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Ways to tell if you're Pregnant - Pregnancy Symptoms Which Predict You're Expecting a Baby

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Ways to tell if you`re pregnant - How I can tell if I am pregnant and what should I do if I find out that I am. This is a disconcerting question and has one of two reasons why it is asked. When a woman is told she is pregnant she either seeks help for all the good reasons, or in contrast, and sadly, we have women whose cry for help is in no relation to good. Their reasons could be they `re too young to have a baby, or they have a health matter that can incur complications further into the pregnancy preventing a full term delivery. Other motives could be due to inconvenience. If "no" acceptable excuse is given then convenience ups the numbers in abortions.

Babies are not an inconvenience but situations are, and should you find yourself in one where it poses threat to you or your unborn baby`s welfare and your pregnancy permitted to continue, then you could face a life and death situation later, if this is the case then your reason to abort (termination) maybe be deemed acceptable. (Not in everyone`s eye)

Too many babies are left abandoned on church doorsteps and under park benches because young girls think they have no one to turn to or that they are confused over where to get help. There is plenty of help for the underage young mom to be. If you know you`re pregnant and scared then speak to mom, your partner or doctor, whoever out of the three that you feel you can talk to at this time. I personally go for the first option because who better than mom to help in your hour of need.

First lets clarify you`re definitely pregnant. Ways to tell if you`re pregnant is simple if using a home pregnancy test kit, if you haven`t done a test and noticed changes in body behaviours and you believe them to be pregnancy symptoms, then you must be sure.

Ways to tell if you`re pregnant symptoms

If you think you`re already pregnant, it can be extremely frustrating waiting to find out, nevertheless not a time for hasty decisions or actions. Are you aware that some women can experience "early" pregnancy symptoms in the week before their period?  Implantation normally happens within 8-10 days of ovulation. At this time, the woman`s body reacts to Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (HCG,) the pregnancy hormone. It is this hormone that pregnancy tests find in a positive test. And, it is the speedy rising levels of HCG which cause early pregnancy symptoms.

During pregnancy a woman will see her body change in more ways than one while the baby develops inside the womb. What you need to bear in mind is that not all women carry their babies the same and because of this different aspects in pregnancy will not exactly be the same as the next pregnant woman`s. As time progresses these changes tend to disappear during pregnancy or soon after you give birth.

Symptoms of pregnancy and ways of telling your pregnant is mostly determined by the pointers below.

  • A missed period is typical symptom of pregnancy
  • Sore breasts - Breasts normally start to change in the first trimester (weeks one to 12 of your pregnancy) as the body begins to make tissue for producing and storing breast milk.
  • Tiredness - In early pregnancy and because of major body change traits taking place it upsets energy levels. While the baby grows you start to feel the effects i.e. bigger and heavier, resulting in the feeling of "having no life in your body" when in a funny way you have (baby.)  If you feel extremely tired, this could indicate anemia - see your midwife or GP.
  • Having to wee often is another sign of pregnancy - Pregnancy hormones can encourage frequent urination spells. The feeling to wee becomes more prominent as the growing baby presses on the bladder. When you`re pregnant you have an increased risk of developing a urinary tract infection. You should not panic at this stage because so do other issues cause UTIs. Nevertheless it is a good to understand factors as such. Why we say more at risk is because pregnancy hormones and your growing womb can slow down the urine passing out of your body. Scientific study says cranberry juice may help to stop a urinary tract infection. If you experience symptoms of a urinary tract infection (pain or burning when you urinate) during pregnancy, you will need early treatment.
  • Morning sickness – One of the common of all symptoms and you want to think yourself lucky if you are not affected by the early morning balking and throw ups. Some women suffer sickness throughout the day and sometimes at night. This usually eases off after about 14 weeks. Women go to great lengths to avoid the sudden dash to the loo. To avoid this eat small meals regularly so that you don't get hungry. As we all differ you could try like other women, eating ginger biscuits or drinking ginger tea. Both are known for relieving their symptoms. Note how I said "their" as it may work for you, but may not.
  • Constipation - Pregnancy hormones have a way of relaxing body muscles, so the bowels don't work as well. Your digestive system absorbs more water from the food and this makes the faeces harder making it difficult to pass and cause discomfort and pain. See your GP if you are constipated.  Drink plenty of fluids and eat plenty of fresh fruit, vegetables and high-fibre foods such as cereals, this will help loosen the bowels.
  • Weight gain - The exact amount of weight you put on will differ from the next woman. Usually a pregnant woman will show excess weight gain of around 10 to 12.5kg (22 to 28lbs.)

