It's no wonder why Valentine's Day is one of the most popular days of
the year to propose. It's a day already steeped in romance and reserved
for spending together, so half of the work is done for you. But if
you're not careful, your sweet Valentine's proposal could border on
cliché. If you're one of the millions of guys (or gals!) planning a
Valentine's Day proposal, skip the chocolate script on the dessert
plate and check out these creative ideas for making the moment
memorable and personal.
Get Back to Basics
Valentine's Day brings out the kid in us by conjuring up memories of
elementary school valentine exchanges. Surprise her with a homemade
valentine that asks her to marry you. Along those lines - you can
always try the classic folded note that says, "Will you marry me? Check
yes or no."
Say it With Candy
Nothing says Valentine's Day like conversation hearts and the popular
candy's thematic take on love. Buy a bag and set aside ones that say
"Marry Me." Present her with a dish or container filled with the
hearts, and ask her to be your wife.
Be a Home Body
It's easy to see why the most popular place to propose is at home -
it's the ultimate way to lend intimacy to this very personal moment.
Cook her a romantic dinner for two, and tie an engagement ring to the
napkin holder or the stem of a champagne flute.
Re-create a Special Moment
Re-creating a first date or other significant milestone in your
relationship demonstrates the significance you place on the time you've
shared together, a key ingredient in a marriage proposal. Make
reservations at the restaurant where you had your first dinner
together, or visit the location of your first kiss or first "I love
you's."
Scrapbook It
Create a scrapbook of mementos - ticket stubs, photos, restaurant
takeout menus, pamphlets and event programs - anything representative
of your relationship and the activities you like to do together. Leave
the last page blank, save for the words "Will You Marry Me" at the top.
Be sure to take a picture after the proposal to complete the last page
of the scrapbook.
Luxury Scavenger Hunt
Arrange for a limousine to pick her up at her house with the first
clue, and provide clues that lead her to all your favorite spots
through town. The last hint will lead her to you, on one knee with an
engagement ring.
Go Public
I say this with caution, because your sweetie may not want to share
this special moment with the world - only you can determine whether
this will go over well. That said, Valentine's Day is the perfect
occasion to use the media to your advantage, since many radio,
newspaper, or TV stations are looking for Valentine's Day stories and
would love to run your proposal on air or in print.
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