Every Drop in the Bucket is a Smile in Your Pocket, so remember that
when you start taking control of your own finances.
In other words
"YOUR MONEY," being in control of your own finances is a feeling you
probably just imagine if you have never done it for yourself or if you
have had to have everything allotted to you in your marriage.
Once you
decide that the weekly allotment issued out to you is no longer
acceptable to you nor is living the way you live no longer acceptable
you will start to change things for yourself.
You have to readily admit that you allowed this to happen and you
let it continue, thinking oh he gives me whatever I want or oh he pays
for everything, without ever thinking, but what do I have?
That was
Then, This is now, and speaking from actual experience I can tell you
that an account with your name and your name only on it is a good
feeling. I have a friend who says that every woman needs a KMA
account, and she's right. What's a KMA account you ask? Kiss My A_ _
account that's what it is.
Giving someone else complete control of finances is a mistake many
wives make, and often regret it when their finances head south on
horseback, and the creditor's right behind. Un-foreseen things often
times happen such as an unexpected illness or death, but when your
finances are a mess because of the lack of seeing about them, then
that's something different.
Financial responsibilities must be met
regardless and someone must see that they are. Getting a job, even if its only a few days a week, the money is
yours, and that small sense of financial freedom regardless of how
menial will give you that feeling of its mine.
Learn how easy it is to
budget, because you can budget a little money, but it's impossible to
budget no money, then start to put a little away each week, you'll be
surprised at how fast it will add up. Keep your account and the
information to yourself, and tell no one until you make your decision
as to what you want to do
Psalms 91:1 He that dwelleth in a secret place of the most high
shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty (He'll take care of it)
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