Of course it's natural to put on weight in pregnancy and simply cannot be avoided. It is very unhealthy indeed while you are pregnant to abstain from food in a quest to keep your weight down, yes it sounds silly I know, but it is fact that some women have done this or tend on doing it. Stop it now before serious issues arise from not eating.

The weight you gain during pregnancy is made up of:

  • A growing baby, placenta and amniotic fluid
  • Development of the womb and breasts
  • Increased blood circulation
  • Water retention and fat stores

Backache – There is no true way of avoiding this symptom. During pregnancy your ligaments become supple, and this can put a strain on the joints of your lower back and pelvis. Bend your knees and keep your back straight when you are lifting , in saying that avoid lifting heavy items and stretching.

Heartburn – I myself found this the most problematic and disturbing of all symptoms when I was expecting. Pregnancy hormones relax the end of your food pipe (oesophagus) which causes acid from the stomach to pass back up into your oesophagus, causing heartburn. Try eating smaller meals more frequently.

Swelling of the ankles, feet and hands (oedema.) This results from the body retaining more fluid and carrying more blood when you are pregnant. It can turn serious where you are carefully monitored to make sure you`re not developing pre-eclampsia. Bleeding gums - Hair changes – and Skin differences can happen also.

You should attend all antenatal appointments, with the midwife, GP or obstetrician. Antenatal may include:

  • blood pressure monitoring
  • giving a urine sample
  • blood tests
Remember all Gym-slip moms-to-be that you need your mom at your side to help guide and support you throughout your pregnancy because, when baby is born the gym-slip are swapped for the apron.
 
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» left by april chittum from oklahoma city oklahoma (54 days 17 hours ago.)
would you start having side pains if you think your pregnant

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Hi April you can get many things when your pregnant. Women differ so the best thing to do is nip along to your GP who will tell you all you need to know
 
Keep safe
 
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» left by La'meisha (31 days 8 hours ago.)
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UHMMM I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND ON SATURDAY 10/3/09 AND ITS MONDAY 10/5/09 AND I WOKE UP WITH A SIDE PAIN LIKE RIGHT BELOW MY STOMACH LINE AND I WANTED TO KNOW IF THAT COULD BE A SIGN OF PREGNANCY? PLEASE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I REALLY WANT TO HAVE A BABY

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» left by Kacy Carr (30 days 21 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha because you really want a baby little twinges and the likes will set alarm bells ringing. Its early days, and you may have heard that saying it comes to those who wait. However I would leave it a little longer and then visit your GP. If I am right I think there is a new pregnancy testing kit that tells you that your pregnant before missing a period, however the best person to clarify your condition or the pain you have is you doctor. Now pop along and put your mind at rest. Come back and let me know how you get on
 
 
Keep well
 
 
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» left by La'meisha (29 days 8 hours ago.)
THANK YOU VERY MUCH BUT I REALLY WANTED TO KNOW LIKE WITH A NORMAL MABY FIRT RESPONSE PREGNACY TEST LIKE HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT ? SHOULD I WAIT MABY A WEEK OR SO?

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» left by Kacy Carr (28 days 22 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha it’s along time since I used one of these pregnancy kits. With my second baby I waited till after the missed period. However I believe there is some now that you don't have to wait until then. Tests are done before the monthly cycle.

Pop along to the chemist and you can read up on the box they come in to get a better understanding of what they do, and how they work. It is recommended that the earliest time a woman takes a pregnancy test is after a missed period. Waiting until after a missed period also increases the chances that a urine test will be accurate. A mistake a lot of women make is diluting their urine by drinking too much water. This can reduce the amount of hCG in urine, and result in a false reading. The best time to do a pregnancy test is first thing in the morning. By testing the first urination of the day, it is possible to get a true hCG reading. Come back and let me know if this has been helpful and how your situation is. The quicker you get to to know will stop you from worrying.

