Are you having trouble choosing the perfect gift for your sweetheart? Times are tough and "We the people" are finding new and creative ways to say I love you without having to spend a dime.
This year's budget screams simplicity--at least to me it does. Heck this year, my valentine won't be home, so we are excused. For those of you who are less fortunate, if you haven't already made the big purchase, chances are its not for lack of ideas, but lack of funds. What are you to do?
I say it's time to take your queue from the pre-school aged kids--you know, steal their ideas, they will never know the difference and if they do catch on, they will feel honored that you considered their ideas worthy.
Consider making a coupon book for your loved one--it should be sacrificial on your end. Coupons that say "This coupon entitles recipient to massage significant other's feet", probably won't fair well. You could try it, but chances are you'll be sorry. Imagine; one coupon a day for 30 days--now this is a treat! A one hundred dollar bouquet of roses doesn't even come close to this kind of longevity. Carefully and lovingly, create your coupons. Go ahead, steal the construction paper and crayons from the kids. No, you may not use the computer; what kind of handcrafted, one-of-a-kind gift would that be--you have no children you say. No problem, construction paper and crayons are still cheaper than roses.
I remember the coupon books I received from my kids one year. I am a big fan of redemption, so I wasted no time cashing in on the goodies--what a joy!
What about writing a song or a poem that speaks all that is deep within your soul. So what if you are not a writer or a poet; as long as it is from your heart, your valentine will love it--or at least give you a long warm smile--until you turn your head, that is.
Okay, so you have gone over it a million times, you just can't think of anything to write--don't be too hard on yourself, not everyone is a Barry Manilow , or a Brothers-Gibb. Steal a song, hey--you have already stolen from a child, so this will be cake.
A few songs came to mind as I was watching West Side Story earlier this evening. Some just as sappy and cheesy as "I just kissed a girl named Maria", and some far worse, or better in terms of sappiness. These are sure to make your valentine's heart go pitter-patter.
Chantilly lace had a pretty face and a ponytail hangin' down
A wiggle in her walk and a giggle in her talk
Make the world go ‘round
Ain't nothing in the world like a big eyed girl to make act so
funny, make me spend my money
Make me feel real loose like a long necked goose
Like a-oh baby, that's a-what I like!
(The Big Bopper – Chantilly Lace)
You are here and so am I
Maybe millions of people go by
But they all disappear from view
And I only have eyes for you
(The Flamingo's – I only have Eyes for You)
Or how about the all-time famous Righteous Brothers
Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered for your touch, a long, lonely time
Time goes by so slowly, and time can do so much
Are you still mine
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
(Unchained Melody)
Finally, there is my personal family favorite
I love you--you love me
We're a great big family
With a great big hug
And a kiss from me to you
Won't you say you love me too!
(Barney – The big purple dinosaur)
It may be that this piece is too hokey for some readers; nevertheless, I do believe it speaks a certain truth and reminder of the simplicity of genuine love. My husband will be traveling home this valentine's weekend after working out of state these past four weeks. A solemn reminder of how important simple acts of love such as words of kindness, or talking to your loved one until they fall asleep--not getting mad, but feeling blessed because your voice is calm and soothing. While I am thinking about it, why not read to your special someone.
Singing love songs, making coupon books, and words of praise should be given all year long--because every day is a special day, a gift to be treasured with friends and family.
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