What is the benefit of a fee paying online dating website over a free one?
Free websites attract all sorts not just people who are serious about meeting someone in person.
- Underage users sign up and pose as adults, they may use adult pictures (maybe mom and dad) and chat away while you are none the wiser!
- Men may pose as women and vice versa.
- Straight guys may find they get a lot of mail from gay guys.
- Women may get mail from guys looking for sex slaves or mistresses. I kid you not!
- Lots of people use fake pictures and post fake details.
You might be asking, why?
Why would someone sign up to an online dating site and not be honest about themselves and what they have to offer?
If people are into cam sex, phone sex or online sex they don't need to be honest about anything.
Some people just want to talk to someone and feel they will get a bigger response if they use a models pictures (usually copied from the web) and a quick glance at any of these free sites will show you plenty of evidence of those!
Th is is why fee paying sites are preferable and before we get carried away about those fee's, in many cases the fee is less than $10 (£5) a month which is less than a round of drinks! So it's really not much, though prices do vary depending on the site. Fee paying sites
- They are usually free to register and you can browse freely but other features may require a small to large subscription depending on the site and depending on the services each site offers.
- But what you can be sure of is that no child will bother to pay a fee nor will they be able to, and people who are paying to be on an online dating site, are serious about the whole online dating process. can join gay guy sites so no more hassling straight guys on free sites.
- Gay Men or women with a certain fetish or preferance can join sites that cater for their own unique tastes without feeling weird or like a freak as everyone on that site is the same as them.
In conclusion Fee Paying Sites are cheaper than nights out at the pub, will attract less fakes and will provide better results!
Online dating is a bit of a mystery to people who have a wide enough circle of friends and family to be able to meet people they can fall in love with without going online. But that is not the case for everyone and for some, me included, meeting the opposite sex in their everyday life just doesn't happen. A single mom 's day might involve taking the kids to school, activities with other mums (who don't know any suitable single men) and that's pretty much it when their evenings are a no no in terms of hobbies and clubs as they have children to mind.
I have spoken to men who resort to online dating due to being fed up of only meeting drunken women in bars which isn't what they want in a life partner! That or they want someone who enjoys their passion for fly fishing (good luck with that chaps!) but with online dating you can find people with the same interests in your area and reach out to them.
So, online dating sites can offer a life line to people stuck at home or just not mixing in the circles they need to mix in to meet a compatible partner.
So for those peeps for whom online dating is a mystery, let's not be judgemental eh?
Meanwhile I not only met one of my best friends (female) online (friends in real life now) but she met her husband who she now has two children with online! It can work and if it works who are we/you to knock it?