 


Keep safe


 


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» left by La'meisha (27 days 6 hours ago.)
=} YES THANK YOU THIS WAS VERY HELPFUL TO ME AND I JUZ HAVE 1 MORE QUESTIN...IF I HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX AND MY BOYFRIEND EJACULATES IN ME AND I WAS ALREADY PREGNATE WITHOUT KNOWIN WILL THAT DAMAGE ANYTHING? THIS WAS THE LAST QUESTION THANK YOU VERY MUCH

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» left by Kacy Carr (26 days 22 hours ago.)
La'meisha - No it wonlt damage nothing and neither will it make more babies. You can ask as many questions as you like. Now stop worrying and enjoy the moment if you are pregnant - and be sure to let me know the outcome of your pregnancy test
 
 
Keep well
 
 
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» left by La'meisha (26 days 15 hours ago.)
i will thank you so much and if i think of anything else to ask il b sure to ask you =}

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» left by Kacy Carr (26 days 8 hours ago.)
No Problem  I look forward to hearing from and especially more so if the news is good news, and the pregnancy you want so much to happen, happens
 
Keep well
 
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» left by La'meisha (25 days 7 hours ago.)
OK I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION =} IS IT COMMON FOR EVERY WOMAN TO BLEED WHEN PREGNATE OR DO SOME WOMEN BLEED AND OTHERS DONT? AND DO YOU BLEED EVERY MONTH NOT SO MUCH AS YOUR PERIOD BUT DO YOU JUST BLEED? AND IF YOU DO BLEED ABOUT HOW LONG DO YOU BLEED FOR AND IS IT LIGHT OR HEAVY? THANK YOU KACY =}

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» left by Kacy Carr (24 days 21 hours ago.)
La'meisha Hi - Yes its been known for women to bleed in pregnancy, but "not" common, because these particualar women still had their monthly cycle giving them no hint they were pregnant, that was until  they coughed or got a bad belly ache, and then a baby popped out.
 
As you know I am not a doctor but  talking from experience as a mother and what I have studied over the years - if your unsure about somethings speak with GP.
Bleeding in pregnancy is not always a healthy sign, and the proof of this being true is - that when a woman is pregnant one of the warning signs sent out to pregnant women is, if they see blood is to see their doctor "immediately" So this tells us that something might not be right.
 
All months in pregnancy are critcal, but some more than most if blood is spotted.. In answer to your question and what I know then I have to say "NO" its not normal to bleed in pregnancy. Usual time to see a slight spot of blood  ina mucas type matter is when you get a show and this normally happens around the time of when baby is ready come.
 
However all women - their babies and how they cope with pregnancy and much more will differ - so we can only go off what is deemed usual. I am not sure if this may sound like a whole load of gobbly goop to you. Get back to me if you have any problems.
 
Keep well
Kacy

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» left by La'meisha (24 days 8 hours ago.)
OK UHMM NOW WAHT WOULD NORMALLY COME FIRST A MISSED PERIOD OR LIGHT SPOTTING ? THANKS

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» left by Kacy Carr (22 days 18 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha sorry for the delay. It is usually the missed period that tells you your pregnant, however a missed period can be caused by other things going on in your life like - stress and more. Blood spotting is when you are pregnant and something to be wary about and always have checked out.
 
Hope this has helped
 
Keep well and keep me informed
 
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» left by La'meisha (22 days 9 hours ago.)
ok thanks i will go to get a pregnancy test close to the end of the month because that is when i start my period...and can you have symptoms for pregnancy before you miss your period and if so what kind...because i have been tired and my back was hurting earlyer and i had a slight cramping

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» left by Kacy Carr (22 days 8 hours ago.)
Yes La'meisha thats your best bet is to get a pregnancy test done. Because your so eager and waiting in anticipation of being told that your pregnant you may be feeling all these niggly things because you want to. I am not saying that your not feeling them, what I am saying with your worry and desperation they could be happening.. The hurting back usually comes when your heavily pegnant. Your tiredness might be due to the stress your putting your self under which is not good if you are pregnant, and as for cramping we all get this from time to time.
 
Now go get that test done and come back and let me know because I am not sleeping till I know as well
 
Keep safe and good luck
 
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» left by La'meisha (22 days 7 hours ago.)
thanks i will get 1 by the end of the month if i see that i have missed my period

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» left by Kacy Carr (22 days 7 hours ago.)
Cheers now I can go and get a good nights sleep now that I know your going to check this out. I hope La'meisha you get what you want
 
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» left by La'meisha (17 days 9 hours ago.)
KACY IS IT NORMAL TO COME ON YOUR PERIOD BUT ITS NOT REALLY A PERIOD BUT IS IT NORMAL FOR THAT TO HAPPEN WHEN YOU FIRST BECOME PREGNATE...LIKE ISNT IT PLANTATION BLEEDING OR SOMETHING??

