Regardless of what many may think, Money is always the biggest issue in
most marriages, miserable or not. Being unable to purchase the
simplest of things for yourself you'll begin to wonder: Why?
Why am I
allowing this to continually go on? I am certain that there are a lot
of you who suffer from the same fate. Once you accept and start to
face the fact that he is not going to change and that if one is made
you'll have to be the one to do it, you will start raising your
expectations for yourself.
Begin to realize that your children expect more from you, they see
what's going on, and that waiting for a change is a lost cause. No
article that I write is meant to be a prelude to a religious sermon,
but in truth when I started back to reading the scriptures, I started
back seeing what I could expect of myself, and do for myself, so will
you.
I began to find a new inner peace within myself, a peace which I
had long forgotten. Once you redefine yourself and start paying
attention to your own needs and wants, you'll eventually give up on
waiting around, expecting a change, a change that will not happen.
Finding that inner peace is what will make you stronger, because the
worse it gets the more you can stop expecting a change.
I am not saying that change is always good for the better,
sometimes in my case it was. I started back to believing in me, and
squirreling a little away, every pay day, and eventually a little
became quite sizeable. Sizeable enough for me to do what I needed to do
for me.
Some of my articles will from time to time contain a passage from
the Bible, read them, you'll soon begin to see what I mean by an inner
peace and strength, and you will know what to do.
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