Hi ladies! Why do women often sabotage their relationship with men without even giving it a chance? Find out!
We've all done it. We're dating a guy we think might be worth our time, when out of nowhere we start a destructive pattern of sabotage and in a short time, the relationship goes belly up. Why do we do this, ladies?! Here are 3 ways to stop the sabotage!
1. Don't be the one who calls all the time. One of the biggest mistakes women make in relationships is taking the lead too soon by calling, texting and e-mailing their guy all the time. Don't do it. Make him call, text and e-mail you by showing him that you've got a life. You're busy and you don't have time to sit around sending him a hundred texts a day. Take it easy and make him come to you.
2. Don't cater to his every need. Sure, in a relationship, women want to take care of their men by doing things to make their lives easier. While you might think this is a good idea, don't do it. Being too compliant, changing your schedule around for him and waiting on him hand and foot will surely lead to the demise of your relationship. A man wants a girlfriend or wife, not a maid. It's important to show a guy how independent you are and that your world does not center around him.
3. Don't be naive. You're not 18 anymore, so don't act like it. Don't believe everything a guy tells you and then govern your actions according to what he says. No way! Make sure he's telling the truth and if he's not, kick him to the curb. -- Tasha Cunningham, Tasha@DontDateHimGirl.com - www.DontDateHimGirl.com.
Uhhmm , , , coy, smart, and filled with stratedgy--but whatabout trtuh, directness and open: I agree set boundaries, don't chase, and be smart--but also be truthful, direct, and open! (One man's point of view!)
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