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» left by Kacy Carr (17 days 8 hours ago.)
La'meisha will get back to you on this - just out of town and the moment but travelling back soon. I wont let you down with an answer
 
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» left by La'meisha (17 days 8 hours ago.)
OK THANKS AND I HAVE 1 MORE QUESTION TO WHEN YOU GET BACK...HOW MANY DAYS AFTER IMPLANTATION BLEEDING CAN I TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST ?

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» left by Kacy Carr (16 days 12 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha I have been and done some research and found some questions and answers that I feel might help you because it seems to include all thats been involved with what we have been talking about
 
Question
 
I have been trying to concieve for the past month. the first time was unsuccessful. but
this time i calculated my ovulation and we had sex during the week I was suppose to be ovulating. now approx. 12 days later I'm bleeding but its a week and a half early for my period and I'm always regular. its really light bleeding (hardly needed a panty liner),
light pink in color...only for half of one day wAz it bright red then the last day it wAz light brown. it lasted for about 3-4 days with light cramping on the first day. but it wasn't like my periods usually be...no blood blobs...nothing. and it was mixed in with mucus (vaginal yeast?). Before i was bleeding my nipples were very sensitive for a week which has never happened before. so I'm excited. What do you think? And if it was an implantation bleed, what would be the best
 
Time to take a pregnancy test?
 
Answer
 
You ovulate 12-16 days BEFORE your period starts so if you ovulated and started bleeding 12 days later then it's your period. However, it is very possible that you didn't ovulate when you think you did. You should use basal body temping to determine when ovulation occurs. Don't go by the ovulation calanders or the method of ovulation occurs 14 days after period starts--both methods are unreliable. Implantatin spotting is light pink and only lasts a short while-an hour or so. Also, I wanted to add, cervical mucus is normal and healthy. It's actually critical for conception to occur. As long as it isn't foul smelling or itchy then it isn't yeast or any other infection. The best time to test for pregnancy is using first morning urine after your period is late.
 
Get back to me if this doesn't help as we will get the anwser for you "eventually"
 
Keep well
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» left by La'meisha (16 days 8 hours ago.)
this was kind of helpful but im concerned because i start having a brownish red discharge and this happend yesterday (10-19-09) and today when i wipe its like a pinkish red amd its comming light..normally when im on my period its really heavey on the second day and i barley fill up a pad and i was wondering if that could be inplantation bleeding?

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» left by La'meisha (16 days 8 hours ago.)
O AND 1 MORE THING I DONT KNO WHAT ovulation IS BECAUSE I NEVER BEEN THROUGH THIS AND IM CONFUZED ON WHAT IS IS...CAN YOU TELL ME WHAT IS IS AND WHAT IT LOOKS AND FEELS LIKE PLEASE =]

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» left by Kacy Carr (15 days 9 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha Kacy to the rescue - Ovulation is the time during a women's cycle when eggs are released from the ovaries into the fallopian tube. If your looking to fall pregnant, sperm must be present during the period of ovulation, so it is vital to have intercourse just prior and during the time the woman is ovulating. There are several ways you can can tell when your ovulating; however the accuracy and reliability of methods vary.
 
Before introduction of new types of methods - there was the basal body thermometer. These allowed a woman to chart her temperature during her cycle and watch for changes to indicate ovulation. As of late, urine ovulation predictor kits can be bought and inexpensive. These monitor the body for specific hormones that increase as ovulation approaches. They are accurate and especially helpful for women whose ovulating cycle varies a lot. Another method used to detect the time of ovulating are ovulation scopes. These allow you to check a saliva sample for distinct patterns that should happen only during ovulation. These to are accurate but can be difficult to use.
 
Ovulation tests work by detecting Luteinizing Hormone (LH) in urine. Using a set of ovulation tests, you can watch as LH levels grow and peak. After this point, known as ovulation surge, a fertile egg will be released within 24-48 hours.
 
It's not usual to bleed during ovulation. If you are bleeding, it's probably your period.
If my memory doesn't fail me - Bleeding during ovulation looks like thin pink or brown discharge. It may last for 1-2 days with lower left or right abdominal pain. Women differ so remember this
 
La Meisha I think your going to have delivered this baby that's if you are pregnant by the time we get you the answers you are looking for. I Hope what little information I am giving you is helping, nonethless I still say see your GP, however get back to me.
 
