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Tonight I had the pleasure of joining my son and grandson to drive into town to see a new movie. Now I very seldom go to the movie theaters anymore-something that I once loved doing often when I was younger. Although I still love movies, I am now at the age that I am content to sit at home and watch movies on HBO, Showtime, and Pay Per View.

Tonight, however, was a totally new experience to me and made me realize just how old I am getting. The movie was in 3-D.

Do you remember the old cardboard 3-D glasses with the plastic colored lenses-the ones that you got to keep after the movie? Well, you know you're getting old when you go to see a 3-D movie and the glasses could pass as Sherwood or Pinehurst. Naturally, you don't get to keep them. A person is waiting just outside the door to collect them as you come out.



Do you remember when the cost to watch a movie at the theater was 25 cents and your popcorn and soda and candy came to a total of, maybe, 75 cents? Another way to tell you're getting old-my trip tonight cost me eight dollars for my ticket and cost my son twenty dollars for one medium bag of popcorn, one large drink, and three small boxes of candy and sixteen dollars for two tickets for himself and my grandson. We paid two dollars each extra for the glasses-which we had to return-I'm feeling older by the minute! Total cost for three people to see a movie and have refreshments: $44.

Was the movie worth this cost? Probably not. To see my grandson's excitement when the characters reached out of the screen and nearly touched his face-priceless. The movie we saw was Monsters vs Aliens. Fantastic cartoon. May not be as good on my TV now that I've been exposed to this new-age 3-D; but I enjoyed it immensely at the theater.

Now I'm looking forward to the time when we can see 3-D movies on our big-screen TV's in our living rooms! Or, this could just be another sign of old age; they don't have this option already, do they? Now I can hardly wait for the new 3-D Ice Age to hit the theaters.

We all learn something new everyday and it isn't unusual to relate to the old saying-you know you're such and such when

My son teaches me something new on the computer every day and I have worked with computers for many years and many years before he was even born. Of course, I don't feel so bad because I know that any time you buy a computer, it is out of date by the very next day. So old age doesn't mean everything. I personally don't mind getting old; I've had a wonderful life and feel that I can truthfully say that I have left my mark and made my peace with God. Getting old is just one more event in life's many stages.

I often have people ask me if I can remember when gasoline was under fifty cents a gallon; sure, I remember when it was twenty two cents-but that was during the early seventy's gas wars. I remember paying 1800 dollars for a brand new vehicle. There are so many memories that are a sign that I know I'm getting old, but that's ok; it is something that we all have to do and it doesn't hurt a bit.

Best wishes to all and Happy Aging to those who are getting there.


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Sandra E. Graham

Born in Walnut Ridge, Arkansas, Sandra graduated from Egypt High School in Egypt, Arkansas in 1965. Continuing her education by attending Eastfield College in Mesquite, Texas; Crowley’s Ridge Community College; Mississippi Community College; and finally back home to Arkansas State University in Jonesboro, Arkansas. She currently lives in Jonesboro with her husband, Donnie and a wealth of Grandchildren! Visit her website at www.sandragraham-articles-books.com to see her newest publications. Sandra's books Amos Jakey and Nicolina are historical adventure books published by American Book publishing and may be purchased through pdbookstore.com, Amazon, Books in Print, Barnes and Noble, and Baker & Taylor. She also writes free book reviews for authors through Book Pleasures.
 
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» left by Connor Davidson (4,736)
Connor Davidson
(193 days 17 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Great article. Well done.
 
I feel old sometimes. I am not even middle age!
 
I can remember the good old cardboard tube.
 
Wow! I'm first to comment!

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, Ar USA (193 days 11 hours ago.)
And I appreciate your comments, Connor. And I don't even remember middle age!ha
Have a great weekend.
Sandra

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» left by Grammy Guru (1,011) (193 days 10 hours ago.)
Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Such a nice article! I sure can relate. Sometimes those bonding experiences with our children and grandchildren are expensive, but they are great memory makers for you and your family members. I'm spending their inheritance, such as it is, enjoying great moments with them now.

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (192 days 10 hours ago.)
It is sad, but yes, I too am having to spend my grandchildren's inheritence just to survive. At least--God Willing--I will be able to leave them a nice income from the sale of our homeplace.
Thanks for reading and commenting.
Sandra

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» left by Joel Hendon (12,122)
Joel Hendon
(191 days 12 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Great article Sandra. But I have you beat on prices. I can remember when we could get into the Saturday afternoon matinee for $0.10. And a fair size bag of popcorn for 5 more cents. Roy Rogers and Gene Autry were about the only good actors we had.

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, aR USA (190 days 14 hours ago.)
You've got that right, Joel.  Roy Rodgers, Gene Autry, Cisco Kid, Lone Ranger, Howdy Doody, and "waaaaaaah"---I Love Lucy!
Thanks for reading and commenting.
Sandra

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» left by Teresa Ortiz (11,703)
Teresa Ortiz
(191 days 10 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Hi Sandra, I laughed when I saw your title. I hadn't seen this article when I wrote mine last night. Good thing I changed my title and theme :-) But I do have to say, yours is much better than what I would have done. Especially since the cheapest price I have ever paid for a movie was $3.25, unless of course it was $1.00 day :-)
 
I am glad you had a priceless time. Thanks for the smile. Blessings to you! Teresa

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, aR USA (190 days 14 hours ago.)
Yeah, I read your article but lost my internet connection before I had time to reply. I was going to tell you I had already beat you to the "You know you getting old when.."
Glad you enjoyed the article.  Thanks for reading and commenting.
Sandra.

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» left by Brianna Popsickle (1,928)
Brianna Popsickle
(190 days 18 hours ago.)

