What are the signs? Is your spouse cheating, or not? Any unusual behavior can be misconstrued as a "sign" of a
cheater. Granted, there are some spouses that are more prone to cheating than
others and the signs are surely appropriate, but some spouses simply don't
cheat. Understand that when we look for signs of a cheater, we'll surely find
them, but suppose that our spouse isn't cheating?
In this article I'm going to use the signs of a "supposed" cheating spouse to show how easy we
can become swayed into believing something that may or may not be a fact. Is
your spouse cheating or does it just seem like they are cheating?
- Signs That Your Husband Is NOT Cheating On You -
1. He Stays Out Late
He stays out late working overtime at his job because he has
to work harder, longer hours for all the new clothes, furniture, cars, boats,
houses, and other stuff you're both buying for the house and for
entertainment. Or perhaps he stays out late with his buddies, which doesn't
necessarily mean he is cheating or even looking to cheat. When in doubt, simply
ask him. If he says he's not cheating, than give him the benefit of the doubt.
2. Strange Numbers On His Cell Phone
He has unfamiliar numbers on his cell phone because he has a
lot of contacts for his job. Just because your husband has strange numbers that
you aren't familiar with on his cell phone certainly does not mean he is
cheating on you. The best thing you can do is to ask him straight out who the
numbers belong to, or call the numbers yourself. Be careful though, a woman may
answer and you may take it to mean something other than innocent.
3. Begins To Dress Better
Instead of wearing his usual khakis or sweats when he goes
out, he now wears more formal attire and makes sure his hair is combed and he's
clean shaven. He begins to dress better because he has taken more pride in
himself since he married his lovely wife. He wants to look good for his wife
and family – nothing wrong with that is there?
4. You Asked Him If He Was Cheating
You asked him if he was cheating and he said that he wasn't
cheating. Are you having a difficult time believing him? What for? Sometimes we
want to believe something so bad that we find reasons to believe it. If we keep
bombarding our mind with the signs of a cheater we begin to actually believe
our husband is cheating. Its strange how the mind works, but its true.
- Signs That Your
Wife Is NOT Cheating On You -
1. Clicks Away From Website When You Walk In The Room
She quickly gets rid of the website she was looking at when
you walk in the room because she does not want you to know that she is looking
at YOUR history files to see what you have been looking at. She was checking up on you. Why do you think
your wife needs to do that? What have you been doing?
2. Dresses Nice For Others
Women love clothes and love to dress nice when going out.
Here is a secret you may not already know. Most women aren't dressing for other
men they dress for themselves so they'll feel good about who they are. It's
hard for a man to understand that but it's the way it is, so let her be. Just
because your wife wears sweats at home and dresses pretty when she goes to work
or goes out certainly does not mean she is having an affair. Let your wife
dress nice and look good when she goes out, don't rob her of her femininity.
3. Spends Too Much Time At The Gym
Because she spends so much time at the gym you begin to feel
that she met another guy at the gym? Is she seeing someone else? No, she did
not meet another guy at the gym. She wants to get into shape for you. She is
spending more and more time at the gym because she is noticing the great results
it is producing. Why don't you go to the gym with her and let all the single guys know she is taken for.
4. You Asked Her If She Was Cheating
You asked her if she was cheating and she told you that she
wasn't. Are you having a difficult time believing her? What for? Usually when
we feel suspicious and or jealous it is because we don't trust ourselves. It's
weird how what we don't like about ourselves, we'll see in the person we
married. For your own well being you need to trust your wife and stop finding
reasons to mistrust her.
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Angie has authored five self-help books. Adultery Pandemic is her latest book. You can turn your marriage into a success! If you want to restore your marriage from the demoralizing effects of adultery, then look no further - this is the book for you! To preview these books go here: http://www.lulu.com/AngieLewis/
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