Keep well
 
Kacy

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» left by La'meisha (15 days 9 hours ago.)
ITS REALLY NOT THAT EASY FOR ME TO GO SEE A GP...IF YOU KNO WHAT I MEAN...BUT HOW WOULD I ALREADY KNO IF I OVULATED...NOT LIKE YOU WANT TO KNO BUT THE BLOOD IM BLEEDING IS PINKISH RED AND IT LOOKS KIND OF SLIMY AND I DONT KNO WHATS GOING ON IF ITS MY PERIOD OR NOT I DNT WANT TO GET A PREGNANCY TEST UNTIL I STOP BLEEDING AND TODAY IN SCHOOL I HAD LOWER ABNOMINAL PAIN IN MY RIGHT SIDE SO I DONT KNO I NEED HELP ON WHAT THIS IS DO YOU THINK ITS IMPLANTATION BLEEDING OR WHAT THIS IS THE LIKE 2 1/2AY I BEEN BLEEDING AND ITS BEEN LIGHT AND A LITTLE HEAVEY BUT THIS IS ->NOT<- HOW MY NORMAL PERIOD IS AND THE CRAMPS I HAD YESTERDAY REALLY DIDNT FEEL LIKE MY MENSTRAL CRAMPS SO IM THINKING IF ITS NOT MY PERIOD IT MIGHT BE ...I DONT KNO BUT I HOPE NOTHING BAD

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» left by Kacy Carr (15 days 8 hours ago.)
Hi La meisha there is some serious worry going on and its not good for you. I see you say in school today, just how old are you La meisha. You are getting all the symptoms that can imply implantation bleeding but then these symptoms could be due to a lot of other things. Stress is not good because this can alter a lot that goes on within your body.  I believe the best bet is to do a pregnancy test and from this with can find out exactly what its is that has your body functions changing in this manner.
Let me know what you have decided to do about the pregnancy test, and out of curiosity when was your period due after having unprotected sex that you spoke of when you first contacted me.
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» left by La'meisha (15 days 8 hours ago.)
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 10/3/09 and my period was due on 10/23/09 which is 2mmrow and i started spotting 10/19/09 and when i start my period its light then gets heavey by now it should have been heavy by now..but i am just spotting im not worried or stressed about anything im just confuzed because i dont know what this is im thinking that it might be implantation bleeding but i want your oppinion on it and i promiss you that i am going to get a pregnancy test next week. but really today and every im not worried or stressed because i kno that, that usually causes a lot of things going wrong with the body and i dont want to strss myself to mess anything up and make me think things thats not true..so i dont know if its stress really but i would like to kno what you think =}

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» left by La'meisha (15 days 8 hours ago.)
no im sorry i made a mistake my period was due on the 20th and i start spotting on the 19th but if it was my period it should be really heavy by now

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» left by Kacy Carr (15 days 6 hours ago.)
La meisha you might not think your stressed - but say more confused. If I were to define the meaning of the word confused - then to me that would mean that the confusion deriving from you not knowing whether your coming or going will result in worry. Because your period was due on the 20th but you started spotting on the 19th your confusion  (which I say is worry) could well have brought your period sooner and lighter instead of heavy. This happens a lot in women. And like we said it is also a similar symptom of implantation bleeding, but then again it might not. I think you and I should wait for the pregnancy test so "WE" can both put our minds at rest because like you I am dying to know the outcome.
 
Keep well Kacy and come back with the negative or positive result

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» left by La'meisha (15 days 5 hours ago.)
OK KACY I WILL BE SURE TO TELL YOU THE RESULTS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR HELP IL PROBLY CONTACT YOU NEXT WEEK =}

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» left by Kacy Carr (14 days 23 hours ago.)
Make sure do - I wait in aniticpation with my fingers crossed for you
 
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» left by Renee Victoria from PA (11 days 2 hours ago.)
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Hello there my name is Renee, And i have a question for you. Well recently my boyfriend and i had sex, my last period was on Sep 17, 09 It is now Oct, 25, 09, and i have still not gotten my period. Now my period is usually on time, and this month when it wasnt, i really started getting scared. I do not have morning sickness i have occasionall bouts of nausea and increase in appitite, I was taking Multivitamins And Calcium when i had the unprotected sex on 2 occasions on the beginning of the month.
 
