Women, have you ever wondered why men dump women? The answers to this question are not that complicated. Men break up with women for various reasons but these reasons all have the same basic root causes. So let's investigate some of the reasons why men dump women.
First of all, men will break up with women because they nag. Yes, it is true, some women are terrible nags. They will nag as a means of controlling their men. Women feel that they must project a strong image, so they end up nagging to try to make their men do what they want them to do. The truth of the matter is, deep down a woman really wants a strong man who can take control of almost any situation. But a man that does not understand women will become confused and opt to do nothing, therefore causing the woman to nag. As times goes on, the constant nagging will make a man leave.
Another reason why men dump women is because women will try to change them. It is no secret that women are attracted to the "bad boy" image. But once a woman snags this "bad boy" she does her best to try to change him. If the woman does succeed in changing the man, she will then complain that the man is not who she fell in love with. The man that has been changed usually ends up not liking who he has become and will resent the woman for turning him into this stranger. So as you can see, you now have two very unhappy people in this relationship. The man will eventually decide it's not worth it and he will break up with her.
Men are not the only ones who change in a relationship. Women will change also. They may gain weight, lose all interest in sex or just turn into a completely different person. Sometimes the woman will start comparing her life to that of her friends and start complaining that the man is not meeting her needs. She may want nicer clothes, a bigger house, expensive jewelry, etc. If a man no longer recognizes the woman he is with, he will probably leave her.
Believe it not, there are women out there who are not capable of loving. They may love the idea of being in love, but when it comes to actually loving a man, they can't do it. One of the reasons that women may find it difficult to love a man is they hold every man to impossible standards. These women will compare their men and their idea of love to the men in romantic novels. Men and love like this does not exist. That is why these novels are called fiction. A man will not stay around if he feels like he will never be good enough for you. So in a sense, romantic fiction novels are another cause of why men dump women.
These are the main reasons why men dump women. If you want to keep a man, then you need to learn to accept him and love him for who he is. Don't try to change him into someone he is not. If men and women both can learn to accept each other then they will have a good shot at a long lasting and loving relationship.
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