No we are not talking about that wonderful stock or real estate market!! We are talking about your social investments!
Though I personally think Apple is a great buy right now….it is at a 52 week low.
But this is not a stock trading site so lets get back to the issue at hand on the first Friday in October.
It's all about paybacks and dividends.
If you're home on a Friday or Saturday night, make a list of all of the cool people you've met over the course of a year – women that you've met at parties, women that you've met online, whatever it might be. Make that list.
And when you do that, write down something that you remember specifically about each person and why you liked them.
And then what you do is reconnect with them! Just because you didn't go out with them or date them the first time doesn't mean that you can't reconnect the second time. And it doesn't mean that they haven't thought of you.
We've all done it. We've all gone through our lives and thought about our missed connections – cool people that we just didn't connect with at the time because our mindset wasn't in the right place.
When I've had relationships split up, I've met a lot of cool women but I just wasn't ready for them. Now I can look back and I think to myself, huh, I wonder what happened to that person?
Instead of not doing anything about it and thinking that you blew it, just go and call or text her. Just say, "hey, how have you been? I was thinking about you. Let's catch up." That's it.
You never know. If you throw ten of those out there, two of them might come back. The women might think to themselves, oh yeah, David – what a good guy!
You have to start thinking in terms of abundance. It's okay to reapply. I really believe in reapplying.
In fact, I just reapplied a few weeks ago and it has been amazing!
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