Now here's the kicker. I went to the dollar store and bought a dollar test ( haha) And took that 3 days after my missed period, and it came back negitive. I read that it could be too soon to tell or a "false negitive" and now its day 8 missing period, also i have a clear discharge it goes from being heavy to light, no odor, just a clear discharge.
 
I am only asking for advice because i am terrified I by no means am ready for a child nor do i want one.

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» left by Kacy Carr (10 days 20 hours ago.)
Hi Renee the dollar store you say, as opposed to this type of store in the UK its called the pound shop - and one where I would not consider buying a pregnancy kit. Renee the negative result could be right but having said that it could be "Wrong" No doubt you are well aware there are plenty of things that can stop a period, and pregnancy being one of the most common.
 
 
Its not to early to tell - nowadays (I believe) you can find out if your pregnant as quick as several days after having sex... before missing a period. You need to find out right away if you have matters to sort if you are pregnant. Its worth paying an extra few dollars and going to the chemist to buy a reliable brand pregnancy kit.
 
 
In the UK we have a service where we hand over a sample of urine to the pharmasist in the chemist (for people that don't like going to the doctor - which I suggest they should) and return within an hour to be given the result. At least this way you can rely on the prediction because of the source from where it has come from.
 
Everything else you mention sounds fine in relation to the vaginal discharge. All the same I say go and visit your GP for an exact diagnosis. You may not want to do this, but if you are pregnant and have matters to sort then you will have to see a doctor whether you like it of not
 
 
Come back and let me know how you get on Renee. This way we can prove whether that dollar store kit was a 100% in what it predicted (lol)
 
 
Keep well
 
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» left by renee victoria from pa (10 days 6 hours ago.)
Lol yes well thank you very well for you're advice dear.
 
I was didn't think much of it so i popped by the nearest store and picked one up, (i don't drive)
 
another thing is I am 16 years old. I didn't mention that before so going to the doctors is not as easy as i am hoping it to be, my father passed away the end of this august and my mother has been struggling finacially ever since and has been distraught since he passed, (they were together for 26 years) Shes been trying to help my little sister through all of this, and now this...
 
my period has always been regular, ive had it since i was 11 years old. I never miss a month, it comes every month on the same day usually (but of course its changed over the years) I went to the doctors on the 21 i didnt mention anything i was only a few days late, i had to get a physical because i once had high keetones and was sick for awhile. But when i went he said everything seemed completely healthy again, but i had to take a urine test to make sure my muscles are no longer wasting and to go before i get my period...so theres no blood in the urine,
 
well i still havent gone yet because im scared it may come up or something.
 
and I know my mother wouldnt be able to handel this only loosing my father 2 months ago. Shes just starting the mourning process and my little sister, id devistate my family.
 
I've thought about abortion, but thats nearly 800$ money that is not around right now, My boyfriend and i arent together, and all he has to say it "i'll find a way to get rid of it" he even told me to throw myself down stairs or try overdosing (which id never do)
 
he doesnt want me ruining "his" life and he has his whole college life ahead of him he said.....
 
i still havent gotten it, im waiting until nov 1 to test and im going to Planned Parenthood, its free and they'll do a blood test without telling my mother.
 
I just am so scared and alone.

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» left by Kacy Carr (9 days 14 hours ago.)
Hi Renee now that we know your 16 its makes it easier for me to understand the whole scenario now. Your boyfriend was out of order with his reaction to your pregnancy (should there be one.) Him saying he has his life ahead of him, how selfish, and don't you have a life too? Did he not give this any thought. I am sorry to hear about your dad and that your mum is into the mourning process, but did you never think that it mayvbe something like this that may take her mind of things. However in saying this you know your mum best, and without sounding harsh moms are our best friends even in times like this.
 
If you had to give a urine test for the muscle problem you have, it will if you are pregnant show up. You said you are going to a Planned Parenthood for help and I think this is your best bet as they will have all the right advice and give you the support you need.
 
