Is there any particular sex positions I should know about to please my partner. No. There is a multitude of different positions linked to sexual activity, and just like people who practice them, they to also differ. When it boils down to sex positions it is all about personal preference, or sadly in some cases of a disability – sex positions are limited. It's about what you and your partner are comfortable with but more importantly, "enjoy." Satisfaction is the key to good sex.
For good sex both parties need to be agreed upon on what sex position is best and pleasing for them "both." If we have one satisfied person and one who is not then I am afraid it could result in serious complications rising in your relationship. You need to find out each other's likes and dislikes before performing in the bedroom.
Any matter linked to sex is and always will be classed as a sensitive issue. Sensitive issues include personal likes, dislikes, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy or infections.
For pleasurable sex to take place there has to be good "communication between both people," along with body exploration tactics. Try out different sex positions till you find one enjoyable for you both. Be careful when experimenting in the sleeping quarters as accidents can happen. Your main objective is to find out what turns your partner on, or turns them off. Do this by feeling and touching. Begin with fondling, stroking and rubbing; even gentle prodding or poking maybe necessary. If the body writhes this indicates more times than not that your partner is finding whatever it is you are doing likeable, or ticklish. It is up to you to decipher which it is.
Now we've established the reason why we can't be more precise in our prediction of the best sex position, let us look at the one deemed most popular among couples.
The missionary position: Men on top positions aren't always passive for the woman. When the man settles on top of the woman it is called the "missionary" position. It is a sexual arrangement which allows the woman to control how much penal penetration is accepted thus setting the pace for sexual intercourse. We have several variations involved with the 'missionary' position, so it is up to you and your partner to settle on one or the other. It's your choice.
Missionary Sex Position Description:
The woman lies on her back with her legs apart. The man then settles on top and penetrates from this position. Why this is the most common position when there isn't much involved is hard to understand. But as stated earlier about what are the best sex positions, "each to their own." Because the missionary position is uncomplicated and convenient i.e. "under and over - in and out, and your done, it is essential to initiate foreplay to add excitement. Good sex is always the result of what is initiated before the penis comes in contact with the vagina.
People have their own reasons for having sex this way. It is seen as a romantic position as it allows eye contact and kissing. Whereas the sex position which involves the man making entry from the rear - makes it impossible for kissing and cuddling. Women have said they feel helpless and hopeless because this arrangement restricts them from making an input. All women can do is to prepare the vagina for entry. Men love to dominate or be dominated, and it is the missionary position which permits him to "dominate." Women said their satisfaction came primarily from being dominated during intercourse.
Good Sex and Seduction Tips
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Sex is more times thought about before reaching the bedroom; therefore keep good body hygiene because you never know when it is to be your lucky night.
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Everyone smells: and certain odors are deemed acceptable, however we have them that are not. Don't leave it to chance if you don't know which smell turns your partner off, "so wash."
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Clean your teeth and use a mouth wash. Bad breath is a major turn off.
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Eat a light snack before sexual intercourse. Heaviness will hamper performance, and if the missionary position is practiced then give some consideration to the woman underneath.
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Oysters and asparagus are assumed to be aphrodisiacs, but this is only because of visual or olfactory associations.
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Remember brewers droop fella's. Alcohol can raise a man's desire but lessens his ability to perform well.
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If in an infection is suspected you should not contemplate having sex until it is cleared up.
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Always use a condom
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Don't wade on in and take your time. Focus on the genitalia taking things slow as you massage your partner. Massage is a great alternative to actual foreplay of the genitals, especially if your partner is tired or stressed.
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Tell your partner at every convenience how attractive or handsome he/she is. Kiss, compliment and spoil while caressing.
Both genders have their off days so approach with caution. Force should never come into the equation if one partner is not feeling up to having sex. If they say no then they mean no.
Women take longer to get aroused and get as much pleasure out of body intimacy like, kissing and cuddling. If arousal is permitted to build steadily, it streams the whole body rather than being restricted to the genital region and a delayed orgasm is mightier than an orgasm persuaded by minutes of digital exploitation.
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Make foreplay time lengthy
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Make love by only candlelight.
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Splash out on sexy lingerie.
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Bathe together in a bubble bath surrounded by rose petals and candles. Have a glass of Champagne
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Use whipped cream to spice up the sex
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Make it a point to feel and touch every inch of partner's body.
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Compliment your partner on how they look while making love
Good sex derives from sharing what it is you like and enjoy with your partner. If you shy away from doing this then how is your partner expected to know how to please you. Both men and women tend to believe they are failures if they can't satisfy their partner, when if they had of known the spots to hit before the sex then everything would have been spot on in the bedroom
Spare your partner the humiliation. Guide and show them the way to pleasure you so you have the best sex ever
Good sex and Vaginal Infections/odor are major turn offs along with the problem Dry Vagina
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