One of the biggest questions singles ask is: Where
can I meet high quality singles? Since the bar scene does not work for
much more than a one-night stand (of course there are exceptions to
this), here are some other places to meet your match.
1. Friend
Networks: It is very easy to meet prospective dates during social
occasions, at friends' parties, weddings, and other get-togethers.
Because the atmosphere is relaxed, it is easy to mingle, meet different
people and socialize. Feel free to ask your friend for an introduction
to eligible singles, especially if you are a bit shy at first.
2.
Joining Groups that share in Your Interests: Clubs and organizations
that match your interests are one of the best ways to meet other
individuals that share your interests. Travel clubs, walking clubs,
gourmet clubs and wine-tasting events are some of the ways you can meet
a prospective mate. There are many meet up groups in every area online
or in your local paper.
3. Taking a Class at a Local Community
Center or School: If you sign up for a class that you have always
wanted to take, such as cooking, computers, Salsa dancing or an
organizational seminar, you can have a chance to meet a variety of
people while learning something new. You can also take a yoga or
kickboxing class at your local gym or community center,
4. Using
a reputable matchmaker or dating service: Using a matchmaker can be an
effective way to have your prospective mate "pre-screened" for you and
suited to match your lifestyle and interests. If you are looking for a
serious long-term commitment, this can be a good way to go.
5.
Online Dating Sites: This is the most popular way for today's singles
to meet. If you take this route, it is best to go to a site that offers
assessments such as E-Harmony or Match, because they go in-depth on the
profiles and give you a great deal of selection. Try talking with the
person on the phone a time or two before agreeing to meet, and ask
pertinent questions about them.
Safety tip: When meeting someone
from online, it is best to meet them first at a public place such as a
coffee shop. Bring a safety buddy with you for extra security, and
avoid being alone in their car or your homes until you are completely
comfortable. People are not always 100% honest online.
When the
old ways of dating and relating no longer work, try something new! Try
it more than once, as meeting new people takes time, and you don't
always find what you are looking for your first week out. Most of all,
have fun and be a successful single yourself. The more you bring to the
table to share, the more desirable you will be as a potential date or
mate.
