanied by sacrifices and hard work.
Not all the time love is likely to be in good conditions. The
troubled love quotes above shows that there maybe times where love
would be in trouble. Yet things would only depend on how the two of
you handle that trouble and how will you be able to over come it.
Being in a relationship is not merely doing everything you want. Not
only being together, hugging and saying those sweet words of love.
Love is also fighting and struggling for all the obstacles that may
come your way. This is to test on how strong the foundation you have
set for your relations. It test on how far you will be able to suffer
and fight for the so called love
If
you're like someone else who's been through a broken relationship or
divorce, you know that the pain brought by this circumstance can be
excruciating!The trouble for many people after their breakup or
divorce is that this pain can be so unbearable that without realizing
it, they unknowingly do some things that are counter-productive to
healing their pain. They actually stay stuck in that pain, sometimes
forever. Sometimes, even when you think that you have dealt with the
pain of the breakup or divorce and put your past relationship behind
you, there's still more healing work to be done. You just didn't
realize it. There are some things that reminds you of a certain time
and person that you were with. Other times, someone will say or do
something that reminds you of a past relationship and you realize
that even though days, weeks, months or even years may have passed,
there's still more healing to be done.
If
time passing is the only thing that needs to happen in order for us
to heal our pain and broken heart, then all we would need to do is
let a certain amount of time pass and poof- just like magic- our pain
would be gone and our hearts healed.
Unfortunately,
this isn't the way the healing process works. It isn't just the time
that's important. It's what we do with that time that determines
whether we heal our hearts or not. If you ever hope to heal your
heart and find the courage to truly open yourself up to love again,
you're going to have to do some things besides simply letting time
pass.
Being
in this situation is not that easy. After the moments and experience
that you've shared and dreamed on, things ends up tat easily... But
life is a battle. You must stand up and fight again. Learned from
your experience and love again.. Troubled love may happen to us but
after all you will understand it's mystery.
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