Stop worrying because all the disturbances in your life as of late from losing your dad might be the reason your period is not on time. Come Back Renee and keep me informed
 
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» left by renee victoria from pa (8 days 2 hours ago.)
Kacy
 
Thank you so much for your support. I told my mother, she wasn't angry with me at all, she actually called my ex boyfriend, she didnt yell but she told him how he needs to stop saying such horrid things to me, and be there especially in times like this. My mother is against abortion and told me these mistakes that i make come with consequences and i will have to deal with them so i know the mistake ive made. Shes been really supportive, although she says she is mad about the whole situation because shes not ready to be a grandmother, and im too young to be a mother, this is the situation we were handed and we'll deal with it one step at a time.
 
another day passed still no period, it makes me sad because reality sinks in and i realize that my life will and might change forever. I am homeschooled so that makes it much easier. But i am going to wait until Nov.1 then i am going to take a test, everyones telling me to take one now, but at this moment im not ready too, im still scared at what it might say. So i vowed by nov 1 ill take a test and find out.
 
I will keep you informed, you are such a lovely lady. :)
 
thank you very much dear.
 
Sincerly,
 
Renee Victoria.

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» left by Kacy Carr (7 days 22 hours ago.)
Hi Renee I am so glad you have this off your chest and your not worrying to much. You see moms ain't all that bad. Your mom  was the first to protect you when she thought someone had her little girl i.e.(boyfriend.) Hey Renee you yourself might be a mom one day and then you will understand.
 
I know your friends mean well but you take the test when your ready. Dont fear the result because like you said, although your mom is mad, you will take one step at a time - and this is a sensible thing to do. Remember Renee its not only your mom who gets mad when told something like this. Hey its what we moms do. Your mom says she is to young to be a grandmother and you a parent, but believe me this all changes after time.
 
Yes your life will change greatly if a baby comes along, but there are thousands of single moms coping, and when you have a mom like yours then you are going to be a very lucky girl with her at your side. Mom is your best friend so any worries just tell her. You have just lost your dad and your mom her partner and bestfriend, but you will both get through this
 
Come back Renee and let me know
 
Keep well
 
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» left by La'meisha (9 days 6 hours ago.)
Kacy its me !!!! =p juz wanted to to tell you im geting a pregnancy test on thrusday and wonder should i get the 3 in a box or get the single 1 ?? im thinkin 3 ina box..

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» left by Kacy Carr (8 days 23 hours ago.)
La'meisha its me !!!! Good to here from you as I have been thinking about you. You say what to do... 3 in a box or get the single 1 ?? im thinkin 3 ina box. Well me Kacy is thinkin its up to you whatever you decide. - I'm in the UK and thats tomorrow and cant wait
 
Best of luck
 
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» left by La'meisha (3 days 10 hours ago.)
kacy i juz bought tha test today and im waiting on my boyfriend ill be back in a few hours with the results

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» left by Kacy Carr (3 days 8 hours ago.)
Hi my friend I can't wait. The suspense has been killing me. La meisha we might be in different time zones so I might not get to see this result till tomorrow because I am off to bed now. I don't think I am going to get any sleep though. Good luck I will keep my fingers crossed for you both. Can you remind me of whether you are looking for a negative or positive result.
 
Keep well
 
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» left by La'meisha (2 days 17 hours ago.)
the results came back negitive i wouldent of minded for a positive result tho but i only took 1 test and it was kind of cheap i kno this is t.m.i but as soon as i peed on it the results came in in like 5 seconds so i dont kno im goin to take another 1 because im gettin symptoms of pregnancy

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» left by Kacy Carr (2 days 13 hours ago.)
Hi La'meisha pregnancy tests are fast in returning a result. Are you in a country where you have to pay to see a doctor because I don't see why you don't get the answer straight from the horse's mouth so as to speak. Remember, that sometimes when you want something bad you can imagine you have it. Just on my way down to your next question
 
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» left by La'meisha (2 days 16 hours ago.)
hey kacy i wanted to ask you...well you know how when your suppose to take a home pregnancy test maby 2 weeks after a shortened or missed period well is there something that like if you wait to late to take a test it will come back negitive when you really are pregnante?

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» left by Kacy Carr (2 days 13 hours ago.)
To be honest I don't think doing a pregnancy test as late as you are referring too will make any difference. If your pregnant it will show. However anything is possible. I would say if it were really really late then you wouldn't have to rely on a pregnancy test because the belly would be swelling by this time.
 
Keep me informed La'meisha
 
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» left by La'meisha (2 days 12 hours ago.)
OK THANKS =}

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» left by Kacy Carr (2 days 9 hours ago.)
No problem and let me know what's happening
 
Keep safe
 
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