Thanks for a wonderful article Sandra! You're right, getting old is something we all have to do. Might as well fasten our seat belts and enjoy the ride!

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (190 days 14 hours ago.)
Good anology, Brianna.  Thanks for reading and commenting.  And Welcome to Searchwarp.
Sandra

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» left by Avis Ward (12,277)
Avis Ward
(190 days 17 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Sandra, very delightful and filled with whimsy, humor and the facts of life! Thanks for sharing it with us. It seems I will think I'm getting old and dare not say it out loud. I'll declare "my youth is renewed like the eagle", first! I accept the aging process with each day and I'm going out like you, prayerfully!

I don't think you're old, yet. Well-seasoned and perhaps over-ripe but not old!

Blessings to ya, young lady!

Avis

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (190 days 14 hours ago.)
"Well-seasoned and over-ripe"---delicious! I loved it.  Thanks for commenting, Avis.  Some days I feel thirty--other days I feel eighty.  Most days I thank God for having a good one.
Blessing to you, dear Friend.
Sandra

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» left by Ken McCreless (1,807)
Ken McCreless
(189 days 1 hour ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
You can watch 3D at home! It's awesome!!
 
 I remember when my brother and sister went to see "Jaws." It was $2:50 for each ticket, and they thought that was outrageous!
 
Fun article, Sandra!

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (188 days 19 hours ago.)
Yeah, I just found out last Saturday--my neice said she had some 3-D movies, but couldn't get her grandson to wear the glasses.  I've got to check into this.
Thanks for commenting.
Sandra

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» left by Ronyae (4,745)
Ronyae
(188 days 11 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
Sandra,
 
A delightful, entertaining flashback! I have been reminded of the change in times by the recent 3-D frenzy lately. Thank the skies that you are here to enjoy these 'changes' in time! Stay Blessed and Stay Young at Heart!

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, Ar USA (187 days 19 hours ago.)
Thanks so much, Ronyae, for reading and commenting.
Sandra

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» left by Lorrie Davids (7,709)
Lorrie Davids
(188 days 11 hours ago.)

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Hey Sandra. Great article! We got some free cardboard and tinted plastic wrap 3-D glasses at the grocery store for the special preview during the Super Bowl for the Monsters movie you wrote about. The next night "Chuck" was in 3-D also. I couldn't wear the glasses - the screen just didn't look right to me. But, after reading your article, I am looking forward to 3-D Ice Age at the theatre.

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (187 days 19 hours ago.)
Thanks, Lorrie for reading and commenting.
Have a good day.
Sandra

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» left by Freida from Paragould (187 days 13 hours ago.)
Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
I try to go out every once in a blue moon so that way I do not become a Hermit, but it is just way too expensive so do anything nowadays. My children don't like it, but they understand that is hard for a single mom to make it, even with a little bit of help. Great article by the way.

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, Ar USA (187 days 11 hours ago.)
Thanks for reading and commenting, Freida. I know all about single moms--I was one for a long time--and didn't have any grandparents nearby to help with the load. But women can be strong when they have to be.
Sandra

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» left by sue thom from nj (187 days 10 hours ago.)
Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
hi sandra,
 
i'm glad you got to go to the movies with your son and grandson. i think being with the kids we raised, and the kids they are raising, is God's biggest gift to us. i'm sure the 3D made the movie more fun and interesting, but just being with your boys must have been great.
 
thank you for sharing,
 
my best regards,
 
sue

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (187 days 8 hours ago.)
That it was, Sue. Thanks for reading and commenting.
Sandra

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» left by Linda DeWitt (1,862)
Linda DeWitt
from Oregon (187 days 8 hours ago.)

Reader Rating: 5 out of 5
I love going to the movies with my grandchildren and children. It is always such a treat to watch and hear the comments of the little one. That movie hasn't come here yet but I plan on going to see it with or without the kids. Growing older has only given me a greater zest for living. Thanks for sharing the memories your making.

Linda D


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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, aR USA (187 days 8 hours ago.)
You won't regret seeing this movie in 3-D--it was great.
Thanks for reading and commenting, Linda.
Sandra

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» left by Michelle Mackin (186 days 20 hours ago.)
HI Mom!
 
Now you have another great-grandson to go to the movies with. I will call you later today.
 
Love you,
Michelle

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» left by Michelle Mackin (186 days 20 hours ago.)
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Thank you Sandra! Your article brought to mind many things I could look back on. I just celebrated another year myself on the 4th. But, I am only as old as I feel. Life has been good to me and I feel blessed to be here. I get excited about sharing life stories with my grandchildren.
 
Love, hugs and blessings,
 
Michelle

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» left by Sandra E. Graham from Paragould, AR USA (186 days 11 hours ago.)
Thank you, Michelle. It isn't bad getting old--it's just a state of mind.  I have a coffee cup that says "I'm just not sure what state I'm in." Ha.
Have a good one.
Sandra

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» left by Camille Strate (1,453)
Camille Strate
(66 days 18 hours ago.)

Dearest Sandra ~ Whenever someone would tease my dad about getting older, he would say, "It beats the alternative" A smart and funny man he was! As I get older I am reminded of just how much more there is yet to live. Looking back may seem a bit daunting sometimes, but life is about change, yes? I think it's marvelous that you get to experience such things (the 3D thing!) with your grandson. As the saying goes: we do not stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing.
 
Seize the moment!

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» left by Sandra E. Graham (7,535)
Sandra E. Graham
(25 days 9 hours ago.)

Thanks so much, Camille. Sorry it took me so long to get around to returning a comment. Best wishes and your Dad was right, it does beat the alternative.

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